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Member Since: May 29, 2006
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Last Update: September 27, 2006
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I feel like I cant talk to my boyfriend anymore..well, i cant stand him. I mean, I love him, but he does the stupidest things and pisses me off all the time, yet he can be soo sweet. Like, he'll call me a tramp one second [[and ya know, say hes kidding and he loves me]], but hes getting me this Ring with our names engraved on it that costs well over $200! [[we picked it out together]]..but just earlier today, he calls me and tells me he deleted the voicemails i left him, so i tell him i would call him back [[since one of the voicemails said i was going to go take a shower and id call him when i was done]] so he flipped and was like, "fine go do whatever" and he hung up on me. An hour later, he tried calling me back, but i was still pissed about him hanging up on me. What should I do now? (link)
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ok he seems like a complete asshole. It doesn't matter if he ALWAYS apologises to you after he says shit like that..because if hes doing it constantly.. your not going to feel too great about yourself. He's putting you through too much and then he tries to buy stuff for you to win you over. I honestly wouldn't stay with someone who treats me like that. If you cant stand him.. don't stay with him its as simple as that. believe me i know from experience.. its only going to get worse.
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are you one? where do you go to hang out most often? please be more specific than "the mall" or "the movies". (I am conducting a survey a magazine) (link)
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-skatepark
-eachothers houses playing video games
-mall
-movies
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So..there's this gurl & i guess we're " best friends" well like 1 min. she'll be fine w/ you and then the next she goes crazy and talks behind ur back and says all this crap about you that's not true!
I don't know what to do because i thought we were friends...?
Confused. (link)
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Well maybe you should talk to her about it. If she keeps talking behind your back shes obviously not much of a friend.
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well, me and my boyfriend had been going out for almost 6 months, by the way i'm 14. and i thought things were going great, and out of no where he just decides that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore. and we split. i cried for a few days. and i just can't seem to completely get over him. i just want to pretty much forget about him, and never socialize with him again. what are some things that could help me get over him? (link)
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-do not listen to love songs
-do not listen to break-up songs.
-go out as much as possible
-preferably with boys.. meeting new people ALWAYS helps.
-keep yourself busy.. do as much as you possibly can to keep your mind off of him.
-refrain from making any association with him at all whatsoever.
Thats basically all i can think of and im sure it will help you out =]
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13/m
Ok so, I have this problem were I might fall in love with someone very easy, and when this happens I get rejected/ heartbroken like 99% of the time. Can anyone pleas help? (link)
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its called lust hunnie
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my friend kayla .. thought it would be a GREAT joke to IM my boyfriend and act like some girl looking to hook up .. and the thing is that kayla has a tendency to make things up .. or to invision things differently when she doenst like the person .. and she really really didnt like how my boyfriend treated me.
well she called me after she 'IMed him' as mandy moody, and he apparently asked her for pictures, her age, grade, and said that he had a girlfriend but wasnt thinking it would last much longer, becuase 'i didnt put out'.
so when i heard this, i got very hurt and very upset. and i tend to make snap decisions and judgements in the heat of hte moment .. so i broke up with him .. now i realize talkin to him would have been a better idea.
the more and more i think about it, the more and more it seems as if kayla maybe did say that just to get me to dump cody .. her own sort of motivation in a way .. because for someone who had such a problem with me not puttin out, he never made any moves .. all the things we did do I INITIATED! .. so i guess my question is .. what should i do .. try and talk to him .. see if i can get him to take me back .. how would be the best way to go about doing that?
guys opinion .. would you take someone who did that back ..?
i mean i wasn't completely happy with how he treated me, but i cant do this anymore. i cry constantly. the only time i dont cry is when i sleep, and then i dream about him. so i wake up and cry more .. i liked this kid for over a year. 7 months of that was trying to get over him. now ive dated him and fell harder, and now i have to give him up. what kills me is i didnt lose him, i let him go ... (link)
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talking to him wouldnt have been a better idea, trust me because all he would do is make up some lame ass excuse for why he said those things to her. And he'd probably try to turn the story around and start yelling at you for having your friend trick him. Your better off without him. I know breakups are hard. But if he treated you bad and tried to get with some other girl... well thats not the kind of boyfriend you really want by your side. I went through the same experience with the crying 24/7 and feeling miserable.. but trust me it just gets easier as time goes by. Just try and go out more, keep your mind off of him and you'll be just fine. Just don't go running back to him. You have solid proof that he doesn't care too much about you... and in no way can he denie it.
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My girl friend, Trish, is so beautiful and I love her so much.
The problem is people say that she is ugly, & I don't think that at all.
I was just wondering if I could get all of your honest opinions. Do ya'll think she is ugly?
http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c54/TriciaxxxAnn/newhair.jpg
I'll rate 5s for all answers. (link)
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no she's not ugly.. she's got her own look .. and you find that beautiful i guess.. dont worry about other peoples oppinions.
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So, I have this friend and she's been going out with this guy for like 3 years. No joke! They've been together for 3 looooong years now. She was like super duperly in love with him. Like, he was the only thing she could talk about whenever I hung out with her. Now....they just broke up. and she's completely devastated. She's been crying for like days now. I saw her this morning and she looked terrible. She is like, totally distraught over this. I'm wondering what I can do to help her through this. She's like, my best friend. Please help. (link)
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I recently went through a tough break-up too so i can understand how hard it is for her. And from personal experience i know that my friends support was the only thing that managed to get me through it. She is going to be depressed for a while, and im sure she knows that, but you need to reassure her that everything will be alright in the end. You really can't do much.. but the best thing you CAN do is keep her mind off of him. Hangout with her as much as possible.. keep her smiling, go to the movies, or a themepark for a day.. anything to keep her mind off of him.. Eventually she won't think about him AS much.. and soon she'll barely think of him at all. When you're in school.. try and keep her away from him, so she doesn't see him.. and when your in a conversation with her dont bring up ANYTHING you know might remind her of him. Thats basically all i can think of.. i hope she gets through this alright... i know how tough break-ups are.. especially after being with someone for so long.
♥*KAYLA
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Ok I know smoking is bad for you and that I shouldn't do it. Im a 15/f and been smoking for I would say bout 2 maybe 3 yrs. I have tried to quit before and I can't.Now I'm trying to lose weight and I have heard it helps keep off the pounds. Is it true?(please don't lie so I will quit I want a honest answer.) (link)
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Yeah.. ive heard smoking helps you lose weight but you still need to seriously look into quitting. Your only in the early years of smoking so im sure you havn't done much perminent damage to your body. So quitting would be a great idea.. so you can live a long healthy life. If you want to lose weight, diet. Thats a healthy way to lose pounds. If you continue smoking JUST because you want to lose weight your only solving one problem with another.
♥*KAYLA
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K my bff is 14 f just like me. Like a week ago we were talking my friend seemed upset. I asked her what was wrong and she asked if I could see a lump though her bra. I said no, but I can sorta see it if i look she said she had a golf ball sie lump on her brest and is freking out, I don't know what to do she won't tell anyone and I think it would be akward for me to anyone help! (link)
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Ok, i dont know what that could be other than cancer, but theres always different explanations for everything. Tell her you want her to go to the doctor and get it checked out..it could be serious.
♥*KAYLA
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