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alright so i take back the fact that im done with this advice column. but im just letting everyone one here know that i do have a life, and advicenators is not it. however, im here to help. i just wont be on every single day.

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what are some funny or good videos like,salad fingers, muffins,shoes, funny things like that?! thankss :D

hey, text message breakup!

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i just bought this really cute pair of cheetah pumps, and i need help on what i can waeat with them. i know they will match brown tones and stuff but can i wear them with bright colors too? any help or pictures of outfits would be great

hey, bright colors would look a fashion disaster! i would maybe wear a cute chettah top that matches well with the shoes. if not just stick with the browns and tans.

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im getting my hair styled and cut.

this is what i look like...
http://i86.photobucket.com/albums/k98/smichele427/l_d5367eec1ed8639ded5a74c405d7b9a7.jpg

i dont plan on dying it... just getting it restyled.
so what should i do?

i was thinking side bangs and layers?

hey, do angles, sidebangs, and layers. make them all long tho. like longish layers and bangs and angles. what im trying to say is, not the short choppy kind.

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15/f. i already have side sweeping bangs and i love them. but i want to change them up and make them more choppy. i want your guys opinions on if i would look good with choppy bangs.

this is me now:
http://img183.imageshack.us/img183/382/mebrightam1.png

i want bangs like these:
http://img183.imageshack.us/img183/812/nicehairjj4.jpg

do you think i would good with them?
plus how can i style my hair so it is kind've choppy like the girl's in the picture.

hey, i think choppy bangs would look much better. i also suggest getting the rest of your hair with more choppyness and more layers.

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kay guys i'm looking for CUTE dresses.

not fancy dresses- but like cute simple dresses that i can wear to school and not look retarded.

i'm looking specifically for dresses that are not "babydolls" but more like tight around the stomach area and like a mini skirt on the bottom.. example:

http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12103&categoryId=12173&productId=2&langId=-1

it's like tight around the hip area so it doesn't make you look fat, and people will think youre wearing a tank top and a mini skirt.

okay if youre lazy and will only send me to websites without showing me specific dresses, i won't rate well.. don't just say "go to wetseal.com" i'll rate well if you guys do a good job of answering my question.

also- a dress that i can wear a white henley over so the top of the dress peaks through and i can see the actual "mini skirt" bottom of the dress

thanks!

hey, how about any of these?

http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90036&navroot=womens&productId=0393_9857

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10051&catalogId=10901&parentCategoryId=12203&childCatgroupId=12203&categoryId=13057&productId=1&langId=-1

i think that the first one is more of what your looking for, but check them both out.

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i have to convince my mom to let me get my ears guaged.
any suggestions?
i can't do it behind her back, she'll see them.

do the holes heal after a while if you take them out?

thank you!

hey, you need to be super responsible and get the facts straight. choose a reliable piercing place with a good repuation. choosing a piercing place with a website always helps, that way your mom can check it out. let her even call the piercing place.

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Does anyone know any reliable websites where I can get a sweatshirt like this :
http://buzznet-74.vo.llnwd.net/assets/users13/punkxisxlove/default/Adam_Lazzara--large-msg-116624748166.jpg

i cant find one anywhere!

online sites ONLY please:)

hey, i knows it`s a bit different, but im hoping you`ll try it out. i think it`s a great deal, only 15$.

http://www.aeropostale.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2457316&cp=2284058.2540679&view=all&clickid=cat_leftnav_txt&parentPage=family

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Do they have Converse at wal*mart?

hey, well im sure that they sell the fake ones there and try to pull them off as real. your way better off splurging for real quality ones. they will last longer and im sure you will be happier with the real ones. i would try journeys.

http://www.journeys.com/catalog_listing.aspx?c=vendors&s=girls/Converse

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What is a hair diffusor for??

hey, alright well a diffuser is this.

http://www.muimports.com.au/images/Diffuser%20Finger%20Soft%20Styler.jpg

they usually come with blowdryers, but im sure you can buy them seperately. try http://www.sallybeauty.com if your interetested.

diffusers are used to scrunch hair. this is how you scrunch hair with a diffuser.

http://www.virtualhaircare.com.au/virtual%20salon/blow%20and%20style/scrunchdry.html

as for products to use while scrunching, im not going to recommend exact products considering that everyones hair is different. what i like is aussie and pantene products. try them out :].

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okay. i have a new computer with windows vista on it and i want to put msn messenger on it. i dont care what version, i just want it. i have downloaded it many times and it downloads successfully but when i put my email and password it says that the service is temporarily unavailable. i think this is because it is vista, but i have seen people with msn on their vista computers. if u could please help me, thanks i need this :)

hey, well try getting MSN messenger from http://www.downloads.com things from there are usually compatable with all computers :].

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hey :] whats it mean when someone says "how be it"

hey, well it basically means "how would that be"?

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i got really REALLY drunk on Saint Patricks Day and started making out with this guy once we got back to my house (another one of our friends came too)...he started fingering me and i gave him a HJ...
I dont really remeber much from the night...and i only vaguely remeber doing that; which is why i thought it was a dream...
I didnt tell anyone about it...but apperintly the other friend was sitting with us on the couch the whole time...

Anyway; the guy who i hooked up with told like 10 people.
and so did the other guy that was there
so now like half my school knows; and i dont even REMEMBER it clearly happening.. and when i asked the guy what happened HE said he didnt remeber either

but a mutual friend of ours ask me if it was true and i told her i had no idea...

now it's really awkward around the guys cause they live on my street...and the guy i like is BEST FRIENDS with the guy i hooked up with...

I have no idea what to do...

hey, this is something similar that happened to my friend. what`s done is done. you made a poor descision on your part and yeah your probably going to regret it. but considering that you can`t change the past, i would recommend laughing it off. of course it isn`t funny, but if people know that it doesn`t effect you or hurt you [even if it does] they will stop bugging you about.

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I really want to start writing songs. I have a piano and I really want to start experiementing with it and my voice and the sounds I can produce. Regina Spektor is my idol idol idol. She has the sweetest voice ever and is so awesome on the piano. I have things I want write about but I just don't know how to get it down it's sort of swimming around in my brain like fishys :). If anyone could help that'd be so great thank you!!

PS. please don't tell me to buy a book or go out and get something.

hey, well there`s two options here. a} just go for it and write down what you feel. things could get messy and come out completly wrong, but who knows - something amazing could happen! b} enroll is piano/singing lessons. that way they will teach you the basics and even if you know the basics, practice makes perfect! tell them were your struggling - song writting. they will probably be able to target that spot with you.

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okay im 16/f to start off =]

well there\'s this guy named jamie in my school... he just moved like 2 weeks ago i guess... i never saw him until last thursday... because he just started eating outside during lunch time(where i sit)

so we started talking and he seemed cool enough... and definetly cute and handsome xd

and then day after that i asked him if he had msn and he said no... i asked for myspace and he said yes but i couldnt remember his url because it was too long so i told him to give it to me later and he said i can call him so he can tell me then... so wow i got his number out of nowhere (score!!)

so i called him later when i got back... his phone was still from where he used to live so it was temporarily out of service... wtf... did he do it intentionally???

so then on monday i saw him so i asked him wud up? and he said yeah but i can give you my house number if you want at lunch because we just got it... and im like okay...

so at lunch i ask for it and he said he doesnt rly remember so i should give him my number so he can call my cell because i have caller id...so im like okay and give him my number...

then i ask him if he wants to hang out with me and whole buncha other people on friday and he said

yeah ill ask my parents and call you tonight...

so he hasnt called yet but i dont get it... does he not like me that he\'s avoiding or something? with the phone number i mean...

and how do i play hard to get? im so confused!!!

hey, well this could be two different things. a} he likes you and is shy and afraid to call you or b} he`s not interested in you and doesn`t know how to tell you nicely and thinks that avoiding you is the best route. you should ask him straight up what the deal is. do it yourself, don`t ask friends too, things can be easily confused if you do that. playing hard to get is sometimes a turnoff for guys. yeah, some guys like the chase for a while, but eventually if they want a serious relationship playing hard to get gets annoying. just try subtle flirting. eye contact is key. go to http://www.links2love.com for flirting tips and help.

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okay me and my friend have done sum really stupid stuf to this guy and i have been talking to him and i blamed it all on her........what should i do...and i can't tell her because i alreadt told her that i said it was both of us....what do i do.

hey, you have to come clean before you get tangeled up in an even bigger web of lies. it may get your friend mad at you, but it the end it should all work out.

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What are some good rap/hip-hop songs.

I like Lil Jon, Lil Scrappy, Jim Jones, Kanye, and others....

But I'm open to anything..

Thanks!

hey, check out.
where the cast at- lil wayne

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Say you're forced into having sex but you enjoy it
Is that still rape?

hey, well i wouldn`t understand why you would enjoy having sex forcefully. yes, i would consider that rape. i wouldn`t testify against it because claiming that you were raped but enjoying it isn`t exactly a good story to tell.

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ok thanks ill try to but what happens if they dont listen

hey, then they aren`t your true friends that will stick by your side no matter what.

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hey, i'm 16 f and my boyfriend is 16 also

[ANSWERS MIGHT BE MORE HELPFUL AND EASIER TO ANSWER FROM GUYS/GIRLS WHO LISTEN TO POP PUNK/ROCK MUSIC AND ARE INTO THAT STYLE/MUSIC AND STUFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF]

okay so his birthday is coming up soon, he's in a pop punk band and he plays bass and sings in the band

he also plays drums and guitar and hes skater/punkish and wears band t shirts and pac sun-ish type clothes and likes pop punk/rock music

his favorite band is blink 182 and he loves greenday

i already went out and got him a band dvd [bad religion] that im PRETTY sure he likes because on his myspace under music he has this band but i never really hear him talk about them or listen to them...so yeha i got him that band dvd of them playing like live performences of alot of their songs because i know that he loves band dvd's with live performences....and i also got him a t shirt from pac sun [element] and a billabong hat/beanie thing but it sorta has that visor in the front...he has a similar hat in that style but like different brand and color and stuff...for christmas i got him a sweatshirt from pac sun [volcom] and the pac sun cologne [kirra]

but im kinda worried that what i got him isnt good enough or he isnt gonna like it cause im not sure if he really really likes the band or not and i already got him the sweatshirt from pac sun for christmas and idk...if i bring everything back what are some good things i can get him?

or maybe one REALLY awesome thing that he'd really like
if you think he'll like what i already got him, tell me but with that id really also like a suggestion too on if i brought it back what to get him...like something he'll REALLY like

thank you!

hey, well thats seem like great presents! another option would be a giftcard to like pacsun or hot topic, even to like a band supply store. if you wanted to do something cute, make a coupon book. make them like "one free kiss" and stuff. cd`s or concert tickets are also a way to go.

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they are true frends its just one of htem know about my loss and she is very quiet naw and i still be moody i am trying to stop though i cant

hey, well i personally think that they all need to know. let them know in a group that they shouldn`t treat you any differently becaues of it, but that you just wanted to let them know what happened because you realize that you have been acting differently.

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