...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
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Alright, i just got back from hanging out with this guy (sry another guy prob hehe). well he and i like eachother and he kept talking about how he wanted to kiss me. However he never did. I know he isnt shy, because he definetly isnt if you knew him. So what's holding him back? He almost kissed me today, but then sorta changed his mind i guess...what could the problem be? I think he isn't sure if i want him to or not> How can I tell him that yes, I want him to kiss me, without freaking him out?
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Kissing a guy is not an easy thing to do so Im not going to tell you to just wing it. Just try to get a close vibe. Hug him, laugh at his jokes etc. He will want you so bad he wont be able to resist!
-shay:-)
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my worst enemy kathryn is talking shit about me(well she always does) , what would be a nice way to tell her she is the essence of evil and i would perferably not talk to her eever again?
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The best way to get rid of a bully is to laugh along with what there saying like "You smell...""gross right",you say. Then laugh and say "Ha so do you"!!Pretend like it doesnt bother you. Soon the bully will have no more fun bugging you and move on.
-shay
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ok heres the deal i am switching out of some of my classes and all tomarrow and that doesnt bother me becaiuse i will be in more classes with my firends but this guys that i used to like and told him i liked him will be in those classes too and i am nervous to see him becuase he hates me and all we used to be freidns but arent now any way do you have any ways i could come over this anxiety and maybe even some tips on how to show him i dont care becuase i dont its just i am one of those people who want to be loved by all hehe but i am no dependant any wya do you guys have any answers
~*confused*~ (link)
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Dear confused,
Oh course I have answers! To show him you dont care for him anymore you could maybe show affection for another cute guy in one of your classes. Dont pay much attention to him and just pretend hes not there. Ive been in situations such like yours this always seems to work for me!If you need any more advice just come to me.
-Shay :-)
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My period is a few days later than usual...and no I know what you're thinking...Im a virgin so I'm NOT pregnant...I'm just nervous because Ive been sick and I don't know if that has to do with the fact that I am sick...or if its just normal because I'm kind of new to this....please help! (link)
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I think its pretty normal to get it late. The cold has been going around so no need to worry. Though if you skipped a month our something that is the time to see a doctor.
-Shay
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I must sing in front of all my family for a 50th aniversary for my grandparents. How do I prepare to sing in front of the crowd?
~Scared (link)
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Dear scared,
Usually when I sing in front of crowds of even a couple of friends I drink some nice cold water then cough to clean out my airway.
-Shay
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I am a 29 year old married woman with three kids. I just found out that I am pregnant and my husband and I have agreed that I would have an abortion because we couldn't afford to have another child. We are already struggling to raise our three kids. I am so confused and depressed right now. I am scheduled to have my abortion next week though. If I continue with this pregnancy that means I would have to stop working and money is really tight right now. We are actually living pay check to pay check right now. The other side of me wanted to continue having this child. And it really hurts me so that I have to do this. My family and his family would be so dissappointed if they learned I'm preganant and I doubt that they would be willing to help. If you were in my shoes, would you do the same thing? Am I wrong in doing this? (link)
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It doesnt matter how much money you have or dont have an abortion is a loss of a life. Its like a murder if you think about it!Do not abort your child it is wrong!
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My 10 year old daughter is invited to a birthday party sleepover this weekend. Is ten year old too young for sleepovers or is it okay for this age to go on sleepovers? (link)
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Absolutley not! If you think your daughter is mature enough to not go and trash someones house at night let her go!She should have fun if she deserves it. Though if she is a wild one you may want to double think on that.
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Why do boys have ask girls out and why cant girls ask boys out. It make it so much more complicated for the boys. And the boys will never have a girlfriend if they are to shy to ask out the girl they like. (link)
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I think you are right, but that is just the way it is. Just like guys usually propose and not girls. Girls can ask guys out its not like its a law it would just be sort of weird, but that is also why they have satihawkins dances(or however you spell it). So start a trend ask a guy out!
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hey. well, to get right to it, there's this guy i fell in love with. he's a senior, and i'm a freshman, but i still love him more than life itself. but there are so many problems....he is my 19th cousin...do u think that's bad? then there's his "new" girlfriend. and the fact that he loves his 3rd cousin, which is worse than me. but the real problem is he is a vampire. i'm serious. he sucks his blood and everything! he's even tried to kill me a number of times. but i still fell in love with him somehow. but the day i found out he had a girlfriend, i slit my wrist 23 times. i've been doing it every night for almost a month now because of him. now, i'm not pretty or skinny, so it's not like i have another guy to like instead. do you have any advice? and then...there's my second problem. i'm 14, and there's this really nice, really sweet 22 year old who loves me. and i have no clue what to do. he's a minister, but he has a bad past and reputation. some of my friends are afraid that he'll rape me or something like that. but i like him alot. what should i do? cuz it's kinda illegal.......well, thanks in advance for any help you can offer. Bye (link)
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There is no reason to constantly slit your armfor guy.Or anything else.It sounds to me like you should definetly stay away from this priest(talk to an adult about him).If the senior you like as tried to kill you he doesnt sound like hot news either.But I dont think the fact that hes your 19th cousin shouldnt be a problem.Are you sure you love him that much still?Well if so stay friends and maybe you'll have a future.Good luck
-shay
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How can I get my plastic glow in the dark stars to stay on my ceiling? That puddy stuff they give you just doesn't seem to be working and if I don't do something fast someone could lose an eye. (link)
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I have some of those on my ceililng.Alittle bit of duck tape should keep it sticking right the ceiling.Hope it works!
-shay
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I've known this boy since the 4th grade. We are two years apart. We were together for 2 years. He was normal but now he is a total freak and disaster! Recently he's been stalking me, and my friends. Like he'll talk to my friends and tell them lies that I don't like. And he almost punched me and grabbed my arm so hard it had red marks on it. Durring our relationship he called me a slut for going to a dance with one of my good friends which is now my boyfriend. But yet, durring our relationship, on his b-day he played spin the bottle with all of my friends and kissed all of them, and my best friend, and my best friends mom. So, all together he's cheated on me, abused me, and stalked me, lied to me, used me, and ruined my life and my dignity. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Tears =( (link)
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dear Tears
I think this former boyfriend of yours is definetly jealous of you and your new boyfriend.Even though he did many mean things to you, you shouldnt have gone to the dance with someone else. Two wrongs dont make a right. Right now its not about feeings. Tell him you are sick and tired of his beavior and that he should grow up. Good Luck! shay
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Hello I want to know how you make out. Like what do you do? I know you french kiss by using your tounge but how exactly do you use it? Can you please help me!
PS my friend wanted to know so I told him I knew where to ask and that I would ask for him that is why I am asking. (link)
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there really is no answer for that question.Kissing is a thing that just comes along with feelings.Though I did read a funny little article in YM saying 1.lean in real close 2.Put your mouth on the other persons lips 3.Open your lips 4.Stick out your tounge 5.Move it around 6. Repeat.Hope it works!Haha j/k
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I hate you guys. You gave me terrible advice and now i am stuck in spanish and failing. THANKS (link)
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I'm sorry if you got bad advice. I hope it wasnt from me. Spansh is a hard subject, but just try your best.P.S I hope this advice works for you!!
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I like this guy who likes rap music alot! Im more into the pop thing.Should I change the music I like for him? (link)
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You should never change yourself for guy. If he likes you to he should like you for your personality not music.
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Tecnically i need no help in the hmwrk feild. BUT. what do you think about me droppin spanish and persuiting my carrer in movies. (link)
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I think this is a little something you need to talk over with your parents. If people in hollywood accept your aplication I think thats great. BUT an education is always better. Try finishing school and then take up acting. So if that doesnt work out you'll always have backup.COLLEGE!!!
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I like this one guy and i dont know if he likes me! sometimes he waves, says, hi, ect. but other times he ignores me! i barely ever c him becuz we are on different teams in school but he went 2 my old school so that is how i know him!!!!
Do u think he likes me??
Boy Troubles~~~ (link)
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Dear boy troubles
I thik the relationship you have with this guy is a friedship. If you really do ike him try talking to him and becomeing better friends. Its aways best to be friends first.
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I like this girl at my school but she is 1 year older than me and in 1 grade ahead of me. She is on my bus and lives really close to me. I dont think she is very popular or has a boyfriend witch is good because im not very popular I mean I have a lot of friends but we are not in the popular group. How should I ask this girl out, do you think its even worth asking her out? Its so hard for me to think of what to say plus I dont know when to asker her out. (link)
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Of course she is worth asking out. If you really like her ask her by a note or i person girls love that
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At my school there are some kids who think being Jewish is a bad thing. I am half Jewish and one of my friends is too. We always get mad when we hear kids saying it. Some kids say things like- You Jew- as if its bad. They dont even care who they say it to they will say it to christians catholics or jews. It really make me mad but I dont know what to do. Plus most of the kids who say it are in the popular group witch me and my friends are not it. What should I do? (link)
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If you are Jewish and true to it you should stick with it no atter what anybody says. You and your friend sould try ignoring peoples coments and get on with your life. Though if it gets serious that is the time to involve an adult.
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there's this guy (yeah, yeah, i know it's not original, but it makes sense this way!) i've liked nearly all this year, and i think he likes me. he's showing all the signs (e.g. choosing seats near me, watching me, then turning away when i see him, etc.) but i'm not sure. see, i nearly always sit near my friend, and i'm sometimes not sure if it's me he wants to be near or watch, etc., or her.i know the obvious solution would be to not sit near my friend, and see what he does, but i don't want to. i really believe in that saying about not choosing guys over your friends, and i don't want to just ditc her. (btw, she doesn't know that i like this guy. we're not close enough for that, but we've been frinds for seven years or something. she's not all that close with anyone else in the class) what would you do if you were me? also, i'm kinda shy sometimes, so i don't wanna just ask him. i know this doesn't leave many options, but... (link)
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If you have had friend for seven years you must be close. Just make her swear to keep your secret. If you dot want to do that try talking to the guy see if hes interested in you.
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Hears the deal. I am into musical theatre, and once doing a show i met this guy. But, i really miss him , and obviously i really liked him. I've tried to see him a couple times but it hasn't worked out. HELP!
~A sad one~ (link)
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Dear a sad one,
You must talk to him about what you want and fast before he finds someone new. If it doesnt work out keep in touch with him and remane friends.
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