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Ok, so i'm a guy, and there's this girl (when isn't there?). Anyway, I work with her, and she's 2 years younger than me. I really like her, and my girlfriend and i just recently broke up..
So I was wondering if there were any ways to tell if she likes me as well...and, will us being co-workers be a bad thing?

Thanks in advance.

It's not really a bad thing you just need to remember if you get into a relationship with her, home stuff stays at home, dont bring it to work ya know?
But just in the search type in how to know if a girl likes me and it will bring stuff up.
Just put
How to tell if a girl likes me.
How to know if a girl likes a guy.
If that doesnt work just leave me another message and i'll find you a site.
Hope i helped. =]

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I want to be able to give my fiance a good time. i thought that if i give him oral then it would be nice. The only other time i have done this is with someone who had thin liquid come out. But my fiances cum is thick and comes out in spirts. I think that i will get sick if i try and swallow it. Is there any way for it to be come thinner like the first?

All guys are different , but i remember along time ago reading something on if you give him a handjob before the oral sex, it will reduce the amount and less will come out, i dont know if it will still squirt or not.
Hope I helped. =]

x2yankeesfan2x

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how do you kno if a guy is just after being physical with you?? please help cause i need to find this out about this guy who keeps talking to me and stuff. thanks :)

Just like other people said, if he always talks about sex.
If its right and you both love eachother, you will know,if you both are there for eachother and not for sex you can tell,- if its just for sex, you'll get a funny feeling that somethings not right.Just follow your feelings.

Remember trust and honesty are the most important things in a relationship to have.
Hope I helped. =]

x2yankeesfan2x

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At the beginning of this past year, I really got into drawing. I don't know why, but it started with random doodles and ended with some pretty good realistic and some cartoons. My dad said I have a talent, but I didn't think so. Eventually, I just ran out of inspiration and started drawing crappy again :[ I'm confused, how did I go from talent to no talent so quickly? And now I want to start drawing again, but it's so bad it's discouraging. It's like some part of me WANTS to draw, but the rest of me doesn't... how can I make myself love drawing again? I just don't know...

This actually happens alot with people.You get these spurts where you want to do stuff and then you loose them.Also the way you were thinking you werent too good could have some part of it also.
If you really want to, just look at some art drawings and get yourself into wanting to draw, thats what always happens with me, like i'll be watching a baseball game on tv and then i want to play my playstation baseball game.
Best of luck.
Hope I helped.
Drop me a message if you need more help.=]

x2yankeesfan2x

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ok i am like 14 and i am not shy around boys at all ive kissed boys and stuff and i have had them sleep over and didnt do anything...and i am like nervous to make out cause i dont think i know how? so how do you? and i have a new bf! HELP

ok well i was always afraid of kissing a girl / making out and actually tonight was the first i made out with my girlfriend =].
but anyways once you start kissing you pretty much know what to do..its kinda like kissing but continuslay without moving your mouths away lol..but once you do it you'll like it =]

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I was wondering how long does a relationship has to go on before kissing happens I mean possibly every day or once in a while and how do I let him know I wanna start doing that
PS: My parents won't let me go on a date with just me and a guy until I am 16 so we will never be alone out in public only at school.I am 14.

ehh it really depends on the people..some first day or some after a week or so..when ever you feel ready to. you'll know when its right.

you dont really have to go out..you can go over a friends house/have a party.
hope i helped

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OK should i be stressing if my bf is talking to his EX? ANd cause he's trying to hide it from me. ( trust me I know) And if so, what do I do?

Well, not really,he might just wanna be friends with them,they might of been one of his really good friends.If you feel like he really loves you then you dont have worry about it.Relationships are about trust,if you really feel like you dont trust him,just try talking to him nicely about it. (dont flip out at him because it will make it worse) just explain to him that its making you worried.

Hope I Helped.

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has anyone ever gotten cheated on and took back the person? i was just wondering like if u eveer were able to forgive the person .. did u ever learn to trust them again. stuff like thatt

The answer is kinda up to you.I mean if you really forgive the person and trust them then give them another chance, but just make sure its the right thing because you can end uo getting hurt again.
-Some people just make mistakes.
-Some people do stuff because their make do it.
-Some do it to make their friends happy.
-Some do it just because they don't know they have something good, and wanna be selfish jerks.

Hope I helped.
Make the choice you feel the best about : )

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I'm dating this guy and we've been together for about 2 weeks but known eachother for a long time. We had sex and we talk a lot. We've told eachother we loved eachother, but he never calls me anything sweet like baby or etc. Does that mean he doesn't really love me all to much??


SOrry if its long.

Nope it does not mean that at all. I dont wanna copy the person below me but everyguy is differnt.Some especially act different around thier friends. Just make sure hes the right guy. The truth is, there isnt too many great guys left out there.

Hope I helped.

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Well i am 14/f, and i know im young but i think i am in love with this guy. His name is Chris, and hes 16. Well, we are like best friends. Hes always over my house, and im always over his. Well we about to cross the street, and it was night, we wanted pizza. Well a car went speeding past and he ran and pulled me back. We both got cuts and bruises, but he saved my life. And he was so worried he carried me home and stole his parents car and took me to the hospital. another time, i was locked out of my house, and he came and picked me up, and walked me to his house, I ended up sleeping over his house, in his bed with him. Well nothing happened, but we were cuddling. We have this thing that we get each other, and our families are so messed up, divorced and dead. But...he has a girlfriend, of 3 months, on and off. She is a whore and cheats on him but shes really attractive, and she has a hold over him. He tells me that he cant get over her and doesnt love her, and she hates me and curses me out, and i told her i love him and she punched me. He got so pissed and broke up with her but they got back together. What should i do? Tell him? or no? Thanks in advance

I would deffinatly tell him. Like the person before me said life is too short. I was always afraid to tell someone I liked them. Infact I was kinda scared when I told my current g/f lol, but now im really glad I did because I really love her. Everything seems scary the first time you do it, like a ride at a amusement park. the fist time you don't wanna but then after you do you wanna do it again.By the way about that too young to be in love thing, I don't know why older people think were too young to know what it is. Trust me you'll know when your in love.But I'd deffinatly tell him.If he risked his life to save you, im sure your special to you.

Hope I helped. - Sorry that its soo long.

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Just wondering...what makes you guys like someone/want to be their friend?

I'm switching schools and I want to start over again and hopefully make some new friends.

Hi, just act like who you are. Don't act like someone who your not. True friends will like you for who you are and not expect you to be something else. If they want you to be something else than their not a good friend at all.

Ps. Make sure you choose nice people because if you get in with the wrong people it could ruin your life. :/

Hope I helped. : )

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do guys like sex better if the girl is 'tighter' down there? i mean i know they wont care as long as theyre getting some lol... but if they had to choose... would they prefer it?

hmm..everyone was right about the guys will go for anything lol..but truthfully..the guy shouldnt care if he really loves the girl..and the real reason to have sex should be because you love someone..not just because you think its the "thing" to do.
hope i helped :)
x2yankeesfan2x

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I've never given a BJ before, and my boyrfriend asked me to give him one and I am totally ok with that. The only thing is I really don't know how. I don't want to screw up or something either.

hey..well the usual way would be to make him comfortable..like on a bed or in a chair..and if you feel more comfortable with your clothes on leave them on..but if you feel ok with taking them off..that would be better because it was make him feel better.and you pretty much just go down and up with your mouth and you can touch him around his areas...dont be afraid just do what you feel is right. (but what ever you do dont leave him in mid orgasm! lol..especially if you dont want to swallow..make sure you continue with your hand as fast as possibe.) but swallowing will make him happier (just for some weird reasons).

hope i helped :)

ps. just do what feels right

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So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while, and even before we dated we were extremely close. We've been talking about sex lately. We both love each other, and I want him to be the one I lose my virginity to. However, I feel like I'm ready, but I don't know how long to wait to have sex. How long, in your opinion, should a couple wait to have sex?
I'm 17/f if that helps any.

hey..well im not going to go off and recommend you to have sex.Though if you feel you are ready and you want to be with him,and your sure you love him then i would say its ok.but make sure your ready first before doing anything..its always better to think first..rather then to do something a regret it later. :)

ps.you'll know when the time is right.
if you need to know how to,i would think the most romantic way to would be to start kissing then eventually move further.

hope i helped :)

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Hi....I want 2 noe how i can tease my b/f!!!! There has been several times when we are talkin on da fone n he asks me wen im goin 2 tease him!!!! N i play it off by tellin him when i feel lyk it !!! What are things that i can tease him with?? Or what should ii do 2 tease him??

hey..well i few ideas are a lap dance..strip tease..talking dirty..that kinda stuff guys love...(the best thing would probably to do a strip tease till your in your underwear then give him a lap dance).

hope i helped :)
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Ok I'm getting a car soon...
I want one of these cars...


2004 Subaru WRX
2003 Mazda 6
2004 Acura RSX
2002 BMW 325i


I want the fastest automatic
[stock with out after market parts]

Which one is the fastest out of all 4...

My price limit is about 15,000 do you have any other suggestions of fast new model cars?


PLEASE HELPP

well depending on the bmw (if its a rich person type like a coveratble) or a expensive one..that would probably be the fastest out of what you listed.

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can i finger myself. would i bleed or pop my cherry. or anything else. could my doctor tell if i did.

Masturbation is nothing bad.Especially for a girl,it will help get you ready for sex.If you insert your fingers masturbating it will break the hymen (skinny layer of skin) and it wont hurt as much the 1st time you have sex.
so pretty much yes or could
theres a tiny chance if you go to deep you could pop it.
and your doctor would not be able to tell.

x2yankeesfan2x =)

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15/f

I'm sorry if this question's inappropriate...I masturbate too much, I think. Whenever I get a chance. Is this bad? If so...how can I stop myself from doing it so often?

P.S...I started "doing it" not too long ago.

Masturbation is nothing bad.Especially for a girl,it will help get you ready for sex.If you insert your fingers masturbating it will break the hymen (skinny layer of skin) and it wont hurt as much the 1st time you have sex.If you like it and feel comfortable doing it then dont stop.

x2yankeesfan2x =)

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okay, i have a question about dry sex. how can you get pleasure from having dry sex? like what do you do to get the pleasure? because i dont see how you can get pleasure when you have your clothes on.

well dry sex isnt as pleasuring as regular sex,but it still will feel good because your with the person you love and are showing them how much you love them,but just being safer.
hopee i helped
x2yankeesfan2x

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I have these red bumps all over my legs. They are concentrated on and around my knees and at the tops of my thighs. They're almost like pimples and I've used lots of soaps and cleaners to try to get rid of them, but nothing is working!!! Does anyone knows anything to get rid of these? Whether its a product you buy in the store or some home remedy or w/e... I don't care... Thanks soo much!

Well if you shave down there that will happen.If you want them to stop coming out stop shaving theere or use a shaving gel or something.

Hope i helped


Feel free to asm me a question any time.I will answer any of your questions the same day that you ask it.

Hope i helped.

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