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Q: In elementary school I was a straight-A student. Suddenly in the 7th grade, everything's different. I am soooooooo disorganized! I always get the format for the HW wrong or don't understand the assignment.

I just got a progress report:

English A-
Science B
Math F
History N/A
Spanish C

This is sooooo embarassing! An F! Isn't it awful? I failed a quiz, got a B+ on my exam, and failed all of my homework, usually because it isn't in the correct format (the progress report came out before I got my exam back). I feel so terrible---I go to a private school and everyone gets A's! Am I stupid or something because I'm so disorganized? How can I be more organized? About how much more of the 1st quarter do 7th graders have? 7th graders, could you give me an idea of when it ends???

thx

*Luna*
well, im in highschool now, but i can tell you that i stopped making strait a's when i hit middle school. i started making them again when i hit high school...but you should go to tutoring. it doesnt mean your stupid, it means u didnt understand it the first time. and being disorganized isnt very good. you can get a's while being disorganized, but its REALLY hard. try to find a system that works for you. and your homework being in the wrong format, that sounds like maybe you have it in the wrong order, not that you dont understand. so just keep at it and it'll get better. let me know how your doing at report card...

Q: Im 13-f and i'm in theatre. They auditioned me for a part and it was the part that I really wanted and I didnt get it I got stuck with this whole other stupid thing. Im not even in the play. I know im a good actress and its my dream but they wont give me a chance. I feel like my dream is cruched. what should I do?
your dream is not crushed. trust me. if you work really hard and you show you are dedicated, people will be more open to you. and, no offence, but you sound REALLY concieted when you say u know ur a good actress. but dont worry. you'll get there eventually. let me know if you get a cool part next time!

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Q: i am recovering from a recent break-up and i cover up my feelings by acting tough and like i dont care but i really do.i really liked that guy.but now he's a jerk because whenever im around him and we're around other people he acts like he hates my guts and starts saying these things about me but when we're alone he's really nice and just yesterday he declared he wanted to come to my EXCLUSIVE party im having even though he said ,in front of his friends when i invited him, i dont give a shit...it's confusing me?what is he trying to tell me?help please!
this guy is toying w/ u. he's a jerk(btw: this is the edited version of what's in my head...) and he prolly wants to get in ur pants or something. b/c if he REALLY liked you, he wouldnt act like that in front of his friends. he wouldnt care what anybody thought about him and u and being together or not, but it sounds like he wants to sound cool infront of his friends. my advice: try as best you can to disassciate yourself w/ this guy.

Q: Is there a website besides www.freewebs.com and www.piczo.com that let you create your own website for free? I will rate fives!
geocites.com is what i use(it's hosted by yahoo).

Q: ok so here i go when i saw this boy at school for the first time i thought i really liked him lets call him james and then i met another boy in school called jake and he told me he likes me loads and he always tells me he loves me so much.he follows me around in school. James does not say that!he just says thinking of u ect i hung out with jake and i began to like him so much!!! we had such a laugh when he took me home.thing is he is muslim i am christan my mum would never let me go out with him she would probably aprove of james but not jake. ok and here comes the problem my friend told me she likes Jake! I was so upset i wanted to scream at her shes kinda mucked up everything. i told jake and hes like your making it up. I am not... what do i do now? please advice me also i think i like them both im 17/f thank u
well, first off you need to ask Jake why he doesnt believe you. you probably dont want to get in a serious relationship w/ somebody who isnt going to trust you. second, ask your mum what's wrong with him being Muslim. i had to do this w/ my mum(my b/f is hindu). you should tell her that he is a really good person and his religion is what it is. just as you were (i assume) born and raised Christian, and you had no say in your religion(up until you were confirmed), he was born Mumslim, and its not his fault. i am not sure how your mum would react to what i have to say next though, so if she would freak out and you would get in trouble, leave this part out: you might want to ask her why, if she is christian she is so quick to judge others. after all, it says in the bible, "Do not judge, or you too will be judged...Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your onw eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."(Matthew 6:7:1-5). and thirdly, if you are in a relationship with Jake, then your friend should respect that and if she doesnt, you probably dont want to be friends with her. but if you and Jake arent in a relationship(yet)then she is NOT doing anything wrong. if Jake is such a great guy, then lots of girls are bound to like him. i hope this helps, and you really should talk to your mum about this.

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Q: I'm so depressed my girl left me and I didn't really make many friends when I moved here from NC what can I do to cheer up or meet new friends?
well, for starters you need to realize that you DO NOT need a girlfriend to be happy. if she left you then either you did something wrong or the relationship just wasnt going anywhere. but about making friends, join a club or something. for instance, you could join your local YMCA and play sports, which is a great way to meet new people. or ask if your church, or other religious organization, has a youth group/night.

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i'm a crazy person, but in a good way. i'm always happy and I guess i'm a free spirit. i have an open mind and like trying new things. my friends come second only to my religion. i'm a total nerrrddd...but i love bein one, so it's ok ^^music, theatre, debate, and science olympiad are my life. i enjoy meeting new people and i'm pretty straightfoward. i dont like mind games, so i don't do it to other people. i think out loud alot, which can be a problem...if there's anything else you want to know about me, just IM me. i'm usually on unless i'm researching for one of the nerdy things mentioned above...

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