Um.. my name is ashley. ive got a lot of friends,and i seem to be the friend you come to for advice and you rant about your life.. yea.. I don't really know what to say.. but um. yea.
E-mail: creamycashu@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina
Occupation: student
Age: 15
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Member Since: June 21, 2004
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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.
What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged? (link)
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youre WAYYY to young, do you think your parents will approve? i doubt it. i dont think it'll work. you have school, you have no job, you have no money. its cute that he proposed and its fine that you go on dates with him, but being engaged is a little to much.
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do y'all know any places i could find cool backgrounds for my advice column? (link)
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soup-faerie.com.
its a neopets.com based website, but it has Awesome backgrounds.
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ok on monday i wanna look realli cute to impress this guy thats sposed to ask me out..ive gotten my outfit its black soffee pants n a shirt that came with it...but im not sure wut to do wit my make-up n hair...i have blonde hair n brown eyes if that helps..and ne tips on how to get my makeup to stay on all day? sry i asked so many questions ill make it easier for you
questions:
1. how should i wear my hair?
2.how shuld i do my makeup
3. ne tips on how to get my makeup to stay on...
thanx! ill rate u 5 for answering! (link)
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hmm... covergirl actually stays on all day. you should base your makeup on the color shirt you have, dont wear to much, so you look like you are going out of your way to impress him, but enough to make him look. about you hair, it really depends on how long it is.. just play around with it i guess...
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How come i see so many kerry bumper stickers? I have yet to see one single bush bumper sticker. Is everyone voting for kerry or is bush just being cheap and not making any..??? (link)
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Everyone is voting for kerry. ive seen like 2 bush stickers.
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I have a big poster of aaliyah on my door and its getting kind of old ive had in since i was in 7th grade. what should i do with my door? i dont want it to be empty! nothing i have to go out for just stuff @ home. thanks! (link)
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wuts ur favorite band? put them on your door. make a collage of random clippings from magazines. like, cut out a picture of a magazine and tape it to your door, and keep adding on to the collage.
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Ok this guy and me always like hold hands and kiss and stuff so I think were going out cause everytime someones like o ur g/f is so hott he doesnt say' o shes not my g/f" he just says I know she is and " o theres your g/f" he doesnt say anything should I ask him? (link)
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It seems like youre going out, but just to be sure, ask him. dont be all random and stuff just like, after you kiss him, be like "so, we ARE going out now right?"
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I'm on my period and it hurts like CRAP! I'm dying!!! I rarley get cramps..I usally only get them the first day. And its my first day. So besides taking medicine what can I do to take the pain away? Its killing me! I have church soon so i'm going to go buy tons of chocolate haha. Ohhhh the pain!!! Someone kill me. (link)
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have you tried midol? theres seriously nothing else you can do.. sorry.
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i dont like my bro he is soo annoying.I love him but he always wants to copy me.He steals my cds and everything else of mine. PLease don't tell me he is looking up to me because I've heard that advice before. When we're in the car he'll do anything he can to annoy me i hate it. Please help me get this kid under control! (link)
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well.. you cant really do ANYTHING about it. he probably thinks its cool to listen to music that older kids listen to so he will be "cool" among his friends. theres seriously nothing u can do but hide your cds.
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hi i seem to have a guy problem.. not that i cant get them lol but u see i've been used my guys b4.. for my looks... im not being conceited but im pretty. like guys and my friends tell me im so pretty n stuff all the time. how can u tell if a guy is just using u or is really into u?
thnx (link)
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this may sound bad but.. you cant. guys will do anything they can to be with the pretty girl. they will act. usually if you ignore him for a day, and he doesnt care, hes using you. if he asks you about it or something, he likes you.
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Anyone know where I can get songs to put on my web-page? If you do, thank you very much for telling me! (link)
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um.... msealsmusic.com
*rate me*
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Ok, well theres this guy that likes me...he sits behind me in math and he is the play that i'm doing for Drama Class. He always looks at me and smiles and he's kinda weird and I dont like him at all. I mean as a friend, ya, but not as anything more. How can i get him off my back?!
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Just ignore him.. he'll get the message after a while
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okayy i usually wearr likee a shirrtt with my boobs hanging out and my stomach showing.. or a shorrt skirt with a shirt that pretty much coverrs my stomach with my boobs poping out .. is that wrong should i lett guyss havee to wonderr and like wunt to find out whats under it all .. or is it better to keep dressing like ido (link)
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do you actually... show your boobs? like.. all of it? i think you should cover it up and keep them guessing.
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Okay, I have a journal, & i'm in the process of making a friends only journal, but how do i do it, i dont get it at all, anyone want to help me out with that, and if anyone knows how to use one of them layout thinsg too that would be great help! I'm pretty good with HTML, but LJ's.. I don't know.. Thanks alot. x3 Kayd.
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Thank's again. (link)
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i have an lj, its pokethejello7 if you wanna check it out and see if you like how i did the layout, i can work with the overrides and backgrounds pretty well, if you need to contact me, my AIM sn is countingstars83
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ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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just tell her that she needs to stop lying to people about her life. tell her you love her forever and ever but shes pissin u off. if she refuses to stop, just tell her to stop lying while your around.
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ok well some idiot at skool made this site that has lists off girls in our grade. theres prettiest, uggliest, bitchiest, and sluttiest. in at number 1 for prettiest and this girl who i dont like is number 1 for sluttiest so now everyone thinks its me and its not! what should i do?
thanx-allison (link)
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its just some idiot. ppl will know if your a slut or not. one person wont make a difference on something like that. its more of a rumor type thing, not a one person decision.
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When I started high school, my mom gave me the whole "You'll be starting college soon, so grades and extracurricular activities are important" speach, and she said that any extracurricular activity I wanted to sign up for was fine. She had no problem with me joining the school newspaper, art club, or drama club, but when I asked if I could join cheerleading, she said no because "cheerleading is for bimboes". I don't get why she would say that, it's a sport and it's an extracurricular activity, what's wrong with that? I think she's being unreasonable, but she won't even listen to me. What should I say to her that will make her change her mind? (link)
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um.. just tell her its really a sport and you should also add in that cheerleaders are always popular and have lots of friends, so youll be happier. :)
maybe your mom thinks that the stereotypical cheerleader is the blonde idiot who makes the horrible grades because they are popular and dont care about anything. explain to her that you wont just drop your grades because of it, and that you just think its fun.
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Ok...my friend Abby has major problems. She's always telling everyone shes fat when shes only 100 pounds!! We are 13 and also she used to cut herself. She passed herself out in the shower and she got a big bruise on her back. Her mom is always in jail for doing drugs and her mom had a mixed baby! Abby lives with her grandparents... and they dont take her seriously when she says that shes Depressed. I tell my mom everything she tells me and my mom is really trying to help her and my mom even looked up people to help her...do you think we are doing the right thing by helping her? or should we let her deal with her parents? please help my friend! i will apprecaite it soo much! (link)
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You are being a great friend by helping her. she's really lucky to have sum1 who cares that much about her. if her parents dont care, dont leave the problem with them, it will just grow. maybe she should join a school support group, or see the guidence counsiler.
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Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
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don't have sex with him just because he wants to. wait until youre ready, if he doesnt understand that, hes not good enough for you, if he does, even better. youre only 15, wait a little.
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Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a week now, and I really like him a lot. I've heard stories about him getting stuff from girls then not talking to them but he wasnt going out with them though. All I've done is kiss him so far only because I'm so afraid all he wants from me is sex or something like that and I dont want to bring it up in case he isnt using me. But I was just wonderin if there was anything I could do besides being a prude to see if he really likes me or not. Thanks! (link)
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Just go out with him a few times more, and you will be able to tell if he's using you or not because, if he was, he would get aggrivated with you not having sex with him already, if he really likes you, he'll wait. after you are pretty sure that he really does like you, go for it.
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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How come she's allowed to like him and you aren't just because she does? So if you like him, why is she allowed to like him if you arent? Sounds unfair to me. She'll realize this soon enough. When she does, all will be well.
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