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I am a senior in high school and I have a lot of experience in ALL types of areas! I am here to help anyone and everyone that needs it! I do not judge and I try to help you to the best of my ability! Thanks everybody!

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Finals are this week. Whats a good way to study. Or at least for bio..Last time I studied six hours and I got a 76..um..there is obviously something wrong. Can anybody help?

I took my bio final last week so I know where you are coming from. I would recommend that you study by making flashcards or writing/typing out a study guide with the answers. It sometimes helps to write things out/down and it gets in your head faster. Also, don't stress out. It'll make you freak and no matter how well you know the stuff, you probably won't do too well. So my suggestion is to just take a deep breath, study for an hour or so and you'll be fine. Also, be optomistic and have faith in yourself! With that, you can do anything. I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck! You'll do great! - GC07

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i'm thinking of making a "sister cd" for, well, my sister.

i can think of barely any songs that would fit, any ideas?

That sounds like a really great and cute idea! I would put any song that reminds you of her in it and/or any song that you have had good times with or that she likes or that you have inside jokes about. Some examples of good family/sisterly love songs are:

-Ain't No Mountain High Enough by Diana Ross (fun, crazy but it gets a good message across)

-We Are Family by the Corrs (haha. it's a classic!)

-Unwritten by Natasha Bedingfield (different in the sense that it gives her good advice and hope for her future because there is no advice than sisterly advice!)

-Be Yourself by Audioslave (same reason as above)

-Gone So Young by Amber Pacific (for when she needs you and you can't be there)

Hope I helped and good luck with everything. I'm sure your sister will love the CD you made for her! I love that idea and let me know how it goes! -GC07

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i have a running problem. i can only run for like 2 min and after that i'm so tired that really sucks and i always start running soooo fast and after 2 min i'm tired! what can i do to last longer? i know i'm breathing right! and in about 3 weeks my school has this running compatition and i dont wanna win but i also dont wanna ambaress myself so pleeaaassee help me!!!

Try and start slow. Keep a steady pace. If you start by going full blast, you get tired a lot quicker. Start slow and keep a steady pace with your breathing. Also, eat right. Carbs help alot. It gives you more energy. But don't forget to channel that energy into a STEADY pace. You'll run a lot longer that way. I hope I helped and I hope you have fun running in your compatition! Let me know how it goes! - GC07

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I am a teenage girl. I get really horny and enjoy it when I see girls boobs. I'm not sure if this is unusual or not. I also get horny when I see guys to. I would never act in messing around with a girl. But I would and I have messed around with guys and I enjoy it. Guys give me pleasure, its just I also get pleasure from looking at girls. So do you think I am a lesbians or something?
Please help!!!

This can be completely normal. But before you make up your mind about this, think if this "hornyness" you are feeling towards both sexes are in fact different feelings. I say this because it is definitely normal for someone to look at the same sex and like what they see. You may just be happy with what you have and are proud of being a woman but also know that there is a very thin line there. If you are attracted to girls boobs and want to act on it (which you said you didn't but I just want to go over nonetheless), that may show that you are in fact bi-sexual, which is completely fine as well. Don't let people influence you and what you believe and who you are. So, my advice in a nutshell is that while I think you are straight, think about it some more and make sure that you have no feelings to mess around with girls just as much as you do with boys and enjoy it. Also, don't be embarrassed if you are in fact a bi-sexual. There is nothing wrong with being you! Good luck and let me know how it goes. - GC07

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Me and my Ex dude broke up at the end of march and its the end of May. We fight and argue about the dumbest and stupidest things. I tell me that im over hima nd i don't really care bout him, but how come when he aint around im thinkin of him non-stop and when i seen him like i did today on my way home i jus remember what we use to have and he just looks so gorgeous. Why do we non-stop argue and why do i miss him when i say im over him. i dont feel the same bout him. so am i really over him or no...

Okay, this may sound COMPLETELY crazy but maybe the reason you two are fighting so much is because you guys still care about eachother alot. You may think that you don't feel the same way about him because of the fact that you two argue constantly but maybe it is because he is the only one that you WANT to give your time and energy to fight with. From what you are saying, I don't think you are over him and I don't think he is over you either. I just think you guys think you should be over eachother because you guys fight so much but try looking at the glass half full. No matter how much you may think all this fighting is ruining your relationship, it might be trying to show you two that you love eachother and that after the disagreements, no matter how dumb they could be, you guys learn about eachother, which in turn, has you two grow even stronger together. Talk to him about it. Try not to yell and try and figure out where you both are coming from. It might just be to your liking. Good luck and let me know how it goes! - GC07

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my boyfriend and i got pretty close last night to a home run but i got scared and froze up what should i do to calm down and go with the flow

sex scared

It's possible that the reason you are scared is because you're emotionally not ready for that kind of intimacy yet. Don't rush into it. Do it at your own pace. Make sure you and your guy talk about it so you both know you are on the same page with things. If you are ready however, get yourself "pretty-fied" as I like to say. Dress cute, shave, get your hair and nails done -do anything that makes you feel desirable. Then when the time comes, you will feel even more willing because you yourself feel sexy. This also boosts your confidence, which is really hott to guys. So, in a nutshell, make sure you are actually ready, REALLY ready, and then go and get "pretty-fied". haha. Good luck and let me know how it goes! - GC07

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