Hey. i'm emily and i love to give advice. just dont ask me the questions "o i'm so fat!, or, o i'm so ugly!, or how do i get him to ask me out!?". the answers to those questions are, be happy with yourself on the inside and flirt. okay? moving on then. i'd like to use my time as an advicenator to help people who really need the advice. not to the next girl who thinks she's fat or ugly. because you all are beautiful. thanks in advance for all your marvelous questions and i hope i helped out!
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13/female... you know me
I apoligize for the length of my question.
I'm in love with this boy "Albert" who goes to a different school than me and I'm beginning to think that the whole thing is just stupid, but I have my doubts. I really like him, but haven't seen him for awhile. I lie to my parents so I can wait for hours online so that I can talk to Albert. It's really pathetic, but he's the only guy that would go out with me for the time being. Not many guys like me and I'd love to go out with Albert because he understands me and loves me for who I am. The catch is, I don't know if he for-sure likes me. So, what am I to do in this situation? (link)
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If he's a guy you really like, then you should stick with it. But dont wait online for hours because even though you really want to talk, dont act desperate because guys arent worth that much. spend more of your time with your friends because they definitely stick longer than guys. By the way, i think i know who this is and if you know that i know, im me so we can talk about it more.
hope i helped~
Emily88
and please have a happy valentines day!
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hey okay...i need help BIG time! ok well like i like this guy he is in 10th grade and i am in 8th grade and we are neighbors and have been friends but like we kinda are goin for the more than friends kinda thing but like this guy i went out with in like october likes me again but he hurt me really bad and like..idk who to still go for or just ignore both or wat?? PLEASE HELP!!! IDK!!!
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Well you said it yourself you like the 10th grader better so i'd stick with him if i were you... plus you said the other guy hurt you, and we dont want that ever to happen again, so stick with the 10th grader....
hope i helped!
Emily88
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Ok. There is this girl at our school and like 2 monthes ago, i got the same shoes as her. Now, yesterday she wore these shoes to school and my friend and I alreayd have them but we were just too scared to wear them. So anyways, should we wear them to school or what, beacuse this girl gets mad whenver people :copy: her. What should we do?! (link)
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Totally tell her that you had them first. THe other day i wore this dark blue shirt with hollister in yellow across the chest and then the next day a really popular gurl in my school wore the same exact one. I was just like... whatever, i know it looks better on me though! hehe. So if anyone thinks that you copy her or anything like that, just say, they totally look better on me!
hope i helped!
Emily88
p.s.- have a happy V-day!
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now and as we all know Valentines Day is really soon but i cant seem to figure out what to get him, i dont want to get hime like cologne or jewlery or clothes, something diffrent but i can't figure it out and i really need to figure out soon, can someone please help me out PLEASE (link)
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Is there anything that you two share in common or maybe have an inside joke that you could interpret into your gift? i know chocolate is a little too common but, hey, any girl who gives a guy chocolate is gonna be high in his book. Or any other type of candy..... Wait! you could totally get him Lucky Pix! have you heard of them? if not go to www.lucky-pix.com and you can order one. They are guitar pix that 14 year old guys created and they are really kewl. i'm getting a red one and they are awsome. so totally check that out if he likes guitars or think of them as totally kewl even if he doesnt like guitars.
hope i helped!
Emily88
happy valentines day!
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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall! (link)
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actually by law the age limit to be boyfriend and girfriend is 4 years apart. so you just got it! have fun and fill me in on what happens!
Emily88
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i am crazy about a boy at school but he dosent like me but we've been out before and i wanted him to give him another chance i just really like him to an obsession that i dont no what to do should i leave him
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wow, never saw that long of a sentence with taht much stuff... cool. anyways, has he said that he doesnt like you?Has he said he does? if you like him so much, then sure, ask him out, but make sure he has his eye on you too or else if he says no he'll stick out like an orange m&m in a green bag. but its up to you really. Hope i helped! fill me in on what happens.
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I am a thirteen year old female and I have a close male friend who is also thirteen. We are very good friends but we don't have any type of sexual relationship at all. Today we were having a discussion about soul mates and I decided that I think that he might be my soul mate, as in a friend not a lover. My question is, do you think it is possible to find your soul mate at thirteen? We are really good friends, I tell him everything and we are always together. (link)
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Well, soul mate is a pretty big thing. at thirteen its probably hard to tell because you still have your whole life ahead of you and you never know when you might meet that other special guy. But for right now, if thats the way you feel than sure, you can have a soul mate, but dont be surprized if him or you finds someone else down the road... hope i helped!
Emily88
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A lot of people think I'm different, because I'm Jewish. Well, I consider it! And everyone else says, "Are you a catholic or christian?" ANd I say, "No. I'm way more on the jewish side." And they say, "Ooh, that's too bad." WHY CANT THEY MIND MY RELIGION? WHY DO THEY DO THIS? HOW CAN I MAKE THEM STOP? WHAT CAN I SAY BACK TO THEM?
Will rate high! (link)
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hey! omg, i am Jewish too. both my parents are and some people think that its a weird thing... i mean, 1 time in art this one guy that sat at my table was like, is anyone jewish? and i was like, me, and so he was like, o then nvrmind, and its the little things like that that just piss me off. but other times people are like that is so kewl, and some of my friends like to come over during like Channukah or Passover just b/c they're interested in it. so just go up to people who think being Jewish is a bad idea and be just like, so what if i am? There is so much more to being Jewish than just Channukah and knowing another language. have you had your Bat MItzvah yet? i have and its the best thing in the world. all my friends had so much fun and thats a time to be just like, whoa, all u others sux. so maybe you just have to find the right people that accept your religion.
hope you reach your goals and fill me in soon!
Emily
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Okay. I went out with this one guy, like 3 times. And every single time, I thought he changed, but he hasn't. I used to think that I loved him.. But then everytime we go out, he acts like a jerk. At first he would just completly ignore me.. Then he would go on to throwing rocks at me and other stuff like that.
What should i do? Every time i try to talk to him..He says he will change, but he doesnt.How can i help? And he told me that IM the reason HE chews. Im about to go cut myself! Plez help! (link)
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no no no. if he is the jerk that so many guys can be these days dont even give him any attention. soon enough, he'll realize what he's lost by being such an asshole. and sweetie, dont cut yourself, its not worth doing if its over a boy, i mean c'mon, if you go over what you wrote, guys aren't everything. if he really ignores you, throws rocks at you?, or anything else, you need to let him go. Hes an ass, and you shouldn't do so much for his attention, guys should do that for girls more often... you know?
i hope you reach your goals and your beautiful!
Emily
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ok.. well.. heres my little situation! im about 5'6 and i weigh 106. yeah i don't like my thighs very much.. i mean they're small.. but big. yeah that makes sense right? haha i know it doesn't. anywaysss well im going to california in march and i want to maybe loose 2 or 3 pounds to weigh 104 or 103. i don't want to be anorexic about it or anything even though i act kind of anorexic sometimes. yeah i don't know if i should try lose a couple pounds or not.. i mean i know im skinny.. i guess but w/e. do you think i need too? and i dont eat that much already so what would a healthy (atleast somewhat) way to do this?
thanks.. srry its long-ish (link)
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you have to believe that you are beautiful to be beautiful. and i have to assure you, by your height and weight, you probably most certainly are. but if you really want to loose a few lbs. heres what you should do. You should eat proper meals like maybe special K with strawberries cereal for breakfast. maybe a ceasar salad for lunch. and some meat with veggies for dinner. try to stay away from soda and try to do maybe a little less junk-foody snacking. maybe have celery with PB or fruit. just eat complete meals and healthy meals and your bound to loose at least 2 or three.
hope you get to your goals and remember, you are beautiful!!
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