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Im 20 years old, I have faced many obstacles and problems that I have had to go through alone with no help and the help I recieved wasn't ever any good. I have faced women problems, friends moving, suicide, killings, deaths, car accidents, sibling rivals, fighting, weird hobbies, my best friends being raped. I have been through a little of everything and I was the one many of them turned to so I like to help out.

Hobbies: I do a lot of work in recording studios, and video/editing studios so I know film pretty well. I am a director/producer. Thats what I am in school for, to further my knowledge of set production for I am a pre production wizard. I read a lot so I have knowledge. And more.

Education: I graduated at the top 15 percent of my class in high school which was college prep, and right now im in my 3rd year od college. I have an AA degree in media arts, a 6 month screen writing certificate from NYFA. I am 11 months from my BA in FILM and HDTV, and I am a semester away from an International Business Degree.

SO if you have any questions im polite and easy to talk with and you can ask me any question you have, I will be honest no matter what.
E-mail: spin18@aol.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico but live in AZ
Occupation: Sudent/Film and TV Producer
Age: 20
AIM: Tightwireprod
Member Since: January 15, 2004
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What do boys REALLY like in a girl? All these magazines & stuff say that they love what's inside, not outside. Is this true or is it crap? (link)
No not all males want whats on the inside. Lets put it this way teenage males rather have a really hot girl that is shallow as a dry river, rather than be with a less attractive woman that acually has something to say. Some males like a mixture but teen males look down before up. What do males like. A killer body pretty much. Just so you know I am a guy and im sorry but me I look for the feeling I get with a female not the looks she gives me and every other guy around.,

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All my best friend talks about is her computer! Me & my other friends will talk about what we did over the weekend, and "Ellie" will just talk about gigabites, megabites, and that sort of stuff. We don't understand that sorta stuff at all! How can we get her to talk about normal people stuff, like guys, parties, or even her pets?! (link)
Well first remind her that she is out of date she should be talking about fiber-optics and the new Cable modem using stallite transmissions to track computers. And also remind her that you have no clue what she is talking about and make sure she understands that you don't read the binary code and you really rather not talk about her computer. SO just be patient with her and show her that there is a time to talk about it and a time not to. I hope I helped you.


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My friend(not best friend) is moving! What do I do!? She's moving to Florida and she doesn't want to go. her mom is getting remarried. What do i do?
I don't want her to go and she doesnt want to go. (link)
Hey, trust me this has happened to be 6 times in my life and it never gets any easier. The idea of not seeing them everyday makes everything seem so unbearable because they are your friend. But tell her and yourself this is the real test of friendship making your friendship work out. Im not saying its easy but look on the bright side you become stronger. There is nothing you can do im here to tell you the truth and thats the truth you accept it but you make the best of it, your not losing a friend its just become distant.


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I have been married to a man I consider my soul mate for eighteen years. We have a 5 year daughter. My father died about a year ago. My husband loved him more than his own father (who is a selfish, egotistical, non-caring male). The loss touched us all greatly. I turned to taking care of my mom (my father's dying wish) and my daughter. I didn't realize that my husband had turned to drugs. On Feb 17, 2003 he was arrested and sentenced to 15 years. His tenative release date is Oct 2013. On Valentine's day (3 days before his arrest) his present to me was a broken leg. I still love this man. He seems to have changed since he has been in jail from the letters that he sends. Ironically it will be Valentine's day before I can see him. He was never violent during the times previous to my father's death. But he built a persona of me in his mind that he seems to hang on to. 10 years is a long time to wait. I have been told by others that he will be a harder person when he gets out. I had returned to school and will get my degree in Spring of 2005. I am not sure if I should remain married to him or not. I am afraid that all the lovely words he is writing is because he is afraid of abandonment. There are a lot of other details too numerous to mention but pertinent to the situation. But because of what he has done I have lost my home, my transportation, and my life. Should I give him a second chance or not? (link)
Hi, First Prison/Jail does make you "Harder" im going to be Honest im 18 years old with many experiences in this world and Prison is no joke so I can guarantee he is going to be different and getting back into the world is going to be another challenge because of the times/things that have changed. You ask should I give him another Chance? Visit him and talk with him about whats going on, not about the second chance, just about life and visit him often and this is going to be the most simplistic advice yet most powerful advice, WHAT DOES YOUR HEART TELL YOU TO DO? When you listen to your heart it will reveal the secrets the eyes and ears do not hear or see. I hope this helped you, and if you have another questions send them to my inbox for I will answer them right away.

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Everytime I am on center stage, for playing an instrument, singing, acting, auditions, giving a speech in front of my class, whatever.... I get soooo nervous. My feet shake, my hands shake so hard it's hard to hold papers or instruments steady and they get really cold. Sometimes I get this nervous twitch above my lip. I don't know any way to get rid of it! And I can't just avoid the stage, because even though I get nervous, I really want to perform. Ugh.

Help! (link)
Hey I know the feeling I used to get it when it when I was asked to read. But lets start simple raise your hand more in class because that helps gain confidence. Second introduce yourself to people you don't know because believe it or not the more people you know and are friends with the easier it is to get up infront of people. And the third learn to block the people out, just think of them being around you not looking at you.
I hoped that helped you

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Ok...I want a guitar. Badly. I've wanted to buy one and learn how to play it for like 3 years now. But, I know absolutely nothing about it. So could someone please tell me what's a good guitar to start out with??? Ahhh, I feel stupid. ThankYOU. (link)
Hey well I've always been the kind of guy to save my money and get the top of the line guitar but if your looking for a good guitar I would go with the Epiphone sg300 model. Or if you want to start simple get an squire fender version only a few hundred. But if you have a little bit more expensive taste get a Gibson you won't be sorry.

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There is this guy in one of my classes, and I'm not sure but I think hi MIGHT like me. he's on tha honor role but he's not a nerd. HE's actually kinda cute, but we've only really talked once. we were on a field trip and he just came over and started talking to me. Later I decide to eat lunch with him and he asked if I wanted his oreos. I know that sounds like a question a friend would ask but the way he said it was so sweet a kind (not like other people). So I'm confused. Does he like me or doesn't he. Kinda sounds like a question Shakspere would ask (to be or not to be? That is the question.)
Confused (link)
Hey, well let me begin with the fact cold but true Things are not always as they appear to be just always keep that in mind. And there is only one way to find out if he likes you, and that is if you take a chance. Girl go for it get to know the guy and who knows sparks may fly. But in the process don't get the signs mistaken. And I mean with he likes you over he is just being a nice guy. I hoped that helped you.

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whats an orgie? (link)
Hello First its ORGY, its when a group of people either of the same sex or opposite that decide to have sex with one another. It normally involves 20 or more people.




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