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Hey guys, I'm Maddie. Yes, my advicenators name is ridiculously dorky.
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I'm fifteen and as far as I know, I give pretty good advice, to anyone, about mostly anything.
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Do you neciserrily have to think a guy is cute to like them? Like can you be attracted to just there personality and still have a crush on them?

Oh yes! Nice ugly (sort of) guys make the world go round!

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ok well i just moved to a new town, where i noticed everyone goes to church. i am jewish, and only 1 of 2 jews in the town (the other being a 77 yr old man) some ppl here dont like jewish ppl...should i keep it a secret, lie..or tell the truth.. i need help. fast

Hopefully, it won't be a major issue. If it comes up, you could mention your ethnicity, but don't make it a big deal. Just don't bring it up if you dont have to. Good luck.
xo Me

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Hi, I'm 14 and a freshman in highschool. As you know I would have to start thinking about a future job and what I would like. I have 3 things chose. 1) A crime scene investigator 2) a teacher or 3) an interior designer ... now with # 1 I can't stand blood thats coming out of the body in large amounts, would I usually see this if i was a CSI??

Yes, crime-forensic stuff can involve a lot of blood, and isn't for the squeamish. Also, that kind of job isn't as glamorous as those TV shows make it out to be. #2.... sorry, but most teachers dont really make a lot of money... #3 would be my pick, even though i dont know anything about interior design, lol :)
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is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone?

As a general rule, suble, cute flirting is ok, as long as you know your bf wont gopsycho about it. Just don't make it too obvious, and it's harmless, assuming that you're not thinking of goin anywhere with this guy. Good luck
xo Ask_Me

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okay i gotta question . . how do u make icons without the it saying at the end made at whatever website . . i really want to make an icon but i dont kno how to get it without the website being there . . please help me thanxs u very muchhhh

Nicole #31

What you can do (I'm assuming you're talking about AIM buddy icons)is in Microsoft Paint, just create your own. You can use pics or whatever, just make it about the size of an icon. Then save it. When you are in the "expressions" part of prefs in AIM, click Browse PC... and find the file. If it says it's too big, make it a lil smaller. Hopefully this should work.
Good luck
xo Me
(if you werent talking about AIM, please dont rate me low, im just assuming thats what you meant)

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Sorry this is long, i rate high though! :)

The guy i used to date over the summer on and off started REALLY hitting on me last night. He practically offered for me to have sex with him (dont worry, i wouldnt have sex, but i could tell he wanted to do something with me) Then he told off this person for me that was pissing me off. And he said i owed him one. And I asked what he wanted from me. And he said he wanted to make out with me. (Keep in mind this was online so we couldnt have made out right then and there) So i said ok, because i still have feelings for him. Then a little later i asked if he liked me, or just wanted to make out with me. And he said "I dunno, never thought about it..." What do you think about all of this? Should i go for it?

Hmmmm this is a toughie. It's probably not the best idea, expecially if you want to end up being his girlfriend. Because most relationships that start out as a hook-up type of thing arent that great and dont last very long. But if you know that you're not going to want to go out with him, then I suppose you have nothing to lose right? I just wouldnt get my hopes up, since he "never thought about" liking you. Hope I helped... ;)
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okay i am thinking ahead about prom because I am trying to find a way 2 ask my friend who is aboy if he willdance with me! i am not so sure if he will because he is going 2 bring another girl from outside of school! and this is his senior and i just want one dance with him that's it!! what should i do?

If his date is cool with it it's all good. I'm pretty sure that if you do it right, he will know that you just want to dance with him, and that's all. It will probably work out for the best.
xo ME

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I am a 13 year old girl. I have a really good guy friend who is also 13. i am starting to develop stronger feelings for him everyday. I drop hints alot, but he just acts like nothing happened most of time. Other times he will flirt back. A few days ago he put his arm around my waist but I don't know if it was a friendly gesture, or if its because he likes me. We have a really close friendship and don't want to ruin that. Should I keep on flirting, or just be firends? If he does like me, what are the hints I should be looking for?

I would say keep on flirting, it can't really hurt you. It seems like he is sending you hints too, so just go with the flow. Be really nice to him and show him you care a little extra. But make sure not to be too forceful about it, cause then it could get weird. Good luck, dahling.
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Hello ... where can I get the breast cancer bracelet from? Thanks

Target.... and I think the Body Shop has them too.

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Hi, I'm 13 and 4 months and I havent ever gotten my period... :(. Anyway the last week-ish i've been noticing stuff and I think it may be coming soon. I am eating A LOT, like the equivilant of about 5 full meals a day. My skin is going from oily to dry to oily to dry and back to oily again, and I have more pimples than I've ever had before. My boobs are extremely tender too. Discharge isnt an issue, I've been having that all the time for like a year and a half, and it's the same as always.... what do you think? Might it be my time??
Ps- today i'm also a lil sick, like congested, but I think thats an outside issue, i dunno if it matters, oh well.
Help, i rate.

Sounds like it :)

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Ok, my friend had been having a tough time, and I was wondering if any one knew any cute, memorable, and short little quotes or sayings I could tell her to brighten her days? Please help, I hate to see her sad and love to see her smile! I will give a 5 if it makes her smile!

Okay, I know this is WICKED cheesy, but the S Club 7 song "Reach for the Stars" is so cute and makes you feel so good with you're down. lol :-)
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Aight... There is this girl that i am extremely attracted to... We have similar intrests, we go to the same school....But i dont think she is interested as i am.. I mean i know she is cool with me and im cool with her i just want to Up it... What the hell shall i do?

Flirt like there's no tomorrow :-D but dont play games for too long, or else she will get impatient. The majority of girls just want to be asked out; it boosts our self-esteem and makes us really happy, and of course, it will start a great relationship. So go ahead and good luck :-D
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what are some good eyeshadow colors for someone with green eyes?

Almost any color pink works, since it contrasts so well with green eyes. I have green eyes myself.... go you for having the best eye color! :-D
Hehe jk i dunno what I'm talking about :-P
xo Me

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If I start exercising almost every morning for 30-60 minutes by walking and I start doing Pilates and also start eating healthy, how long do you think it will take to lose some weight and get skinnier? Thanks!! :)

Hopefully you should slim down in a little more than a month, although it varies for some people. You might see a little progress very early on, or maybe not. I depends on your body and how much you are exercising and dieting.
Hope I helped :-D
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What do I do when my anger is so built up that I feel I could hurt my friends with the pain of it all?

First of all, just find a private place (preferably at home when no one;s around) and SCREAM! into a pillow, right out loud, whatever. Cry, kick, throw a tantrum, anything that makes you feel better... lol :-D then once you have some of it out. Write a letter at who.whatever you are mad at. It can be REALLY MEAN, cuz you dont have to give it to them. Just let it out any way that you can, and don't bottle it up if you can help it.
hope i helped :-D
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I have not been going out with my boyfriend for very long.. We got 2 know each other and he asked me out and i said yes.. Than he was sent to boarding school in SC and but were both from NC.. He never really calls but sometimes he will and we talk about nothing i know he does drugs but the only one he says he does is weed... But all my friends and ppl tell me he does other stuff.. He came home like 3weekends ago and we really didnt talk or see each other cause he was " Fucked Up" and is annoying to be around cause he does not talk really.. I know his guy friends that he with do drugs.. But i really like him and he just soo sweet..and etc.. i have no idea what i should do.. should i break things off.. Or just deal with the fact that he does drugs and i cant do ne thing about it.. HELPME PLEASE
*Kristen*

DEFINITELY break up with him. The relationship will never go anywhere if hes doing that shit.
sorry... :-(
xo Me

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Okay, I'm 13 years old and so is my friend. We're both girls. There's this guy who likes me and my best friend. He like both of us too. He was really sweet and funny at first. But then we talked to him on the phone this one night and found out part of the real him. He's just like every other guy out there, perverted!! He led BOTHof us n a bunch, he told us that he would end up asking one of us out after he brok up with his present girlfriend. The time came and we waited forlike three weeks. Then, som people told us that he had asked out a totally different person! We called him that night and he really seemed to care that we were mad but not why we were. We think he is palying us and our friends told us he was. He always ignores us when he's around his girlfriend, and doesn't really seem like he wants to be friends at some points. But then at other points, it seems like he does. We both can't stop liking him. I want to move on but don't know how to. How should I handle this problem? Should I continue trying to be friends, or just completely drop him?

He's an effing retard. I dont usually use language like this (in my column anyway) but just tell him to go fuck himself. Seriously, youll never get a chance with him, since it looks like he's playing EVERY GIRL! And even if you do, he won't seriously care about you. "he told us that he would end up asking one of us out after he brok up with his present girlfriend."? if he treats this girl like that, he WILL treat you like that. Don't try to be friends. It's not worth it.
Good luck...
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My lips are pretty average size but I want to get them looking more pouty... any advice? Thanks!

Well first off you could use lip liner. Try to find one that's about the same shade as your natural lip color, or the gloss/stick you use. DEFINITELY DON'T USE REALLY DARK LINER! Girls who do this look gross and really unnatural. There is also a gloss called lip venom that you can buy for about $10 at sephora, and a few other places. It makes your lips tingle and swell a little, so they look fuller.
Hope I helped!
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Well I have alot of friends. And well whenever I'm interested in someone.. the guy is realyl shy to talk to me.. because usually id be around friends..where id just be silly and fool around with them you know? so that sorta intimidates the guys...wher they dont talk to me... and HOW CAN I MAKE MYSELF look .. i dunno.. lol.. friendlier?!??! LOL... so i wnot scare them with my sarcasm..or anyhting??.
i need help.
[14yr femala//10th grade]

Spend a little time alone. There is a 90% chance that a guy will not come up and talk to a girl if she is in a big group. For the most part, that is what intimidates them. Or just go up to them yourself.... good luck :-D
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does anyone know where i can download the song Mosh by eminem so i can put it on a cd i usually can find songs i want on singingfish.com but they dont have one that will download. or does anyone have it on their computer where they can send it 2 me on aim/aol or something please let me know ...

I download with Limewire (limewire.com) but if you want me to do it for you.... email me with your sn and i will im it to you.
my email is blueluna2401@aol.com
xo Me

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