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My name is Jessica, im 15 and from michigan. I love giving advice to my friends and so i decided to give advice on here too. ill try my best to help you with any sort of questions like about relationships, friends, and all that stuff.

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im 16/f. and i met this guy a few weeks ago. lets call him E, well we chilled a few times and eventually i found out he had a daughter. i asked him exactly how old was he and he sed 23! ..he asked back and the next thing i knew i was "18". well.. later, we had sex. and the next day i found out he was still living with his babymama. he sed he's not with her thoughh.. but i dont know. we have a date on friday.. and i dunno what to do. shud i just leve him or pretend like it all doesnt bother me. i mean .. i like him and all.. and im just reallie confused..

You should still go out with him on friday, but when he finds out your really 16 then you guys probly wont see eachother again. If it really really bothers you and you cant stop thinking about it then just dont even bother..but atleast give him a shot. Hope i helped!

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My boyfriend asked me out 6/17/06. Well now everyone hates me. Kristen, Kelsey, Torie, Katelynn, Kaitlyn, Victoria, Jasmine, and more people. I meen I love Nick and all but he liked Kelsey, and he asked her out and she said no. Me and him became friends, he asked me out, and now we are going out. Kelsey started to freek out and tell all of my friends bad stuff about me. I can not take it anymore. I meen like they are being SO meen. I have to go back to school with them, and they are going to treat me like dirt. I cannot make new friends because the rest of the people in my grade are like goth? or like wayy nerdy. I dont know i have a freekish school. aha. thankss. =[

Sounds to me that Kelsey is jelous of you, so she decided to make your life hell by telling people bad things about you so im guessing thats why your other friends are mad at you. They dont seem like really good friends to me but like you said you dont really have a choice..i was in the same situation, but my friends eventually got over it. Hopefully yours will too. Just live your life like you normally do and just be with your bf, eventually your friends will get over it. if not tell them that they are being very immature and stupid for doing this and that you expected more out of them. Hope i helped!

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hi im 15 years old and i've been with m boyfriend for 6 month.

I made a mistake I tap kiss with my ex so I decided to tell my boyfriend he forgive me but hes been talking to me in a ruid way that really makes me feel bad and cry. im so depressed. When i ask him why hes treating me like this he said is because he can stop thinking of what I did with my ex he says he treats me like that because of what hes always thinking.. What should I do should i just leave him since he wants to treat me in a ruid way.. can you please give me some advice on what I can do on my situation?

thank you

Well he should be mad but he should never treat you like he is treating you, thats just not right. You should tell him that if he dosnt stop this then you have no choice but to end your relationship. If he keeps doing this then just leave him, you dont deserve this. Hope i helped!

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okay, So I know I talk about this stuff alot, but I really *like this guy I've known for years Im only 18 and he is 22. He is best friends with my best friends brother. first of all is he to old for me? Second of all How do I tell him I like him because he is always at my best friends house and we'd see eachother all the time, the other thing im worried about is I think my friend likes him but she knows I have liked him for years, but she won't confess??? What should I do to get what I want?

Your an adult now so age dosnt matter. If your best friend knows that you like this guy than dont worry about if she likes him. To let him know that you like him send him little hints like compliment him or hit on him (it will be cute and funny) basically just flirt with him alot, he should get the hint. I hope i helped

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ok well me and my b/f we at this dance thing and we were dancing then out of nowhere another girl comes up to us and was like hey ur hott to my b/f then right there he just lefted (i thought he saw one of his friends or somthing)well moments later me and my friends were walking around then when a slow song came up i saw my b/f dancing with the girl that called him hott i really didnt mind at first but then later he came up to me and broke up with me for the other girl.so then right after he broke up with me he asked that girl out butt she said no because she already had a bf but he wasnt there soo she had no 1 to dance wiht soo she just asked a random person to dance with her(my b/f) well then my b/f came up to me again and asked me out again but all my friends told me not to go back out wiht himm but i honestly still love himm but i dont no wut to do??plzz help

You really shouldnt go back out with him. I kinda went through the same thing, i heard that my bf was flirting really badly with his ex, but i found out they were rumors and didnt break up with him. but your situation is different, very different. He basically just showed you that he isnt very loyal and he would just dump you right on the spot for any other girl. Im sure you do love him just be careful, if you want to give him a second chance then go ahead but i would make him beg for forgivness and prove that he really wants you back and that he will never do this again. its your choice. Hope i helped!

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I really hate my hair. It's thick, curly, and hard to do anything with. I was straightening my hair (I always do but it seems not to do anything) and I always but the top (thick) layer up in a pony tail and straighten the bottom layer (thin) then switch it around when I'm done. So, when I was straightening the bottom layer and I just love it, it's so straight and thin and I love it. But then I do the top layer and it's all..blah! I seriously hate the top layer and love the bottom layer. How can I get my whole head to be like the bottom layer without spending a lot of money? I kinda also want blonde highlights. I have really dark brown hair. So how can I get my hair like the bottom layer? (Sorry the highlights were totally out of subject)

I would say you should get layers if you dont already have them, they look cute and make your hair thinner. Or you could get your hair thinned, i dont know how much that costs but my friend does it, she has thick hair too. And blonde highlights would look really cute maybe even copper highlights since your hair is dark. I hope i helped!

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My friend is really selfish. I mean, she's my best friend but she's so damn selfish. Like, when I go to her house, she eats stuff right in front of me. She never asks if I want anything. And she doesn't let me play her Nintendo DS. She's really spoiled too. It annoys me so much because she has all these things that my mom would never get me. And I want to play a freaking video game and she's so "NOOOO! PUT IT DOWN! I DON'T LIKE IT WHEN PEOPLE PLAY MY GAMES!" It's like, shut the f up! I'm so tired of it. What should I do?

Jeez that must be annoying! lol well you should tell her she is being selfish the next time that she does this, if she is your friend she will share stuff with you and not keep it all to herself. well i hope i helped!

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