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>> Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY but now residing in Pennsylvania

>> 22 years of age and in college. Graduated with an Associate's Degree in Medical Administration, now working with a laboratory as a jack of all trades customer service rep, hoping to pursue a higher degree in the healthcare field.

>> Taken since 11.25.07

>> Have been on this site since I was in 7th grade. You do the math lol

>> Very open minded so don't be afraid to contact me for advice

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advice

ok here goes......my b/f & i were datin 4 about 6 months.then i got caught sneekin out and we both decided it was 4 the best if we just broke up so we did n now i only think a/b HIM.i cant get him out of my head.i still wanna b w/ him but i guess i got 2 much pride 2 tell him.we still talk the same way we always did but i miss him so much i dunno what 2 do.he is the best guy i ever had & he treated me the best.what should i do???????

wHY DON'T YOU TRY THIS, WHEN YOU TALK TO HIM, ASK HIM, DON'T U EVER MISS BEING WITH ME. iF HE SAYS YES, THEN SAY I DO TOO. BUT IF HE SAYZ NO THEN DON'T SAY N E THING. HE MIGHT ASK U WHY YOU ASKED, BUT I THINK YOU CAN FIGURE THAT LINE OUT 4 URSELF.

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I have a feeling that a firl from my school (younger then me and I'm 13) is kinda following me sometimes and sometimes even looks at me kinda weird - with a love glance... What should I do to check if she likes me without looking dumb after doing something which would prove she doesn't?

Talk 2 her, find out what she's really about. Maybe she likes you, and she's just too shy to come up to you, so she just looks at you. Now, if she follows you home, it can mean 2 things: one, she lives near you, Or two, SHE'S FOLLOWING YOU HOME!!!!!
FLIRTY

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I had a great friendship with a girl, but I made the mistake of asking her to open up to me about my past and feelings. My logic was since she's so afraid that my opinion of her would be lowered if I knew about her past, then she would come to some relief in knowing that my opinion of her would never be changed by something she did years ago. She told me, then days later she was furious about me knowing about her past. So my problem is this: I am in love with her, and she's very distant. I never asked her out because she's against dating, but now she is around another guy a lot who also loves her. I don't think she's attracted to me, so there's little hope to begin with (We told each other everyone we had a crush on. She was on my list, I wasn't on her's). This guy is open about his love, and is very touchy-feely towards everyone, especially with her. I'm afraid she'll start dating him, and never really speak to me again. I give her rides from school, and recently she just walked off with the other guy without saying a word. I caught up with them, and she said she was walking home, and had plans to go mushroom hunting. But she walked in the opposite direction of her house and it was starting to rain. I'm not sure if I'm reading too much into this,or if she really doesn't want to see me anymore. So should I tell her how I feel and ask her who she'd rather be with, or should I spare myself the pain and depression that would follow and ignore this or ignore her. If this, then how do I possibly get over her, I don't really have many people I can talk to and I'm so very in love.

Hey,
I know how u feel.Except, not really. LOL. Well, i suggest you tell her how u feel. Maybe she's just to shy tell you. most girls think that if they tell them that they like them, they'll laugh and say, yeah right, i like you to; hahahaha. But girls don't want that, so they keep it to themselves. Tell her how you feel, in private. or give her a note. Just go with your gut feeling.

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i dont know what to do!!!!!!! im so scared everynight that im going to get kidnapped or something!!!! how do i get over that fear so i can sleep at night??

Maybe you can lock all ur windows and close ur drapes or something. Or, you can do what i did when i was scared. I used to sleep with my mom... just like next to her so she can take care of me. i hope i helped just a little.
:P flirty

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I have a friend, well I guess you would call her a friend, who one minute she'll be all buddy buddy with me and the next minute she'll get mad at me or give me dirty looks or even start cussing me out for no reason at all. I know what your gonna say, she's not really a friend but that's not my question my question is how do I get her off my back withouttryin to kill me or something.
-sick of it

Ignore the person and try to avoid her. Maybe if you won't pay attention to her, she''l say ' forget her' and she'll leave u alone. stay out of her way... maybe she'll stay out of urs

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Can some one give me an average age of getting a boy friend?

I'd say the best age for having a bf is maybe 12 or 13. when ur that age, ppl mostly want to just showoff that they have a gf or bf. if you want to be serious about a relationship, i'd say 14 or 15 and above

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Chingy's hot!
Whose with me...and those of you who say no he isnt or whatever..don't bother answering this question because why would you waste your time???
Mwah chingy! lol

SO HOT!!! IM TOTALLY WITH YOU. I LOVE CHINGY AND RIGHT THURR, ONE CALL AWAY, ETC. I HAVE HIS CD. I I I LIKE THE WAY U DO THAT RIGHT THURR RIGHT THUR... LOL :p EMAIL ME PPLZ!!!

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help im trying to plan a rele awesome party for my 14th birthday!!
there is going to be like around 15 people there, and i need fun games, activites whatever that we can do.
WipeoutSmile
samantha

You should probably play spin the bottle ( if they're boyz), truth or dare, look up some games on the web. You can also play music ( of course). just do what you and ur fiends think would be fun!!!

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I'm really shy at school, and I have been since the 3rd grade. I really want to be more social and outgoing!!! I've tried joining clubs and stuff, but that really didn't help.... Any suggestions?!!! I really need advice for this!

I know how u feel, i've been shy since i was like.... 5!!! email me sometime at crazyflirty@yahoo.com . even though im still shy, i try to sound loud with my friends, laugh loud, and even look and flirt with boyz. it may sound like im not shy, but im SUPER SHY!!!!!

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how do i get people to ask me questions?

register and amke a column. or, if ur already registered, then tell ur friends.

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i am 14. Ok... me and my mom are always fighting. (about the smallest and STUPIDEST things) i know it's because we are so much alike, but i just found out we are moving in a month, my parents said they will take me to my high school if i have a good attitude (that means no fighting).. so i need tips on how to suck up to them and to avoid fighting with her.

Well, this is pretty hard to do. i fight alot of times with my mom. it's kinda hard to suckit all up and keep it inside. you can shut your mouth and when you go to your room, yell in your pillow. or try to avoid n e fighting by doing what they say and not talking back. Then they'll probably respect you.
good luck! FLIRTY.

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I have 13 years old (almost 14) and I have a tough crush on a girl from my school who's two years younger then me. I'm really going mad because the time is passing and I can't find a way to approach and talk to her. The only thing I do to make her know I love her is staring at her while passing by but I'm pretty sure she hasn't noticed. Help please! (Have on mind that I'm afraid to fail, so I'd either do nothing or something in which I'm sure it'd work. If I fail I'll be avoiding her forever!)

hey,
I ahve an idea, why don't you give her a note when she passes by? attract her attention, and give her the note. Don't put n e thin obssesive like i love you or i wanna marry you. she'll probably freak out!

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i didnt know what categorie to put this under so yeah...i have a huge zit that i need to get rid of whats the best way to get rid of zittts???

Well zitts,
if i were you, ( and this has happened to me), i would use the neutrogina advanced. it's a mask or a cream that comes in a tube to clear the zit in 8 hours.another thing is the food. if u eat ALOT of chcolates, butter, and greasy foods, thay come faster than u think.

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hi flirty its queenzbabe and i consider muyself your friend and we are really alike bacause i grew up in ny infact i live there but anyway, i like this boy but he dosnt know and he is so CUTE!! but heres the bad news hes moving to miami and im really gonna miss him and i just cant find a way to let him noe that i like him, what shall i do?


signed queenzbabe

Dear queenzbabe,
I understand what u mean. I think what you should do is tell him. If he considers u as a friend, tell him you miss him and u want to keep in contact(as friends). If he doesn't freak out, then you have nothing to worry about and tell him that when he moves, you'll miss him alot and you're going to still talk or write to him.

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Hey im a boy and 13 so theres a girl i like and she likes me. And im tryin to find a way to ask her out, because she doesnt have any messengers i dont think and im to shy to ask her on the phone or in person.What do i do?

-confused

Well, you can pass her a note in school, or give one to her at the end of the day. I once tried giving a boy a note on a friday and it worked. trust me, she'll find it cute and mysterious.

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I'm out of toothpaste. Is it socially acceptable to use ground up Mentos as a tooth-care substitute?

Why not? my friend does it too. I'm not saying to do it everyday, but try mentos one day, toothpaste the other, trident the next day, etc.

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i am so confused how do my parents just get me one? signed

Hi! my name is flirty. I know how you feel. I always wanted a dog since i was small. And guess what, i got maine! The way i got my parents to get me one was by making deals with them. I do this and i get this. Make deals with them and tell them to not break it because you'll break yours. Hey, i got my puppy and cell phone like that. It wasn't easy, but it was worth it!!!


FLIRTY :)

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Theres this girl at school named Amber. She's so beautiful, i think im in love with her, Literally. The year is almost over and i want to make my move at the graduation dance so that i can be with her. Every night I cry myself to sleep thinking about her.What should i do?

- Shlb801-

Dear Shlb801:
ASK HER OUT!!! Girlz like when boyz pass them notes, or pull them apart from their friends to talk. Trust me, I'm a girl. If you think she is availible, and she might like you, go for it!!!


FLIRTY :)

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wut is a CUNT mean????? iv heard it before buti wasnt sure help!!!

A CUNT is a womans private part. Stupid huh? lol. :P

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I really like this guy, and he likes me , but I might be moving to another school next year, and I want our realationship to go to the next level.If you can give me some advice, I would be greatful!


Hey, your question is kinda hard, but i got the advice. Tell him you like him alot, and that you're also moving to another school next year. See how he feels about that and if he says anything like, oh no..... tell him that maybe you can talk to him, send him emails, write to him, or maybe visit him. Who knows, maybe he'll even go with you... lol.

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