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i was out with my ex boyfriend last night. we still hang out and all that crap. basically, we still act as if we are still girlfriend and boyfriend. well, while we were having dinner, i said to him, "im a good girlfriend, youre just to dumb to realize that you should be with me." i watched his reaction, which he didnt really have one, and a couple seconds later he replied "its better that were just friends.." he seemed sort of unhappy when he said that. well, after that being said, the rest of the night, he was holding me, laughing, all the good stuff.. and he tells me that he loves me. he bought me a painting to have it say [his name] loves [my name]. so right now, im feeling sort of confused. he always tells me that he loves and that were going to get back together when he gets his head together.. but then, he says that whole thing with us being "friends." how should i feel right now?
btw.. im very much in love with him, and so he says that he is with me. we are both 18 (link)
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Oy, ok um well let's see, why don't you ask him why he's like "I love you" then hes like "Let's be friends" try and figure out what is up with that. And if he really and truly loves you he will have an answer and hopefully it will be "I love you" and if it isn't I'm really sorry, but if it is that then you can always still hook up with him and shit.
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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!! (link)
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You are definaltley not a slut, they are waaaaaay more people who have sex and they are like 13 and shit, it's normal for people to have sex. I mean seriously, it if wasn't for sex, you wouldn't be born.
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hi. I have orientation tomorrow and i have to wear a uniform. we are aloud to wear make - up i have black looking hair to my sholder. how should i do my hair and makeup ASAP (link)
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Put on eyeliner, not too thick put noticable, and some eyeshadow but not too dark, then put some pinkish reddish lip gloss on, but no too much, leave your hair down and straight (I don't know if it's straight already) and put like a headband in, but put it like on top of your head, like just slide it on top so it is straight up and down behind your ears
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Well my best friend is going to move in a bit and well I wont see her that much, well I have a lot of guy friends and I want to become best friends with them.. will people think i am too much of a flirt? Is it ok.. do you think its alright? I mean it shouldnt be a big deal but I am afraid people with think i am a big flirt and stuff if i do that but i have a lot of good guys friends and i wanna be a best friend with one!Tell me what i should do (link)
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It's not flirty if you want a guy to be your best friend, personally I think that guys are better friends than girls, they help A LOT with the most important stuff.
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okay, ive been "talking" to this guy for the past like 2 weeks, we hang out acouple times a week and talk on the phone...how long do u think i should wait until i make out with him and NOT seem slutty at the same time? im comfortable with making out and all that junk, but how long should i wait so i wont seem easy? (link)
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If you really like him, then hell, what are you waiting for! You ain't gonna seem slutty, so many people do it, it's that way of life.
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Okay well see.. i like this guy names Tyler! He really likes me but see.. my BEST friend that i have known since i was like 3 or 4 likes him A LOT and she doesnt know i like him. He asked me out tonight and i dont know what to say.. i REALLY need you adive as soon as possible! Please! (link)
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My best advice is, don't do it, if your best friend likes him more than you do then do not go there, become friends with him, that way you can still hang out with him and stuff, and your friend will eventually stop liking him, and when that happens, then you can go out with him
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Ok me and my 2 friends lyke this guy and i found out that he lykes me should i go with it cuz i really lyke him but i dont want to hurt my friends! Plz help (link)
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Talk to your friend and see if it's O.K. with her if you go out with the guy, trust me, you do not want to lose a friend over a guy
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i've known him like forever, hes my bestfriend since we ran in diapers. recently ive noticed that whenever hes around me, my heart just pounds like crazy. i dont know why i feel that way.. i fear that i might be falling for him! if i do, what if he doesnt accept my love? i dont want our friendship to end if our relationship doesnt work out.. please help (link)
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Well, lets see, hmm, if you really and truly want to go out with him then I say go for it, but remember that if you guys break up then you probably will lose that friendship that you guys had, so I would be very catious in this situation
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