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Hey, my name is Tabby. Feel free to ask anything at all ill answer anthing as best as i can. i wont tell u what to think or do ill just give you my ownest answers. i give advise to my friends so i think i give okay advice. you can also IM me on AIM if you would like its xUnspoken Silenc

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ok i have this guy friend and he says he loves me but im not for sure if he realli means it...he says he wants to fuck me and i mean i do to but i wanna kno if he realli means it before i go home for christmas break and see him.....and i mean i have allready had sex before but i tell him i love him and he used to say it back to me but now he doesnt ne more...what should i do tabby???????

Well before you do have sex ask him if he does love you and if he does hell tell you how he feels. if he wont then he doesnt but if you realli love him and he loves you back then he'll tell you exacly how he feels.
Hope i helped.

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tabbbbbby!!i love you!!!

okay well who are you?

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i am a comlumnist here but there comes a time when i need advice. c i have been w/ this guy for 4 months now and he seem to b slipping. i dont know what to say to him. he seems to be holding back all the time. i need help. please, tell me what to do!

just sit down and jsut talk tell him whats on ur mind and that you feel like that im sure he'll understand.

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how do you know that your in love?

i rate all 5's.

well if you would give up anything 4 him/her or would want to be with them more than anything.
its just a feeling you get and ull no.

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Ok, for a couple weeks, I have been noticing that my underwear after I wear it has some sort of a white paste on it. I don't know what it is and I don't want to ask my mom. It kinda looks like goo/gel. I wear thongs but I don't think that started it. I've noticed it before than. Note: I haven't started my period yet.
I'll rate 5's. Thanks!

it means ur close to starting ur period.

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how do u get rid of razon burn? without just applying lotion...anything that will work faster? thanks

you could try allo that works 4 me.

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OK well i have this friend and ive been friends with her since 6th grade ( im in 9th now ) she has these annpying little things about her that tick me off soo bad like her laugh is sooo freaking annoying.a lot of people make fun of her laugh ( it sounds like shes having about 3 asma attacks at once ) and she freaks out saying my laugh isnt annoying.well anyway she is also saying rude comments to me like your soo stupid or stop being a bitch and then shell tell me she is just kidding.is there anyway i can block her out of my mind because its getting the point where i wish i never met her

she doesnt sound like a great friend. and if she gets annoying to you then shes not realli a friend well she is just not a great one. Try ignoring her 4 a while take a break from being friends. and then wen you start talking to her again if she still gets annoying then just make a new friend.
hope i helped i not very good at giving friend advise better on love advise srry i tryed.

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ok here the thing. i have a girlfriend and i love her to death. but, i got an ex girlfriend who doesn't know when to let go. my ex always talks about how she misses me & wants to kiss me & all this other crap. so my question is, how do i get rid of my ex without hurting her feelings & without breakin up with my current girlfriend?

-thanks

theres realli not a way not to hurt her. but You could talk to her in person or on the phone (( better in person)) but tell her that you have moved on and that she should do the same and tell her that you dont want to hurt her but you had to tell her so she nos to let go.

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ive been in love with my boyfriend and hes in love with me for about a year now. but now were starting to fall apart, over the summer we used to hang out everyday now we hang out like once a month. and hes the kinda guy that flirts with alot of girls, but i trust him. yesterday i told him i was mad at him (because i was infront of him talking to him nd he was ingoureing me and ran to another girl) and he was like i dont care. that hurt alot... then today i was asking him why he said this and he was laughing about an inside joke. then he came online, and this was ower convo.

HIM: do you think its time time for a change?

ME: what do you mean...? 'change' of what

HIMME: no tell me

HIM: nvm

ME:k

ME: well your really acting like ur gonna break up with me... just get it over with if you r gonna.

HIM: jump to conclusions muchh?

ME: umm... well your acting like your gonna

HIM>: how does somone act like there gunna break up with somone

ME: they act like they dont like them....

hIM: well

>HIM>: do you wanna break up?

HIM: or take a brkeakk

ME: if i wanted to break up.. i would of broken up with you already....

HIM: o

ME: whatever

HIM: k?

ME: if your gonna break up with me then just do it now cuz im leaving soon...

HIM: fine

ME: fine what..?

HIM: uhh i dont no

then i signed off. but i dont no if i should break up with him, i love him to death and i really dont wanna break up with him. but it seems like were falling apart.=( should i? or no?

--confused.


** i rate high

well if you realli do love him. then just fallow whatever your heart tells you i mean yea your going to be sad if you do but it seems your hurting more when your dateing and falling apart than you are going to be if you break up. ull find someone else who cares more and is better. that wont walk away. just fallow ur heart.
hope i helped.

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ok i no this has got to be the most common question in the world but im still asking it...ok i reallllly like this guy and we talk a lot but not A LOT so how do i know if he likes me or how do i get him to notice me or something! please help me thanks

get to no him more like talk to him more. or get one of ur friends to talk to him 4 you. and get them to ask him if he likes u or who he likes. i hope i helped im new at this.

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