One of my really good guys friends leaned over and touched my boob and i am not even his girlfriend. He doesn't have one so what should i do becuase i am getting the feeling that he likes me because he is telling everone about this and i don't know what to do about him. Should i go out with him or jsut stay friends.

"i am getting the feeling that he likes me"

OMG. That's hilarious. He touched your boob and you THINK he likes you? lol! Yes, he likes you, or at least your boobs anyway. I wouldn't go out with him unless I actually liked him. Why would you go out with someone just because he touched you? Uck. If you like him that's your choice and you should go for it. In my opinion, from what you've told me, I think he's just a guy that wants some "action". And if you're confused on whether or not you should go out with him, that proves you don't have real feelings for him.

Well, it's good you don't want to starve yourself. But if you wanna lose weight you'll have to exercise whether you want to or not. You can start out easy...talk walks, a few sit ups and then move on and do more exercising. Exercising doesn't do it alone...watch what you eat and limit yourself. Eat more breakfast, less lunch, and little dinner. It should look like an upside down triangle. Don't eat before you sleep, you burn less calories when you sleep. You should be happy the way you look, but if you want to make your eyebrows look more shapely or thinner, you'll have to try waxing or plucking. If you wax and/or pluck regularly it doesn't hurt at all. No way around it. Either be happy or do something about it. Hope things work out!

Well, I've never used tampons myself, so I wouldn't know...but if you want to sleep in any position, you can use those. If you're wearing pads, you should wear one of those overnight, heavy duty, long ones. Make sure there is a lot of it covering the back of your underwear, so it doesn't leak through when you sleep at night. If you want to be safe, put an old cloth over your bed sheet. So to answer your question, you can sleep on any position you'd like if you wear a long pad, except for on your stomach...that's not a good position because of leakage...lol.

Yes, you are right. It was very wrong. If you loved her, you would have thought about the consequences before doing anything with your bestfriend's boyfriend. You had better tell your bestfriend. She has a right to know. And that boyfriend of hers isn't that trustworthy if he did "things" with you, her bestfriend. If you love your bestfriend, you will let her know about what happened and warn her about her boyfriend. Her trust with you may be broken after you tell her, but if you guys are really bestfriends, you will gain it back if you give it your all.

You don't sound pathetic. I felt this EXACT same way for about two or three years. When I was 14 (Which was last year, lol) I still never had a boyfriend either. It's okay...some people bloom late and some bloom early. Some people grow like weeds and some people grow like trees. Kind of corny, but it's true! It hurts, but the depression phase WILL go away. I'm not just saying this to make you feel better, I've experienced it myself. At this very moment my bestfriend is going through it too.

I'm sure there IS a boy that will love you for who you are. I'm not saying you'll find him in two days, or two years, who knows when he'll come. I'm just saying you will find him in time. In the meantime, you need forget about boys. Find some cool friends to hang out with. Be happy. Friends and laughter take your mind off of everything. Why must our lives have boys to make us happy? Find some NEW friends, GOOD friends. There ARE people that will instantly click with you and they WON'T treat you like trash. You just have to be willing enough to find them. Don't be afraid to try new things to meet new people. If you never took a risk you'd never get anywhere. Concentrate on school and getting those straight A's. Good grades definitely get me cheered up. Clubs, clubs, clubs, and community service. They keep you occupied from bad thoughts, and you might meet some new people.

Feeling ugly is horrible, and I've felt ugly before, even if people told me I wasn't. Even if you aren't ugly there is nothing people can do to change how you feel about yourself. So what I'm saying is, you're going to have to get your self esteem up yourself. Look in the mirror, pick out things you like about yourself. Come on, there must be at least one thing. It could be your eyes. ANYTHING. Make progress over time and get your self esteem up.

Wanting to feel beautiful isn't bad. With society these days it's hard to feel beautiful without doing so many things to yourself. You can try things like straightening your hair, getting braces, going to a dermatologist. Make up perhaps, but please don't go crazy with it. I prefer natural people...I think they are much more beautiful.

Maybe you just need someone to talk to someone in the meantime. Feel free to email or im me...I'd love to talk. Please do! You'd be doing both of us a favor =) (Email: hyperchick@gmail.com) (AIM: HyperactiveMiss)

Valentine's Day doesn't have to be about being with your boyfriend. Make it wonderful! Every day's a celebration. It could be hanging out with friends, spending time with family, or treating yourself like a queen and eating lots of sweets. =)

There are many theories about what the point of life is. Maybe it's to find who your true lover is. Maybe it's to spend your life surrounded by good family and friends. Maybe it's to make good memories. Maybe it's to reach heaven. Maybe you have your own destiny to forfill. I can't tell you what it is. But wouldn't you like to know what the point of life is? Don't you want to experience it? Then just get out there and maybe you'll run into it!

Well, for most users on Advicenators they won't get too many questions personally for them. I don't have many either. You can't make people ask you questions. But you can search for questions by clicking View Questions, Search Questions, Advice Topics, or Random Question at the left under Give Advice. Answer as many as you like. If you want more people to ask you questions the best advice I can give you is to have good spelling & grammar, make yourself known by answering lots of questions, and give nice full answers. Don't be discouraged if you don't have questions in your Inbox...people like to post public questions instead to have more answers and more variety in answers.

I'm even worse than that. I don't go to sleep until 5-7 AM! I stay awake because of choice though. If you'd like to sleep earlier I have some suggestions that might help you.

1. Stay up for a whole 24 hours if you can. If you can't, I'd try to stay awake for as long as you can, taking a quick nap, and waking up. After a day of no sleep, you'll be awfully tired. Wait until the time you'd like to go to sleep (Like 10 PM or something) and then sleep. You'll sleep like a log and you'll be back on track!

2. Maybe you can't sleep earlier because you're on the computer. When I'm on the computer, I can be on for hours and not feel at all sleepy. You should probably limit yourself from the computer.

3. If you're laying in bed and you can't sleep, maybe it's because you have too much on your mind. If that's the case, take a notepad, and write your thoughts down. Clear your head. In the morning you can go back to those ideas later.

4. Listening to classical or boring music might help. Or you can try any music, actually. Whatever works for you.

5. When you're trying to sleep, don't think about anything. Just clear your mind and concentrate on your breathing. Some people think about being on a rollercoaster, concentrating on the twists and turns. You could also try that, however whenever I try that I end up thinking about how fun it was and then I can't fall asleep. Lol.

6. Try reading. Eventually your eyes will get tired and you'll drift off to sleep.

7. Watch TV. You can put it on sleep mode, so it won't be on all night after you've fallen asleep.

8. Eat something and/or milk. You could also try a warm drink, like tea or hot cocoa. After having a full stomach, you might feel sleepy.

9. Take a walk. After a long walk, you'll feel tired and ready for bed.

I hope things work out for you! =)

Ugh...parents sure can be strict. Lol. I'm never getting a puppy, that's for sure. I've wanted once for more than 10 years =P But, at least I convinced my mom to let me have a parakeet. Better than nothing. Lol.

Go around the house and take care of things. Do the laundry, clean your mom's room, clean the house, mop, do all of that fun stuff =P Pick something, and commit yourself to it...to show your parents you ARE responsible and you WILL take care of the pet.

Most parents don't want you to have a pet because they think you
1. Aren't responsible enough
2. will end up getting tired of your pet and end up having your parents clean after your pet.

I don't think I need to tell you what color will make her look slimmer, lol. Those people seem to have got it covered =P Maybe you should encourage your mom to go to the gym or buy some exercising tapes. It works. Maybe if you do it along with her it'll make her feel better. Or even start small by taking walks with her.

People definitely change and moving doesn't help any. Your best friend seems to have changed a LOT. There's probably not much you can do for him. Maybe you can talk some sense into him and try to set him on the right track. Maybe you can call and talk to his parents or something. Otherwise, he's moved on now. Look on the bright side, at least you knew him while you did and you had your good memories. Even though friends don't last forever, you'll still always have good memories. Also, he's teaching you a valuable lesson...He's an example of what you shouldn't become.

Hello Em,
How old are you? Age might have to do with you feeling uncomfortable. If you think you're still a little too young to be ready for a boyfriend, that's okay...don't rush!

I was in the same situation recently. Maybe my story will help you out. lol.

A guy asked me out one day and the question made me feel really good, but still very uncomfortable. I told him I'd think about it and get back to him later. I avoided him for a whole week until he brought it back up again. I told him that I thought the two of us should hang out, get to know each other better, and see how it goes. Ever since then we've been hanging out together a lot. Now I'm more comfortable around him and I feel the same way he feels about me. I'm going to give it until Christmas and then tell him we should try going out.

So maybe you should tell him you like him, but you think you two should get to know each other better before you go out to make you feel more comfortable with it. If he does like you he'll understand and wait for you. If he doesn't you'll know he wasn't the right one. Take your time, use your instincts, and good luck! Be sure to contact me some time and tell me how it goes.

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If he has blocked you you won't be able to IM him or see when he logs on or off. It's like he's offline. You could get a new SN and then add him to your buddylist.

There'll always be someone better at something than ourselves. But the good thing about that is YOU are better than someone at something also. Just find out what you love to do and keep on doing them. You can't be just like her, because you are YOU. Be your own person...I'm sure you're an awesome one. Join some clubs, say hello, learn something new. It'll definitely help. Try not to "be just like her" because that'll only make you compare yourself with her. Try something new that she hasn't done or can't do. That way you won't be able to compare yourself with her.

Go to http://xanga.com/private and click on Look and Feel or you can just go straight to http://xanga.com/claf . There you will have options to edit fonts, sizes, colors, and etc. Do what you want and then click Save Changes.

A bit late to look for a halloween costume...I'm sure the stores are either completely packed or sold out by now. If you can find something from the stores, you're a lucky ducky. Otherwise you'll have to make do with what you have. Some ideas: You could try being a geek...throw on some dorky clothes and some glasses lol. My teacher came to school looking like she just woke up...lol her hair was in curls under a plastic cap, her face had green facial mask stuff, she wore a robe, slippers, etc. You could also try dressing up like a guy. Borrow some guy clothes or go out and buy some =P There are plenty of other ideas...trying searching it on google. "Homemade costumes" or something. Good luck!

Pimples are so evil...especially when they come right before a special day. Toothpaste might work if you use the nongelly kind. You have some orange crap? lol. Maybe that'll work? lol. Most likely the pimple won't go away, I hate to say it. You'll have to ignore the pimple. Most people won't even notice it unless you actually point it out. Pimples look huge and noticable on your own face, but to other people it's not big deal. Self esteem and confidence is good =D Be sure to wash your face often! It helps prevent more pimples from coming.

Gee...a year and a half isn't that much, lol. Enjoy being single while you can. In fact, my brother is 22 and he has never gone on a date. SAD, don't you think? But at least that fact will make you feel better, haha. If you really want to find a guy now though...they're everywhere so take your pick...and go after him! ;) lol. Clubs...that's a nice way to meet someone since you both have the same interests. There are plenty of other places to meet nice guys. They're everywhere (except for girls' ballet or something =P)!

That's happened to me a lot. My old crushes don't turn popular, lol, but after a year or two we have different classes and drift apart. The easiest thing to do is try to forget about him and maybe search around for a new crush. That's what I usually do. It'll pass. Crushes come and go.

If you have some courage and think something might work out, you should definitely talk to him. Not a friend, YOU. Tell him you like him and maybe you guys can meet up after school or something. If you're too chicken to talk to him (lol =P) you could always give him a note. If you have his number you could always call him. Telling him through a friend or online is wussy and whatnot, lol. Best of luck!

He might want to use you maybe? Just a thought. If that's not the case, there are still other problems.

I know "age shouldn't matter", and that is true, but it can be a big obstacle. You'll have to deal with friends and family and crap. After his senior year he'll probably be off to college. You'll still be in highschool for another three years. Do you think you can handle that? Think about the future. That would really suck to disobey your parents and lose their trust and then a while later break up with the guy because it just didn't work out. Think about the future and the consequences. Also, he goes to another highschool and you said you never see him. It kinda sucks, don't you agree? You wouldn't get much time with him and who knows...he might have some other girl back at his highschool.

Whatever your choice is, I wish you luck.

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