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Thats me Chrissy. when you ask me about your problems you might want to here something different then what i might answer. but i will only answer the real thing. i will answer with what i think is best what i really honestly think you should do. Dancing is my life. you might want to know im 13/F almost 14 in feburary. i have the greatest friends and not to mention boyfriend who goes by the name Jared.
ask me anything about dance, school, myspace, friends, relation ships, anything. instant message me, email me, add me on myspace. im always here to help. my best answers are about love life towards friends and family and relations ships. and ever better answers towards dance or muscle pains. need help on make-up ask clouded-bluee. on my favorite columnists shes one of my best friends. and other then her as my best friend i have ashley cassidy jason erin and taylor. they helped me through everything of teenage years and still got six years of them helping me through it.

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13/f
alright so my best friends name is jess. we have been best friends since 4th grade. but lately, i dont know whats gotten into her. she neber eats lunch anymore and when she does its a pretzel. she doesnt sit next to me at lunch like she used to. you would think that she would because we only have 1 class together. i dont know whats going on. now shes turning into a complete anorexic hoe. she wears jeans wayy too tight and her shirts are way to low cut and tight. i have tried talking to her about it but she doesnt take me seriously and she gets mad. and she also keeps blowing me off to go hang out with someone else. dont tell me to drop her because i dont want to do that. she has really changed. i dont know what to do.

i noticed you said you only have one class with her. i have 3 classes with my best friend and everythings great till she goes to lunch with her other best friend who i dont get along with. and i totally know how you feel about the blowing off part. what i did was hang more with other people and tried to get her jealous but it doesnt work so dont try that. but mostly you should talk to her more and say hey dont take this too seriously and dont get mad i just dont want to lose my friend since 4th grade and just tell her how you feel. dont make it seem your mad at you although u might be but just show you really care

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I'm getting my hair done on Saturday. Cut and color. I'm pretty much keeping my haircut, but i want to drastically change the color. Here is a picture of me. http://myspace-972.vo.llnwd.net/01184/27/92/1184492972_l.jpg

ideas would be great. :]

try a darker color, maybe black or brown because you have really pretty blue eyes. and dark colors go good with the blue eye color.

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hey every one im 16/m
well i wonted to know how can i stop a girl from likeing me i have tryed every thing from acting stupid but its not working at all she follows me to class every day and i dont wont to be mean but i dont wont her by me at all but tha bad thing about it is she wont say nothing at all all she will do is wave so i dont kno can some one plz tell me what to do

personally i would walk with other girls or talk to other girls so she gets the point you dont like her.

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why does it take so long for questions to come up on here? i asked a question 4 hours ago and its stilll not up? and the same questions are up that have been up all day? what if someone has an important question?

first off... if u read after u ask a qouestion it says about 3 hours. second. if someone has an important qouestion im sure they wont spend there time asking people on the computer. they would probably be asking ther friends and family.=]

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Whenever I put my hair up [using a hair band] in something like a ponytail, it usually falls down soon after. How do you put your hair up and use your band to make it tight abnd sturdy, and so that it stay for a long period of time?

uhmm double tie it =]or triple tie it its actually cuter when its lose and if it falls out put it back in it looks cuter cuz then its redid.

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I'm not sure what category this should be in, but here goes anyway!
I was reading about that guy who killed those five Amish girls then killed himself and it said he may have planned to "truss" them. What does "truss" mean exactly?! Thanks!
~Eden

why dont you go on www.dictionary.com
good help i know.

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Okay, there is this guy, we will call him Bob. Well Bob has liked my friend for the logest time like he was ubbsessed with her, well her and her boyfriend just broke up. (They both want to go back out) But after she and her ex broke up, Bob asked her out, she doesn't even like him really, and she wants to date her ex, but my problem is I like Bob! What do I do??

tell your friend how you feel about "bob". there really shouldnt be no problem since she doesnt like bob and she likes her ex.

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who sings the song "Roc Ya Body"?? I know you hate these questions but i cant find any results on google =)

justin timberlake. sings rock your body.

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I have a problem with my hair. I do it all nice in the morning and striahgten it whether its for school or just going out on the weekends and by the end of the day, my bangs [i have side swept bangs] seem to get stringy and cling together in sections and look greasy. I don't really use hair products before i blow dry my hair and straighten it so my hair doesn't get more greasy. I don't play around with it all day like brush it or touch it a million times and i shower daily. Anyone have a solution?

I have this pantene rub in cream that I use sometimes after a shower but my hair looks the same whether i use it or not and its a non greasy or oily hair gel.

there is this great straightner. its small and you can carry it in your purse. my friend has one and she uses it after gym. after gym we get pretty sweaty. you could probably carry leave-in-conditionare which might make it look non greasy.
the straightner you can get at claires

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how much would i need to work out a day [[or every other day]] to lose 2 pounds a week?

i know all about the precautions. stay hydrated. im just looking to lose atleast 5 pounds. cuz im 10 pounds overweight.

Thank you! =]

the website im about to give u, talks about alot of overweight, if your too skinny; check it out
http://www.am-i-fat.com/
^ my friend showed me this. =]

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tommorow i have plans to go this scary haunted house with one of my friends. all of my best friends are going to a haunted cornmaze tommorow and they asked me if i could come and i said i already had plans! but they are my best friends and it would be soooo much fun if i went to the cornmaze with them. im not really exited about going to the haunted house and im really dissapointed because i cant invite the girl to the cornmaze instead because she already went. but i cant miss out a night with my best friends because they will come back with a new batch of inside jokes and i want to be a part of it. i want to make up an excuse and tell my friend why i cant go to the haunted house but she'll find out i went to the cornmaze and will be pissed at me. i dont want to lose my friendship with her but i dont want to waste a night thinking about how much fun i would be having with my best friends at the cornmaze. should i go to the haunted house with my friend? or should i listen to what my heart wants to do (which is the cornmaze with my bestfriends)?? if i go to the cornmaze i need to make up a lie so i can cancel plans with my friend. what do i say to her??? i was thinking of telling her that my mom thinks its a waste since all you do is walk through the haunted house and your done in 8-10 minutes, but what if my friend doesnt buy it??!! or what if she wants to just go somewhere else instead... but i also dont want to betray her like that but i want to be with my bestfriends. i dont know what to do.. any ideas??

lieing gets you no where. what you should really do is ask your friend to the cornmaze. if she already went that perfectly fine because you never know she might have more fun the 2nd time then the first time. plus if your friend has friends with your best friends she could probably become goodd friends with everyone else and everyone can go to the haunted house together.

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i want to start babysitting for money bc i need money haha but my parents said i need to take a class to learn how to do cpr and all that before i babysit. is this true?

to tell you the truth. its a good idea. you never know you can turn ur head and the next second the kid could be choking and you will no nothing to do. your probably thinking wats the chance a kid will choke but its possible

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