I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
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Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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Location: Boston Ma.
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i always flirt with all the guys at school or where ever i go. does that make me a slut bc everyone calls me one
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No, being a slut is selling your body for money.
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My bf doesn't love me... I know because I know .. The way he looks at me blabla .. yeah .. I feel like shit.. I'm pissed because I know he doesn't love me, I'm really sad and I have 3 days I just don't stop crying ... now what? (link)
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Is it that he doesn't love you, and he just has a crush on you? You might be asking a lot of him to say he loves you and all. But if its that he doesn't even have a crush on you, dump him. Talk to him. Looks don't mean everything
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yes im still with this boyfriend; im not making a cd, just a few nice cute love songs if u have any ideas? (link)
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Ok here we go:
Superman-Fighting Five
The Reason-Hoobastank (yeah i know it's wicked mainstreme but eh)
I Will Always Love You-Whitney Huston
I Knew I Loved You-Savage Garden
I Will Remember You-Sarah McLauchan
She Will Be loved-Maroon5
I can't promise he'd like them. They're girly songs but eh, they're cute.
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im trying to find a song for/about my boyfriend, and im having no such luck.. any ideas? thanks =) ..im 14 (link)
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Ok, question first, are you still with this boyfriend? or are you like trying to make a CD for him or something. Like what do you need these songs for?
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OK i asked the question earlier about the guy i met on vacation...all i kno is that he lived in north dakota with his dad who is in the air force and is moving to tennesse soon...i kno his mom lives in california and his first name is brendan...i guess ill never find him since i dont got his last name..:-( o well any tips on getting over him? (link)
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Ok there are many parts to getting over a guy.
Food:
Icecream. Icecream is the universal heart healer. Thats only if u REALLY fell for him.
Music:
My Immortal.
THis love
The REason
Alone TIme:
Write. Write all the feelings you have about him in a journal so that the next time you fall for some guy it's easier to get over him.
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i like this guy at skool and he really loves me and he asks me out all the time.hes not very popular tho and im afarid that ppl will make fun of me. plz help me!!! thanks (link)
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Screw what other people think. If you like him and he likes you what does it matter? Would you go out with some guy for the sole reason that he's popular even if he didn't like you? People also think its cute when couples are really into eachother.
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ok well ive gone out wit people and made out wit people be4.. but the kind im kinda going out wit hasnt ever had a gf and has never kissed no one so im gonna be his first kiss what can i do to make it sumthing he wont forget! (link)
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No offence dear, but take it slow with this kid. He might never have been kissed because he's not ready for it.
If he is ready here is some stuff that would make it the most unforgettable thing in his life:
A. Look pretty. Dress up for the occasion.
B. Smell nice. Where some attractive perfume.
C. Be gentle.
D. Leave him wanting more.
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hey i feel like my friends are using me but i dont no my on friend was using me to get to his guy but they went out for like a day and he hates her no and he was using me to get to her which she hates him now and i hang out with him all the time but i dont no if i should ask him if he was because my friends sister told me that she was talking to him online and then she goes are you using er to get to my sister and he goes yeah but then her sister is inda crazy and does that stuff to get ppl mad so i dont no if she was doing that to me to make me mad and then my other friend lives out in the country and i live in towm and so does he b/f and i feel like when she comz ova she is using me to get to her b/f and when i hang out with them i feel reallly retart i no that this aint a ? but i am confused but can you help me in ne way?
thanx (link)
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here are you choices:
A. Ask them what's up. Are they really using you or are you being paranoid?
B. Ignor it and just convince yourself that you
're not thinking clearly and that your emotions are all haywire.
C. Tell them to kiss and make up. Tell them that you don't like that they keep getting all mad and stuff.
Forget about yor friends sister. She's just making the problem worse. Don't tell your friend that though, because sisterhood is a tight bond not to be screwed with.
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heheh i know this sounds stupid, but whenever me n my b/f are alone 2gether, its like we dont talk much, and we feel really akward, like were forced 2 be hangin out 2gether.. which def. isnt the case tho. i mean, i try 2 be all outgoing and stuff, but i feel like he doesnt even wanna talk even tho its awkward in the car.. any ideas 2 get rid of the akward silences besides bringing up random convos? cuz i already do that... he just answers my question, then doesnt expand on it.. and im always the one askin Qs about his life.. he never asks about mine in person... see, hes a totally different person online than in person.. when hes IM'ing me, he talks like hes happy 2 be with me, and flirts alot, but i dont think he feels comfortable around me yet cuz we only been goin out 3 weeks.. help anyone? (link)
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Just try it and let me know how it works:
Try not asking the questions for once. Just let him ask you.
Maybe he's afraid hes gonna say something stupid in front of you, so try saying something stupid infront of him and then just laugh it off.
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i dont know why, but my boyfriend dumped me. its been lyk 2 weeks. my friend asked him if he would go out w/ me again. he said he didnt know. i called him 1 or 2 timez and he said he wanted to hang out soon. o yeah, the reason he dumped me wuz b/c we didnt c eachothr alot...ok, anyways, do you think we still have a chance or not?plz tell me!thanx (link)
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Always give it a secound chance. Sometimes things don't go well the first time, for reasons that neither of you could control. Both of you might have been really busy at that time and maybe things have slowed down now. Look to spend more time together and make it even better the secound time.
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what do you do when you feel for someone... and u want to tell them but u cant ...
u cant tell them how you feel because you get tounge tied talking to them...
and whats it mean when ur heart beats 1000times per sec. as the whole inside of ur body shakes...
I dont even know if this guy wants me... we tried be4 ... and i called it off... and now i want him back more then ever... idk what to do... help? (link)
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You're in love.
You have to choices:
A. Try and see if he's still into you and see if he wants you. Try again.
B. Get over him.
There's no nice way of putting it. You're in love and thats all there is to it. You have a broken heart and you just have to either try and go after him, or get over him. There's nothing you can do about how you feel. LIfe is about reacting to feelings that you have.
Best of luck to you. It's tough, i know.
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if i told my parents tat i luved him they would laugh in ma face n wouldnt let me see him even more.. my parents r really strict! i donno? (link)
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Then don't use the words, "i love him." Just say that you want to date him and stuff. But i think you and your bf will feel better if you talk to your parents about this stuff. Its tough stuff, but i think that they'll understand.
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my best friend is really kewl and everything but she's stubborn and she wants to have sex but she just turned 14 and she doesn't even have a boy frined but how do i talk to her about the dangers and stuff?
signed,
confused (link)
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Dear Confused,
alright, so your friend wants to be sexually active and it makes you uncomfortable. You should tell her how you feel and that your worried about her. You should tell her that she's to good to throw away something that important on any boy. She should wait until she finds the perfect guy to give it all up to.
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ive already asked this.. but i need more advice.. well ive been dating my bf for almost 2 years now! WE R COMPLETELY in love..and we're plannin to b together 4ever! the thing is.. is tat my parents dont noe.. my parents said i cant have a bf till i finish skool..and ill finish in 2 years so its not tat long.. my parents noe about him and i just tell them that we are really good friends.. but im scared tat if i tell them they wont let me see him.. wat do i do? should i let them noe the next time they ask or just keep it quiet.. the thing is my bf asks me wen am i gonna tell them n stuff cuz we hardly get to see eachother n hang out.. i meen he understands n he doesnt force me or n e thing.. but i donno wat to do! (link)
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This is a tough question. It's important that you're honest with your parnets. It will make you feel better, them feel better and your bf feel better. Make sure you tell them that you really really love him, and that it would really hurt you if they said that you couldn't see him anymore.
I don't know you're parents, so its really up to you how and when you tell them, but basically, you need to sit down, and talk to them. Parents can seem like a real pain sometimes, but usually they understand. They were your age once too you know.
Best of Luck to you.
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