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Q: ok so im a 17 year old female. I got my period bk in grade 9 and im going into grade 12. Well for the past couple of days my boobs are really sore. I dont know why, cause when i touch them they just feel really sore and the tissue around my boob is sore to touch to. It like right around my boob at the base where its hurts and the sides of my breasts. Any one know why this is? i think it could be cause they are growing, but im not sure. Any advice or answers would help me out alot. Does this mean i have cancer or something? im paranoid so tons of things are going through my mind. Thank you so much! Really appreicate it!
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That happens to me right before any period, so that might be it.
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Q: I have problem going to bathroom, simply I can not make it, for three days, I have pain in the stomach.
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Maybe you have a nervous bladder. If you really can't go, put your fingers in warm water and leave the sink running (just a little).
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Q: How do I put my eyeliner on my top eye lid
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You close your eyes and slowly draw a line right above your lashline (I keep my hand steady against my cheek). If you mess up a little, put a little makeup remover on a q-tip and rub it off. Remember, this takes practice.
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Q: Is it possible for someone to know that you visited their facebook page if you are not their friend?
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It's not possible, unless they work for facebook. (a friend of mine does and can see who goes on his profile...)
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Q: How do you download your music? I've always bought everything on iTunes, but honestly I'm not a huge fan of spending hundreds on music. What sites do you recommend for downloading free music? I don't mind spam email, but I don't want to have to respond to offers in order to get the music.
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What I do is search "*song title* mp3" on google. Listen to the preview and then click download, save it, and then open it on itunes. Some songs already have the information, but some you just need to type in the song title, artist, and album.
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Q: what are some songs about getting hurt again.
I finally started to open up to my friend after a bad break up..8 months later. this new guy made me feel good again..now's he ignoring me and i can't believe i even opened up to someone. i hate talking about feelings..so i need a song
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Breaking- Anberlin
"you make breaking hearts look so easy..."
This song is actually more about a bad relationship, but I find that phrase fits the situation.
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Q: I don't really keep up with celebrity gossip but I was recently talking to my boyfriend about Lilo because he use to think she was pretty and now is skanky. Anyway, we were talking about her jail time and he said he heard she was only suppose to be in jail for 9 months. Today I just saw a glimpse of a headline on Google news (and I can't find that article now) that said she would only have to spend 9 DAYS in jail. Just curious if anybody knows...
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LOL. It's actually 90 days, but it was shortened to 15 days due to "overcrowding" at the jail...
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Q: So at school there is this girl that I really like. There are no other girls like her. Toward the end of the year, I talked to her more but did not get to ask her out to somewhere. It is summer and I cannot stop thinking about her and I cannot wait until I see her. So for one month I am at a class prep program. This girl that I do not know starts talking to me and being nice, I kind of like her but she's not really my type. It is pretty obvious that she likes me. I am scared that If I really start liking her then I might forget about the girl at my school. I like both but the girl at my school I REALLY like. What should I do? As you can see my name TheLonelySoul, I don't get any attention from girls so I am not used to a girl coming to me and stuff. I am usually the one sitting alone listening to music and not talking. I am, M/15
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You should go for the one you really like instead of choosing second best just because she (most likely) likes you.
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Q: My mom came to a school dance of mine that happened a few weeks ago. I was having fun on the dance floor and I do admit to grinding with a couple of guys and my best friend (who is a girl). My mom saw this though and was really mad at me when we left. It's like she can't stop talking about it and she keeps going on and on about it not being "acceptable" for school dances. She is considering talking to the principal about it and that is totally going to ruin my reputation and I KNOW I'm going to be made fun of because of my mom. EVERYBODY I know grinds. I am just wondering what other people think about grinding at school dances.
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I think grinding should be allowed, as long as it doesn't get too inappropriate. Why was your mom there? I make sure my mom never comes to the dances. :P
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Q: I'm going to my boyfriends brothers wedding this saturday. They're definitely really country kind of people it's going to be very laid back, I'm not that way at all. I bought a simple black beachy-looking dress. I have very cute black and brown heels that look perfect with the dress, but I'm definitely not wanting to look over dressed. I also have very cute cheetah print flats that look just as good so my question is, which should i wear? also if i wear the flats what jewelry should i wear?
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If the wedding is outdoors (like maybe in grass) I'd go with the flats (if the heels are stilettos). Otherwise, I'd wear heels. It IS a wedding after all.
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Q: Okay, so I'm a 17f, and my guyfriend is coming over tomorrow (hes the same age). The thing is, I've never had a guy come over before and it will be awkward for me to bring home a guy to meet my mom for the first time. We are kinda dating and it just seems strange having a guy around her, cuz she kind of bugs me about dating every guy I know, which I don't do. Anyhow.. how can I have him come over and feel comfortable? Thanks!
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Hah, I was sort of in the same situation. Have in mind a couple things to do (like watching TV) so there aren't awkward moments. Also, just chill. And maybe ask your mom not to be embarassing. (This is crucial XD)
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Q: 14/f
This is long. Sorry, but I ramble. I think i already know how you are going to answer this question but I'll ask answers..
Well, this year I am starting high school as a freshman. I'm not a new student. When I signed up for classes they told me they were cutting art classes for freshman and that if there was room in a class they would do a drawing and 1 or more freshman would fill up the spaces. I love art (I'm not very good at it) but I love it so I signed up for the drawing.
My class fees list came in the mail a few weeks ago and I could see which classes I had off that list. And I had gotten the art class I wanted! I was ecstatic but really nervous. I asked my friends and none of them had gotten that class.
What I'm scared about is that the chances are I'm going to have the class with a bunch of upper classes man and if I'm lucky one or two other freshman.. I'm really scared because I probably won't know anybody. I am social and know a few upper class man but it's just when I'm around people I don't know and they all know each other but me I get really nervous and shy.
I know I could meet a lot of cool people that I have stuff in common with this way and that it will get easier as the year goes on. But I'm still scared shitless of the like first weeks of not knowing anyone.
I can't find out if anyone I know is in the class either because I have no social sites like facebook and myspace and I don't have any bodies phone number.
So what should I do? I considered dropping the class and just waiting until I am a sophomore and taking the class and I think that's a good idea. I even thought maybe I could get high so it's less awkward and easier to make friends, haha! Not one of my greatest ideas but I'd do it.
Anyways, thanks in advance and let me know what you think? Sorry I sound like a paranoid freshman.
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It's all right. I go to a high school that almost all of my middle school friends AREN'T going to, and I was terrified of my first day. To make it worse, my geometry class was full of juniors/seniors (they had mustaches! ahh!) I think that if you enjoy art, you should take it. I know that your friends aren't in it, but after a couple days you're bound to meet a new friend. If you have other questions, feel free to send me message (:
-Nicole
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Q: my boyfriend has kissed 5 girls but was only together with 2 of them, what kind of guy does that make him?
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It depends if he kissed these girls BEFORE your relationship or DURING. But if it's before, that's pretty normal.
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Q: so i have a really good friend and i want to invite her to my birthday. the thing is, i dated her brother (how we met) and he found out about the party and is going to tell their mom she's going and drinking and stuff if he doesn't get an invite. he's really rude and obnoxious and i don't want him there. but i really want my friend to go and not get in trouble. so what do i do?
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You should give your friend the invite in front of her mom. Or tell her mom about what her brother will do.
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Q: Ok so I shaved the top part of my vaGina and now it hurts when I rub up it. Like I can rub or smotth it down but up it hurts really bad. I've never shaved it before though! Grr pleaseeee help me now!!!
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It's probably a little bit irritated because of shaving. It'll go away soon.
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Q: When you masturbate is it bad for your health?
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Q: Although I'll get rude answers from this, I'm extremely worried and concerned to the point where my stress has gotten me sick and maybe delayed my period. So, as I said, I was naked while he wore boxers and basketball shorts. I am on birth control and have been for 2 months, I'm only the last week in my packet and I'm going to be taking a white, sugar pill, my third one actually. I've been having cramping but no blood flow, I took my pills on the night of the incidents (it's only happened twice.) What has gotten me so upset is thinking that it could of gotten through, although HE DID NOT EJACULATE. I should be getting my period any day but all I've gotten is a lot of white fluids.
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If he did not ejaculate, there isn't a way for sperm to get into your vagina, so you can't be pregnant.
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Q: Im 13 and not a virgin and ive been fingered alot. my hymen has been broken. and i like when my boyfriend fingers me rough. Ive read that if you bleed afterwards he should be more gentle. but if you dont want him to be gentle, and u like him doing it rough, is it okay/safe?? or should i make him be more gentle even if i enjoy it? and he doesnt finger me so much as stimulate my g-spot, so is it normal for me to bleed???
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it's not dangerous; you might just bleed again.
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Q: how long does hicky last
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A small one lasts a few day. Bigger hickies last about a week.
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Q: I had my first period on Jun 7, 2010. I am expecting my second period within the next few days. I am having the symptoms... cramps, I am crabby, and my boobs are really sore. Also... I need some new feminine hygene products. I am not in the mood to spend a lot of time in that aisle... so does anybody have any suggestions for a good overnight pad and pantiliner? Thanks!
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Always Infinity is a really good brand.
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bio
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Hello there! I'm Nicole(:
I would not like to give away my age, but I'll just say that I'm in high school.
I love giving people advice, so just ask me anything.
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Info
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Website: Gender: Female Location: California AIM: Member Since: January 13, 2010 Answers: 73 Last Update: December 26, 2010 Visitors: 3301
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