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The name is JESSiCA but known as Jess, bunni or blonde. I stand 5'4. I got brown hair and brown eyes [glasses].


I'm always in a good mood, always smiling and laughing. I like meeting new people. I have an EARRINGS fetish. I love music, and I like listening to it REALLY loud. I like being random. I am hyper 98% of my day. I like late-night T.V. I absolutely LOVE when it rains, the smell is sooo awesome. I love to stick my toes in the ocean whenever I get a chance. I love to be kissed, and held. I'm not much into fashion, or the latest 'trends' I prefer to wear whats comfy to me. In my silly little head, almost every thing is goooorgeous.


I'm a VERY indecisive person, one day I'll want to save the world, and the next I'll be soO lazy. =]p I'm a nice person, sometimes TOO nice. I can't help it, I have a huge heart and I love [almost] everyone.


I may look like an innocent chicka, but believe me, I got my wild side ;) I love partying, clubbing and having fun!


Got any questions? Just leave it in my inbox and I'll get back to you.

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this is pretty long but ill make it as short as i can..
anyway, i just started high school this year, and there is this guy named ken. i met him not too long ago, but we have become such good friends. we hang out a lot, tell each other a lot, and to be honest i started liking him... one day when we were hanging out we were sitting on our friends couch and he grabbed my hand and put his arm around me and stuff. it was really cute, and that day i really felt like he liked me.
a week and a half later or so, he starts dating this girl allison. i knew before he liked allison. but it didnt really matter.

so one day, we were talking about relationships and stuff and i told him what i liked in a guy and he told me "where were you before allison.. i liked you and im surprised to didnt see that." and ever since then, he always told me to keep liking him because he had feelings for me, but for allison as well. and if anything were to happen between allison and him, i was there, even though he really likes his allison.

well anyway, me and him talk ALOT like i said, were like best friends. now his girlfriend hates me and a bunch of her friends dislike me to cause they think im trying to steal ken from her. i know exactly how allison feels though.. if you had a b/f and he was with another girl all the time, wouldn't you be suspicious? and i dont know if i should just give up on ken or not.. i hate drama and i dont wanna be in the middle of it! but i dont wanna lose ken as a friend either..

THiS SO0UNDS OF T0 FAMiLiAR HUN..I KN0W EXACTLY WHERE YOUR COMMiNG FR0M..

same thing happend to me. and the girls were just as bitchy. but besides them. he is 1 of ur bestfriends and that shouldn't change no matter what people say or think..that shouldn't matter..as long as you`re truthful and honest to him and he is to you..then its all good =] please rate..

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is it normal to not like it when other girls are around the guy you like???

that's totally normal..believe me hun. It really is.

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menina*

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I have this friend and she is so gorgeous. So many guys like her and she is always talking about how they stare at her and how so many people call her beautiful. I try to be nice, but i can't help it, i am so jealus of her. Sometimes i'll be really mean to her but i dont mean to be and i feel so bad. She's really nice to me, but but whenever i bring up a topic about myself, she'll change the subject and talk about a guy liking her. Is there any way i can stop being jealus of her and get her to listen to me? thanks in advance.

Well..you should just straight up tell her that it bothers you that she talks about herself and only herself because you need to find someone that listens to you because a friendship reliazes on communication between the two of you and not just her being self involved. hope i helped. please rate =]

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Okay so this kid pretty much took my virginity last year-ish, and we dated for a couple weeks. Since then we've hooked up multiple times, causing him to cheat on his girlfriends at the time, nobody ever found out. Then last summer his girlfriend found out and they stayed together etc, and everything was resolved and they broke up for a while and him and I hooked up. So basically they're back together because he took her virginity too, but I'm the only girl he's ever cheated on her with, and it's not like I'm sprung off him or anything, I don't really even like him like that anymore, we're just friends as far as I'm concerned and we tend to mutally hook up occasionally. So the other day at this thing for school I was having a bad day, and he let me cry on his shoulder and stuff, then we went off to "talk" somewhere and he started kissing me and stuff, I feel really really bad about it for some reason and he's really giving me mixed signals. Is he interested in me again, has he never lost feelings or did he just want a hookup?

well, this is a very complicated situation. Since you guys did hook up, there will always be some emotion between you two, whether it be love, friendship, or just sexual urges. But the fact that he has cheated on his past girlfriends with you is a little odd. He obviously has more than that "JUST FRIENDS" feeling towards you. I personally think he is interested in you as more than friend. But i think it would be best to wait until he breaks up with his current girlfriend because that will only bring in more drama. I hope it works out. If you need anymore advice, just ask =].

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menina*

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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?

awwww...that's sooooo cute

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My dance iz comin upp!! i have to choices on wat to wear.. I could wear RIPPED JEANS N A SHIRT or A SHORT SKIRT WITH SOME HIGH HEELS. what would you perfer?

i personally would wear jeans and a shirt cuz from experince boys seem to lift ur skirt..and heelsz would just kill your feet by the end of the night and you won't be able to walk for the next week..so jeans a shirt would look cute and be soo comfortable =] please rate


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15/f
i have a friend, and anytime we are hanging out alone or with other GIRL friends..shes normal and acts herself. but whenever we're hanging out with guys..she acts like a complete idiot, saying stupid things, acting stupid...just making herself out to be the stupidest girl ever!! and shes not stupid at all. after a party last night me and another friend told her and she was just like "you guys do it too and i don't care what people think" we do act dumb sometimes but we never take it a far as she does and after seeing her act so stupid- we will never do it again. she does it to get attention from guys and she gets it but its totally negative attention. its funny for a while, but then it gets annoying and everyone knos shes putting on an act. how do we get her to realize what shes doing is annoying and looking bad on herself?

i know how you feel..believe me..i have a lot of close friends like that..what i did in that situation was tell it to her face sayin that she's sending out the wrong message to these guys..i told her that she wants to seem like a lady not a tramp or a ditz..that makes guy play into their macho factor and guys can do stupid things like take advantage of her..and no one wants that..so just tell it to her like that..she'll understand..

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menina*

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