okay i have this friend and sometimes i cant stand her!!! me and my other 2 bestfriends have told her why we get mad at her all the time she said she would change but of course she didnt...i dont know why i cant tell her that i dont think we should be friends...but i think because if im not friends with her...her bestfriend kelly wont be friends with me
I think that's great how you tell her why you get mad at her. That's too bad she says she will change and doesn't. Have another talk with her. Tell her that she's been saying she'd change countless times, but she hasn't changed at all. Tell her to keep her word or your friendship will not work out. Hopefully she will actually change this time.
As her bestfriend Kelly, she might be your friend...maybe or maybe not. That's completely up to her. Be in her shoes. Imagine if you hurt Kelly's bestfriend and were no longer friends with her. If Kelly was still your friend, that might hurt her bestfriend's feelings. In the end she'd probably not be your friend because she doesn't not want to hurt her bestfriend's feelings. That's understandable.
If Kelly DOES stay your friend, that's good. That probably means her bestfriend does not mind your friendship with Kelly. Either way, you have to consider everyone's feelings. Whatever happens, at least you still have your other two bestfriends =)
does anyone know what some good sites are for making your own website?? what are some good things to put on the site???
I wrote a tutorial on how to make a website quite a while ago. It's located on my personal website. Go here: http://www.grumblebee.org/kim/ Enter the site. Click "You". Scroll down to "Tutorials". Click where it says "Make a Web Site". And there you go! Read and learn. You'll be on your way! It'll take a lot of time and frustration to learn all of these things, but everyone goes through that. After that you'll be a proud webdesigner! Just think up of your own ideas in your head...you'll come up with stuff to put on your site. Good luck!
PS Feel free to tell me the URL of your site once you have finished...I'd be glad to visit it and give you some page hits ;D
Okay, here's the deal. I'm really sick of all my current user names. I can't think of any new good ones, though, except for the one I currently have(How do you like it, by the way?). I know it would kind of be difficult for anyone here to give me a good one considering no one knows my personality but whatever. I want something short; like one word. None of that xXxsupersayen[insert random number here]xXx crap.
For those that are a bit slow, the question is: Any suggestions? And if so, what are they?
Yeah, sometimes I get sick of my usernames also! I've switched through many many screennames and usernames. For now I am fine with my current ones. I can't decide on usernames FOR you, but I have some tips that can help you out. Think of what you like and all of that stuff. Make a username based on those things. Another thing that might work is writing down a column of all the words you would like in a username. Randomly mix and match them until you like one. You can also use a thesaurus and find synonyms to replace some words. I hope I helped!
Hi..im just wondering how everyone out there who wears a bikini and all the ppl who wear swim trunks and has a flat stomach..how do you do it? How can i GET BIKINI BODY and KEEP it? Do I have to be watcing what i eat 24/7/365?
-Thanks for the help
I guess I'm lucky because I don't like to eat very much...But I DO eat so don't consider not eating as an option. Not eating could be very dangerous. That's always a bad choice. Plus, sometimes when people do not eat, they tend to get hungry later and eat twice as much...therefore then they would gain back their weight. The trick is to eat cautiously. Eat a lot of breakfast...eat a small lunch, and eat a small dinner. It's like a pyramid...it gets smaller each meal during the day. Don't eat a lot at night before you go to sleep. Exercise video tapes can be fun and successful lol. My mom has those tapes. Whether you have a flat stomach or not, you should be proud of your body. Everyone is a different shape and variety is great. Good people will like you for who you are, not for your body. I hope things work out! =)
okay well im turning 13 in november... and i havnt gotten my period yet... is that abnormal??? all my friends got theirs already?? if ya help me out then thanx!
Kati
Nah, that's not abnormal at all. Some people get their period really young and sometimes people get theirs really late. It just depends on the person. I got mine in fourth grade and my mom got hers when she was 16! So it is totally random. No worries! =)
PS...HOPE that it comes late. LOL. I wish I had mine when I was sixteen. Periods come with cramps and all that crap you have to worry about >_< haha.
any body have any sites that hase journal free and qestions goes with? I want start journal for school starts
You haven't worded your question very well...so I'm not sure what you mean, but I can recommend you a good site you can make your own journal/diary at. I suggest http://www.diaryland.com. It's really great because it puts NO ads at all on your site. You can customize your website however you like. I use it myself (kimmie4ever.diaryland.com).
hi ok i really want a thong i am 14 and i am in 9th grade. i asked mi mom if i could get i last year and she said no i wuz too young well i am a shy person at times now i wunt to ask her but im scared !!! help
Hey, I'm the same age and in the same grade. I haven't thought of getting a thong, but I can see why you would maybe want one. It sucks to see the panty line through your pants or a skirt. Quite embarrassing eh? lol. Just explain to your mom that you'd like a thong so that you won't have a panty line showing when you wear clothes. She's probably worried about you having one because there might be a boy involved. If there isn't one invovled, explain that to her. I'm sure she'll understand. If you want one just so you can be "cool", then let me assure you that you want one for the wrong reason. Mom always has the last say so we all gotta respect her. In time you'll get over it. We can't always get what we want (trust me, I know from experience =P). You'll get one when you're older...at least that's one comfort you can have in mind. Good luck!
PS don't go out and buy one without her permission. She WILL find out some way or another...you know moms, them and their SUPER MOM POWERS. lol. It'll definitely lose her trust. So just wait it out rather than taking action and disobeying her. Maybe if you go with the flow rather than going against your mom it'll show her that you're mature and responsible. That can gain you bonus points and a gift! lol.
whats the idle wieght for 13/f 5'4?
Well, to be honest I wouldn't know. lol. But I did take the time to look up some weight sites. I found two that'll probably answer your question.
Heres one: http://www.free-weightloss.com/weight_chart.htm
That's a weight chart. You can look up your height and weight and find whether you're at a good weight or if you're at any risks.
Here's another one: http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm
For this one you can enter your height in feet and inches and your weight. Press Compute BMI and it'll give you a number inside the heart. Take that number and look at the left where it says "BMI Categories". It'll put you in under, normal, overweight, or obesity.
There are links on that site that you might want to check out concerning weight. Those charts are not always exactly correct so if you're ever unsure about anything the good ol' doctor will come in handy. Whether you're under, normal, or over weight, old fashioned exercising and eating healthy always helps you in life. I hope I helped and thank you for asking me!
hi anybody know the website 4 color codes and shades???? i will rate if u help me - thank u
Hello!
Here are hex color charts: http://draac.com/hexchart.html, http://www.brobstsystems.com/colors.htm
Shades: http://www.websitetips.com/color/, http://www.webelfin.com/webelfindesign/colorchange.html
And here is a plain color chart: http://draac.com/colorchart.html
wats the web site i can go to so i can get a cool background??
Well, I don't know any from the back of my head, but if you'd like to find some backgrounds yourself, you can type 'free backgrounds' or something similar into search engines like http://google.com or http://msn.com. You'll find lots of nice results. Good luck!
I love this guy but my parents say im to young. Im 12 yrs old. And my big brter showed his girlfriend pics with me in it to at my bday. Her bro saw it and said im pretty. My big brother and his girlfriend want me to go to the movies with them and him. My mom told me but I was shy I always am, and I said uhh cuz i was surprised. But he just turned 12 a couple days ago but is in sixth grade i think because he has late bday. Im going to 7th and he's going to the same school as me. Kinda confusing. Can you help. Im shy and mom says im too young. Its my life.
I think you two should go out to the movies. However, I'm pretty sure that you are NOT in love. A lot of people think they're in love, but it's really a crush. When you have a crush you think it's really big and everything, but later you will realize it really was just a crush. Love is a strong and overused word. Get to know the guy more at least. You probably are too young, (trust me, I'm fourteen and I'm still too young too lol) but compromise with your mom so you get go out with him to the movies or something. Let your mom meet him. Invite his parents over. It IS your life, but your mom was the one who gave you life and cared for you.
Hey Im 13 years old and im going into 8th grade in 3 weeks and im friends with this guy who is 12 and he wants me to give him a blow job. I think I want to but i really dont no how to go about doing it I really need some advice !!!!!
Ugh. Don't do anything sexual until you're 40. Seriously. Gosh. Lol, kiddding...do what you want, but for now don't worry about sex and all of that crap. You're only thirteen. You still have the rest of your life to worry about these kinds of things. That guy is probably not a very good friend if he wants a freaking blow job from you. All he probably wants is some pleasure for himself. Don't think and go out doings things you don't even know how to do.
im a boy and my like best friend thats a gurl i like her and she tell me who she likes a stuff. i jus wanna tell her to f them all and come with me but iv told her i liked her and she jus wants to b friends wat should i do cause it kinda hurt, and she asks me wat she should dop bout it.
If she's decided to stay as friends, there's not much you can do about it. You don't wanna push her or anything. Keep your friendship. Sometimes staying as friends can be even better than being girlfriends and boyfriends. I know it may hurt, but you'll get over it in time. It's probably a little crush. Crushes always seem like a big thing, but later it turns out that it really wasn't. You'll find someone new, I'm sure of it. =)
hey.. im 14, about 5 ft. and im only 84 pounds!! most of my friends r all like.. "damn.. i wish i was you." n stuff like that. um.. i hate being this skinny, seriously.. and i can literally eat more than two or more of my friends can!! that's like.. insane lol. but.. my mutabolism.. r however you spell it.. just is too fast!! i always have trouble finding clothes that fit me well.. omg.. if any one can seriously help me to gain weight that would be awesome..thanks.. you guys are ExCeLlEnT..!!~
Don't worry, I am the same age and almost the same height as you. I weigh 96ish pounds. We're both short, so being skinny isn't so bad lol. I get a lot of "eat more!!" comments also and I know how annoying it can get. Just try to brush it off and think of it as a good compliment. It's a lot better than having worry about being over weight right? It's very lucky to eat a lot and still stay skinny. Think of all the junk food you can have! lol. So don't worry about your weight. As people get older they tend to gain a few (..or a LOT lol) pounds. If your weight starts to get troublesome or something, just ask a parent to take you to the doctor, they can straighten things out.
my best friend is a really good friend. but sometimes she gets on my nerves because she has to have everything her way! then when i say something to her she gets all mad at me. but shes not always like that. sometimes she's really fun. but sometimes i just wish she would be nicer. mostly she acts like that when shes around other people. i dont know what to do or to say to her..PLEASE HELP!
i rate high if its good advice..
I think everyone's gone through this. Your bestfriend probably doesn't mean to get on your nerves. Sometimes people do things they don't realize. Hopefully if we talk to them about these things, they'll realize it and stop. Talk to her, explain to her, and tell her how you'd really appreciate it if she could be a little more considerate. I've had a friend who was like that...maybe even worse. She's moved to another state now, and we don't talk except for emails, but sometimes I wish I could have talked things out with her. I'm not sorry that she's gone, but sometimes I do regret it. So my point is, you should really talk to your friend before something happens and you regret things. If she doesn't listen, it's not too bad because life will move on. Good friends will listen to you. Bad friends won't.
I have a problem with cutting myself and I've always been to afraid to tell one of my best friends for fear that she might think i was some kind of freak! I just need an idea on what would be a good way to start off a conversation and then breaking the news to her! I would appreciate it! OH and ill rate u goood!!!!!
Your bestfriend will NOT think you are a freak. She might, however, be very concerned (as any good friend would be) so break the news to her calmly. Tell her what's been happening in your life and gently put down the news that you cut. Be sure to explain why you are cutting. She might be a bit scared, but she'll still love you nevertheless. She might even love you more than before! After breaking the news to your bestfriend, maybe you should seek some professional help. My friends have cut before and it was very scary... Afterwards they've all gone through treatment and now they have stopped and their lives have moved on. Cutting is not the solution. I hope things turn out okay for you. =)
A couple of my friends always tell me that im so gorgeous and they wish they looked like me n stuff... yeah, its flattering but it makes me feel uncomfortable and a lil guilty or something. should i do something? or what can i do so that i wont feel uncomfortable... thank u
You shouldn't feel uncomfortable. Compliments are supposed to make you feel good lol. Heck, there are lots of people that WANT compliments. You're probably a nice and gorgeous person, so that's why you're getting those nice compliments. Just be sure to give out compliments to others as well. That way you probably won't feel as guilty as opposed to not giving any compliments at all. I think you'll get used to the compliments eventually. If not, you can just say thank you and then explain you'd rather not be complimented because it makes you feel uncomfortable. They'll understand.
hey..ok me and my friends wanna spend the rest of the summer having soooo much fun. we havent been doing much..cuz we cant think of anything..anyone have any ideas??
Erm...if you're not old enough to drink, don't do it. If you are, go for it. lol. But anyway, there are plenty of things to do over the summer if you have a good imagination and money (lol). If you have money to spare, you could go to the movies, amusement parks, family fun centers, water parks, and other places. If you don't have money, there's always the park and the beach lol. If you're planning to stay at a friend's house you can make up some games and activities or arts and crafts to do together. Shopping can be lots of fun, whether you're planning on buying something or just planning on acting like idiots in the mall. Both is fun. haha. Or...plain talking can be nice sometimes. Hope your summer turns out fun.
my "best friend" copies me a lot and it gets on my nerves. But yesterday she bought the same purse that I've had only for like a month when I asked her not to get it. Then she returned it but layed on the guilt and she mae me feel really bad because she said she was jealous of me cuz I have a great life, but i moved to TX from MD last year, and she said that moving wasnt a big deal but it was and so she wants to be fine and friends again but she really pissed me off and I don't really want to be her friend anymore so I don't know what to do now(I am 11 and a girl)
I know exactly how you feel. There are times when (online or offline) people copy some of my ideas and clothes and etc. People will tell you "Well they admire you, you should be flattered." That IS true. It's pretty cool that someone wants to be like you. However...there's a point where it goes too far. I think you should still be her friend...you shouldn't end the friendship but you should tell her strictly that you don't want her copying you anymore. A good friend will listen. If she doesn't, she's probably not that good of a friend. Everyone has a tendency to copy someone else...hopefully your friend will be done with her phase soon.
ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..
Hmm. Explain to your boyfriend that you're not ready. If he keeps insisting, just stick to the plain and easy answer: NO. If he still keeps on insisting, you should break up with him because no good boyfriend would push you into doing things you don't want to do. I hope it works out.
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