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Situation: My mom basically got mad because my older sister gave my little cousin glitter, and it escalated into a big fight. Evantually my mom said (right in front of my grandma and little cousin) that my sister smokes and she found her butts downstairs. I called my mom a bitch and flipped her off and ran to my little sister because she was crying. I told my mom I lost all respect in her because what she did was downright rude, saying it in front of company. Then she told my little sister that I was the one that told her (which is true, I am worried for her, but I told my mom that in trust, not so she could tattle) and now...I can't even trust her. It just, I can't believe she'd do this rude of things.

Well, now my mom is saying that all of this happened because she shouldnt have to take the dog out (the dog was practically a mini-part in the fight!) she said everybody here was wrong because she shouldnt have to come home and take the dog out (which would take less than a minute to do, plus everybody else in the house has been doing it all day). She won't even admit she is wrong! She wants an apology from us.

Should I suck it up and apologize. Am I in the wrong, because I feel awful for calling her those names. I don't know what to do...

you aren't the one who is wrong here it is your mom that was very rude to say that infront of company but like your mom should be the one to actually apologize.... I think that she shouldnt have told anyone because you told her that as a secret....

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So I really like this guy.. I think he likes me too! I am 14 and he is 17 but he is really sweet and I saw him tonight and when his friend was givin us a ride home he held me the whole time and was warming me up. The thing is I think he miiiight like someone else but im not quite sure.. I am starting to like him though.. what should i do?

AWwwwwww well keep on doing whatever your doing to make him like you but like ask him who he likes he may say you.. he may say no one meaning you..he may say noone meaning no one...or he may say the other person that he likes... but keep on flirting and everything and just wait a while maybe you two will go out ... hope I helped

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Sorry if this is to long for you, i just need some help. My mom has been having problems with her health lately, and she has not been doing very well. She went to the doctors about 5 days ago and she found out that she might have cancer but they are still checking, the thing is she won't know until monday or later and i don't think i can wait that long. They think she might have cancer because she has blood in her urine. It is not visible blood but they do know that it is in there. They have checked her for other things such as urinary track infection and they do not believe it is that, and i am really worried. The doctor says she is extremely scared that it is cancer. I live with my mom, i dont know what i would do with out her. If you have any info about what type of cancer this maybe if it is cancer please let me know, and i know this may sound incredibially cheesy but if you could pray for my mom that would be a huge help to. It seems like everything in her life for her has been messing up lately, and i just want things for her to be better. I would appreciate it, if you did not send me back things calling me stupid because i am doing this, i'm just a worried daughter afraid of loosing basicially her everything. Thank you so much, i rate 5's for anyone who even attempts to help.

OMIGOD, I am so sorry I feel really bad for you, I hope your mom feels better I will tell my parents to pray for your mom because they are SUPER religious..so yea... but like I searched about the blood in the urine and it said it was a common problem and like it is called hematuria, it also says that it could be urinary track. It also said that when it isnt visible that it could be microscopic hematuria. Im sorry but if you want some more info you can contact me here whenever you want.. Also I am always online

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My bf is acting really weird. He used to ride me all the time about being unemployed. He would say that I needed to better my life and to stop living off the system (welfare). Well that just wasnt true that I didnt want to better my life because I was volunteering at two different jobs to get a good reference.
Anyways, all the volunteering paid off because I finally got a good job at a store that was a UNION!
At first my bf was happy and said he hoped it would work out.
Well it has worked out REALLY well. I've been getting good hours, and get along with everyone. And I'm having FUN too!!
When I told my bf this he sounded like he was mad or something that it was working out so well!
I don't understand him, first he's mad I'm not working, then when I do get a good job he sounds jealous! Does anyone have any ideas on why he's acting this way? I will give everyone 5's.

Maybe he is mad at himself for really not believe you could do it...or maybe he got fired from HIS job and is mad at you for getting a better one than him or something...If I were you I would ask him why he is being so wierd about your new fun, cool, job...Hope I helped...

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i liked him.
and now hes an ass.
and he liked my bestfreind.
and he just wants to have sex with me.
PLEASE HELP.

It soungs like he is just using you to get to your best friend.... but that guy is a jerk... Also don't have sex with him if he is like being mean to you.... Besides the only person you should have sex with is like someone who you love and that person should love you back...Hope I helped you a little

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Me and my sister have never gotten along, but lately weve started to be more civil to each other. I am 27 and she is 23. She still lives with our mother.She recently told me that she quit her job, which sort of surprised me.
Well I'm really worried about something that I did. My dad (who is divorced from our mom)phoned me about two weeks ago and asked me how my new job was going. I told him that I was getting lots of hours and that I liked it.
Well then I mentioned to my dad that my sister should apply at the store I'm working at because she just quit her job. Then my dad said"WHAT"? I then said, "what, didnt' you know"? He was really mad and said "why the hell would she quit her job before finding another one"?
I told him to please not say anything to her.
I recently talked to my sister and she asked me if I told our dad she quit her job. I lied and said no, then she said she didnt want him to find out.
I did a really shitty thing but it wasnt really my fault, I didnt know I wasnt supposed to say anything. I'm really worried she will find out it was me that spilled the beans, how can I ever make it up to her? I already bought her a nice Xmas gift but don't think thats enough.

I feel so bad but I know how you feel, me and my sister are 3 years apart and like we hate each other and I did the same exact thing to her, all you do is come clean to her....or try to anyway...but like tell her that you are really sorry, and that you told your dad before she told you not to tell him. Say to your sister that you thought your dad knew... and hopefully that will work... Hope I helped

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Everyone is asking me what I want for Christmas and I just dont know so could you help me out? I'm a total girlie girl. I already have a cell phone and TV and dont want my own computer.

I rate 5's for anyone who tries even if I don't like what you say, I just want some options.

OkayThanksLoves..Bye!

a gift certificate maybe just say suprise me,they are your friends I'd think they would know lol I like to be surprised alot lol, But like maybe nail polish, socks, a handbag, jewelry or something.

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how can you tell if a guy likes you???
and how do you flirt back????


*~SAMMY~*

I did some research on the internet and like I found out that if you look in the persons eyes, there pupils enlarge that is how you know the person likes something they see...

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im deepresed and im failing every class and report cards are coming out and my dad will be hella pist what should i do i will rate 5 if you give me a good answer

I would try and work harder... or get like a tutor or something or ask a friend if they can come over to help you with your homework that should get your grades back up but your depression. HMMMM well to get out of the depressing mood you could listen to music, make your fav drink or food or something. You could also call your friends and ask some of them or like go to the movies or hang out with someone... Hope I helped you

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well,i like this guy. we're both the same age and in the same grade. (we're 14, in 9th grade) i've known him for 2 years and we're basically friends and all,right? I like him alot. I've liked him for 7 months or so. He's really nice and funny. I see him on the weekends and hang out with him. And my friend thinks he likes me. And sometimes I think so too,because it seems as if he's flirting with me at times. But then I dont know,he might just be friendly. But when I look at him, he looks at me and smiles after a couple of seconds. He teases me alot. And he helps me open my locker when I cant open it. We always try to trip each other,which is kinda strange I guess. But well...yeah stuff like that. And i dont know if he just likes me as a friend or more. and how can i tell him i like him? other than of course,just saying it straight out. well,i guess i could do that. but uhmm...yeah i dont know. and also...well,do you think he might like me?

help plz!?!?

WOW yeah I think he likes you... If you are afraid to ask him straight out in the open or anything get a friend to do it and if he says yeah i like her than tell your friend to tell him that you like him back and than boom you are going out with him.... by the sound of it you two would make an awesome couple...Hope I could help alittle

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I live in Florida. 14/f. Anyway, we have company in town from Ohio. A little girl who is six years old and a little boy who is almost two years old. What would be some things that we could do Tomorrow with either just the six year old or both the six year old and her brother? The mother would be coming too but we can't think of anything to do.

♥ haleigh

hmmm maybe you can go to like a park and buy icecream and stuff and you can play a game and have fun with them and bake things and do stuff the kids would like to do ask them what they want to do....

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theres this guy that i really like. i didn't realize i did until about a month ago. he goes to my school. its a private school so its really small. hes in almost all my classes and in some i sit by him [assigned seats]. anyways. he's so shy. well.. not really in front of other people, but around me. i dont really have a problem talking to him.. its just kind of awkward sometimes. and i know he's not like afraid of girls because he's had girlfriends before. does anyone know any good icebreakers or anything like that that would make us not so shy to eachother?? thanks. anything else i need to know would be great! I RATE ALL FIVES

awwwwwwwww I think you two should go out ... well I think you should like talk to him and like make him laugh, try and get him involed with stuff with you and your other friends so he can like start to hang out with you and all your other friends and then maybe when he finally isnt shy anymore you can like little by little give him signals to you liking him and you can go out or something.... Im sorry if I did no help at all for you

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OUCH! I have terrible terrible cramps that keep me up at night and make me tear. Ive been in tears off and on..I REALLY NEED SOME HELP! Make these stop. Please help! Ill rate 5! Umm I cant go get any type of medicine like midol. Im stuck at home...so dont say that..HELP!

I looked stuff up for you on the internet and I found alot and here is what I found:
*Drink over a gallon over water a day.
*Stick with clear liquids to drink.
*Relax, try and rest it off a little
I hope some of that helps you

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my friend has a horrible boyfriend. he always acts like he's in love with other girls when hes not around her. and when he is around her they are all over eachother. and knowing my friend, its kind of gross. and he's so rude to me and all my other friends. my friend just doesnt see this. i know he will break her heart sooner or later. because she knows that he isnt totally in on the relationship, but she likes him too much to notice that. i'm afraid for my friend. he will really hurt her heart. [trust me i'm not jelous, i would never like this guy]. what should i do? i rate 5's

ok well tell your friend.. to maybe come to a spot where he always is and your friend can hide and you can show her that he cheats on her when she isnt around, or you can hide a camera lol and like record it to prove that he is deff. cheating on her...I'd rather have my friends than a boy friend who cheats and acts mean to me other friends... if ya know what I mean.

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My brother's birthday is coming up next week he is turning 24 and i have no clue what to get him. He doesnt play video games and he doesn't like band tee-shirts. It can cost no higher then $30. If anyone has any helpful suggestions it would be very helpful.

The best thing to do when you don't know what your friends/family really want, is you get them a gift certificate and they make them like 30, 50, 25, etc... but it can be for any store too but yea id say go with the gift certificate.. o and happy bday to your brother :)

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There's this song by Queen and Bowie calleed Under Pressure.
MCR and the used did a pretty good cover on it too..

i love the song and i want to know.. what are some good sites to look for video codes or song codes for myspaces that would possibly have that song in their library?

well there is one on www.videocodezone.com right now for that but it isnt working but it is the only site that has it right now , it is mcr and the used live ...i searched for it under my chemical romance...


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when someone goes "ill tap that!" or say "you know you'd tap that!" does it mean have sex basically? thanks in advance, I RATE HIGH for GOOD

ugh yeah it does, it means to have sex with you and like slap your ass

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HOW DO I GET RID OF DEPRESSION? I ve tried but I cant. Please give me some suggestions. Thankz bye.

Well what I do is I buy myself like some icecream lol, or listening to music helps me... but sometimes you need your friends too.. like you need to talk to them to get youself out of the depressing mood.. I probably didn't help at all but I tried..

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Ok this is kinda long but please answer me please

Ok well it all started in the summer. Me and my Friend who is a guy played a game called runescape and i would give him free stuff and stuff and we would hang out as computer pixels all day, lol. I used to talk to this guy all the time about my mini problems like how i didnt have any friends and he was always sooo nice to me and thats when i really started to like him!


anyways now we are back in school and he got cuter ;) I would always go t o the libary to see him because he wouldplay runescape there but now they cancelled runescape at the libary so hes not there:( So i see him at school and omg Hes so hot... I wana ask him out but im so scared because if someone finds out they will make fun of me. And anyways i dont want to ruin our friendship :) I love him sooo much please help me!!!

man this is a hard one... well first of all never ever be afraid if someone finds out that you asked a really hot boy out, because if I asked someone that hot out, I would be proud that I had enough courage too.. but anyway... you should like start talking to him and stuff and then like say "I kinda like you" and then see what he says...he may say "I like you too" and BOOM you will be going out hehe, :( but if he says "ohh well I don't like you in that way and I don't want to be your friend anymore", then man you have to find someone better because that is sooooo immature... but if he says "I dont like you but ill still be your friend", well at least you tried....hope I helped you in some way...

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Ok, i have bf...we're not totally serious or anything i mean we're only 13, but still i like him ALOT! he's always on my mind, we snuggle whenever we're around eachother. Neither one of us are aloud to date tho so our parents don't know. What should i get him for christmas? i really wanna show him i care. I mean, i do really really really like this guy!

well you can make him something or like buy him a little something or you can like give him something of yours that means like EVERYTHING to you. Or maybe just hold his hand everywhere or something like that..

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