YO! My name is ally! im 16 years old.i have blond hair , hazel eyes! I LOVE GIVING ADVICE! some people at my school call me cupid cuz i hook people up and help out with relationships and they call me dr.phil cuz i give great advice! so thats a bit about me! if u need me im here for you!love always...ally!
E-mail: ally3789@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Portland, Texas
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: xcutesyallyx
Member Since: July 5, 2004
Answers: 31
Last Update: February 27, 2005
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OK lately i have been having problems with guys i havent had a b/f in a long time and i really miss havin one. im starting to think that there isnt anybody out there for me i kno im not alone my friends are always there but i feel like something is missing. It's like theres a void in my life that no one can fill and its like everytime i find someone who likes me i somehow drive them off and i dont kno what im doing wrong what should i do??? (link)
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hey babe..i kno how you feel..everyone wants a bf. and trust me its not anything your doing wrong and its not cuz there's no one out there for you..cuz there's sumone out there for EVERYONE..the reason you probably dont have a bf is cuz your proly not ready.i kno thats not what you want to hear, but its the truth! when your ready..you'll have one! and ur not doin ne thing wrong..just be urself and if a guy doesnt like you for that..then screw them..they're not for you! just keep talkin to your friends about it and that whole in your life and your heart will fill sooner then you know..just keep flirting and doin whatcha doing and it'll be all great! i love ya dani! bye!
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Ok so theres a guy I met like last year and I was actually 14 then. I met him when he was down on vacaion. We tried to make it work but it didn't because he never moved down because his dad found a job up there. I still know his AIM/Email. Should I try to contact him? What should I say? This sounds crazy but I think about him all the time and love him sooo much. I'm sure the love is strong enough the distance now wouldn't be a issue. What should I do?
Signed,
Sad and confused!
15/Female (link)
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HELLO THERE! first of all, you better stop worrying and SMILE! And girl! use your head! if he's on your mind of course you should try to contact him! In fact, do it RITE NOW! this may sound crazy..but just think of it this way..what if he's the one for you...what if he's the one your supposed to marry..the PERFECT guy for you is him..and you never contact him!? he could be the best guy in the world for you..but you'll never know because you wont get in touch with him! just try!! if you dont..ur gonna look back on this and regret it! I heard this story about a guy who was in love with this gurl..he'd talk to her sumtimes..and he ate lunch with her sometimes..but never asked her out because he was intimidated..he didnt think she'd go out with him..he was thinking the worst and bein pesimisic..so when they were outta highschool they went to seperate colleges and the guy met up with that girl(lets call her suzie)he met up with suzie's best friend and asked her how suzie was doing..and the best friend goes "well..she got over you" and the guy was like.."what?" and the best friend goes "yea..that day you had lunch with suzie was the best day of her life..she sat by the phone that whole night waitin for you to call and ask her out" and the guy regreted not askin her out. so see! you have to take chances or else you'll never live life how you should! and all you should say to him is "hey! how are you!" and tell him ur doin good..tell him whats beein goin on with you and tell him you miss him and would like to keep in touch..maybe give him ur phone number..tell him to call or write you back..and then maybe after yall start talking more..adn start gettin closer..then you should tell him how much you love him and how much you think about him..and see if the feeling's mutual! well i hope this helps! if you need anythin else just ask! im here..love always..ally!
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do? (link)
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BABE! your 14 hun! I'm in love like that too,and i wanna have a baby, BUT i kno for sure im not going to! I'm 15...so im just a year older but still! you're too young to think about it sweetie..trust me..its not a good idea..be happy with the way things are going with your b/f but dont try to bring another life into it! Just think about how much fun you can be having now and if you have a baby you'll be stuck at home all the time with it and you wont be able to go out! thats not the greatest life to live! spend more time with your cousins or with a neice or nephew..i have a neice and i play with her ALL the time adn take care of her alot, and thats just as wonderful as acctually having a baby so until ur married ..just play with baby cousins..or siblings or sumthing! i hope this helped you! please think about this more before you decide to do anything honey..i dont want you ruining your life! ask me for any other advice babe! im here for you! love always..ally
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ok im 16 me n my boyfriend who is 17 have been going out for just over 2 weeks now.. everytime i think about him i get sweaty palms.. and all i can do is smile.. i feel like the only thing that could hurt me is him leaving me and i get all teary just thinking about it... am i falling to hard to fast?? i really think that im falling in love with him but ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and get hurt so im afraid to really open up.. am i being to guarded? should i end things before it gets too serious?? (link)
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First of all..dont ever regret or be worried about feeling this way! Its the best feeling in the world..believe me..i know..i was in the same situation as you. i had a boyfriend and after about amonth or so all i could think about was him and i loved him so much and i'd get terrified of the thot of him breakin up with me..and he did..but now we're startin to hang out more and its cool..i guess the point is..even if he does leave you it'll all turn out for the best so dont worry about it..im still very much in love with this guy, but im not crying everynite like i used to...cuz i accepted what happened..and now we're good frends..maybe a lil more..but the way your feeling is perfectly normal and ur not falling too fast..but just be sure you dont fall to hard..and i dont think ur bein too gaurded..maybe its a good thing u dont open up until yall have gone out longer..but dont ignore him..and dont let him think that you dont love him..because he probably loves you too and he wouldnt want to feel like you dont feel the same way. So just keep doin what ur doin and dont worry..just let things go with the flow and it'll all be great in the end! And also..if any of ur frends who have gone through the same thing have any advice for you..accept their advice and take it into consideration...cuz i kno you dont want to get hurt, but i have had myheart broken before and all i can say is that you do heal..so dont be scared! i hope i helped! good luck sweety! i hope yall last for a long time! love always.. ally
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I happened to notice that...i say sorry way TOO much to my girlfriend...is it because of me...am i scared that im going to lose someone so awesome...is being sorry for every single mistake a bad thing...i also noticed that sometimes it gets on her nerves...i dunno...sorry.. (link)
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STOP SAYING SORRY! hehe..if you feel that you are saying sorry too much..then just try to stop! i kno it might not be the easiest thing to do..but just try! And its possible your scared your going to lose her..everyone gets scared at one point that they're gona lose sumone they love because it happens. But dont worry so much..cuz pretty soon ur gonna start worrying bout that more then your spending time with her. And when you make a mistake..yes you say sorry..but dotn dwell on it..dont be like" omg im sorry please forgive me..i'll do anything if you forgive me"..just say "im sorry..it wont happen again" and stick to your word...dont let it happen again. your human..humans make mistakes and they should be sorry for them..so she cant kill you cuz your human..she's human too..so im sure she knows where your coming from..she's had to say sorry before..so dont worry. Just say sorry ..and it wont happen again..thats all you have to do..then move on..dont every worry aobut it again! dont dwell on things..if this doesnt help..then you can rephrase ur question and i'll try harder to answer it a second time..but i hope it helps! good luck! P.S..another thing is..maybe you should think before you do or say things..because you wanna stop doing or saying things that you HAVE to say sorry for..so if you stop doin or sayin things you have to say sorry for..then you wont ever have to worry bout sayin sorry! okay..im done! hehe bye!
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me and my girlfriend..NEVER get anytime alone...it really sucks...when she comes over to my house..we cant have the door shut..which i think is bull shit...is there a way we can get time to ourselves...i dont have a car which really sucks...me and her just want time to ourselves..is that too much to ask? is there a way we can get this time alone? (link)
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Yes...im sure there are many ways to get time alone...but is it really that important? Isnt just being with her enough? I kind of have the same problem..when "certain someone" comes over i have to keep my door open too, but instead of being unhappy about not gettin to shut my door..imhappy that im with that person and that i just get to hold him and he gets to hold me and thats all that really matters.i used to not even be able to have him in my room..but now i am..so im thankful for that, and you should be too! but if you really want that time alone, one thing you could do is talk to your parents..tell them that she's your gf and you would really like to feel like you can hold her without an alarm going off and your parents rushin in the room tellin you to move at least five feet away from her! or you could ask your parents to drop yall off somewhere..beach..pool..or just at a sidewalk somewhere..or a park! that'd be fun. and no this isnt too much to ask..people want alone time with their bf/gf's all the time and your time will come...i kno waitin for that time sucks but when it eventually comes..its all worthwhile..and u'll get ur car soon! dont worry! just be thankful for having ur gf in your life..and dont worry so much about bein alone! i hope i helped..if u need anything else im here! bye!
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How exactly do you french kiss?
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okay..this may sound stupid...but french kissing is like knowing how to move your hands..it comes naturally..just go for it..move your toungue around..and if you dont feel anything..its not cuz your doin it wrong! its cuz you probably dont like the person your kissing as much as you may THINK you do! but when you find the right person...and yall do kiss...you'll feel somthing..butterflies..fireworks..the whole deal! good luck!
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I have a friend who is going to a different college than me,about 350 miles away,and his girlfriend is a year younger and staying here. I recently broke up with a girl whose best friend is the most annoying person I've ever met. She never shuts up either. Anyway when I finally couldnt take anymore of her crap,about her relationship was gunna last even when her bf went to a far away college(long distance never works),I spouted off that my friend's relationship also wouldn't work, to her. The blabbermouth told my friend to intenionally get me in trouble. I didn't mean it is a cheapshot,but that's the way he took it. How do i patch it up with my friend and how do i kill(not really)this annoying,talking,girl? (link)
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YEA! like everyone else said..tell her to shut up! yes..it sounds mean.but you dont have to literally go up to her face and say "shut up!"...do it on the phone! hehe..just playin..but for real..u could callher up..or do it face to face..and say "listen, you dont realy have the right to go up to people and tell them what i tell you, so could you please not do that again" and aslo..to make sure she doesnt do it again..just dont tell her anyting anymore, and if she continues to be annoying..tell her you dont think yall should be friends..If she's going off and tellin ppl things that will get them pissed off at you..then she wont be too heartbroken if you let yall's frendship go. Now, about your friend, i agree with what everyone else said..call him up..and say your sorry for what you said..you didnt mean for him to hear it , but that its just your opinion..then to maybe make things better compliment him..say " man..i just said that cuz i dont think that I could deal with a long distance relationship..but you really have your heart set on this girl so i'm sure you'll do fine..I didnt mean it the way it came out and im sorry..will you forgive me?" true frends always forgive..just keep that in mind! wel i hope i helped! anything you need! im here! bye!
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someone u like always flirts with ur friends or goin out with someone but u like them , and u told them u like them but they dont know u still do, and u want to go out with them but yall r good friends now and dont want things weird between yall what should u do (link)
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Well...people are BIG flirts. And they're probably not JUST flirting with your friends..they're probably flirting with you too..u just might not notice it yet. The best thing to do is talk to them face to face.Tell them you have feelings for them and that you have for a long time, and that you'd like to go out with them. but ur also going tohave to understand that if they say they just want to be friends..then thats gonna have to be okay with you. Being friends is great! Sometimes its almost as good as acctually having a relationship! And also..while your talkin to them..ask them to not let things weird. and if they are a true friend..they'll understand. But if they do accept..and they want to go out with you too..then great! and if things do start to get weird...talk to them again..and maybe by talking yall will realize it wasnt meant to be, and that yall are better off as friends..and it may take awhile for yall to be good frends again..but trust me..it'll all work out for the best! hope i helped! sorry its so long! good luck sweety! need anything else im here! bye!
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what is the kiss that guys like the most..? (link)
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First of all...GUYS LIKE TOUNGUE! i know you've probably heard that many times from everyone else..prolly cuz its true! But dont ALWAYS give them what they want. Once yall start to kiss dont just dive in with your toungue. Tease him..nibble on his lip then act like your goin in for another kiss..but instead turn his head and nibble on his ear. Then turn him bak and go in for this kiss but just lil bit on the lip and nibble some more then finally go for the toungue..he'll be so anxious for that..but he wont be prepared for it and it'll make him happy! trust me! hope i helped! bye!
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Why do cats sometimes lick my knees? (link)
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Well.. haha..nice question. Cats are very strange. Sometimes they want to love on someone and sometimes they're snobs. You're one of the few who cats seem to like. I know its probably not the best thing in the world to be liked by a cat..but you are! Maybe its cause your knees are really soft! Or maybe cats just really like you! Whatever it is..dont worry about it. If you dont like it..push the cat away and go somewhere else. Or be optimisic and say.."hey! i'm loved!" well..good luck! If you need anything else..im here!
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