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Location: St. Louis, MO
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OK, so I'm 18/m,
Here's my problem, me and my gf are in a long distance relationship. Thing is we love each other but the distance is hurting the both of us and she's still in school. Now, pretty soon here I have some time off and I want to surprise her and show up and do something nice for her. Only problem is that I'm tapped for ideas. Any help would be awesome.
Thanks in advance.
P.S. All answers will be rated. (link)
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this might be a bit hard but it would be sooo cute!! call her mom and see if she can get a copy of your girlfriends apartment key (house etc.) take your girl out to a fancy resturant and have a nice dinner with her. meanwhile have her mother come in and set up her room with rose petals, and place a bunch of flowers right in front of the door. get a BIG teddy bear to go along with it. bring her back to the apartment and surprise her.
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Honestly I'm a pretty confident person.. i get a lot of compliments being pretty and having a nice body... (not being cocky just telling the truth) but theres one thing I'm really self confident about. My boobs are like the one thing that I just can't take.. I know i shouldn't care but like I think I'm done growing and it really scares me because of the fact that i think my boobs are so ugly right now that it makes me almost never want to like have sex in my life hahaha. well probably not but you know what i meen..
I meen i don't care if my boobs are big or not really i just don't like how mine aren't full at all they're sort of pointy and not perky at all.. they're not round like what a typical boob is .. sorry if im too in detail.. I honestly don't think im growing anymore which im mad about because ive had my period for 4 years and my boobs never hurt anymore only rarely when i have my period =[. Another thing i dont like is that my nipples seem to be not the same size.. is that normal??
Is there any way i can be growing anymore.. and how come my boobs aren't filling out they're just like that.. (link)
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well most girls dont stop developing until the age of 20. so i dont thing you have anything to worry about. a lot of girls boobs are not the same size or look different from each other. yours may not be growing right now but you will get a growth spurt and they will fill out and be fine.
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My b/f's homecoming dance is next week, and i need some ideas on how to dress. Im not exactally sure as to how to dress 'semi formal.' Please answer quickly, im going to the mall tomarrow.
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go for a cute dress that isnt to revealing or clingy. get one with a length right above your knee. or another option would be to find some nice black dress pants and pretty shirt. no t-shirts or anything with words on it. keep it simple and sophisticated.
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Ok, well my nipples have been sore lately, like to the touch, you don't have to pinch them or anything. And I know it can happen before your menstrual cycle but I'm not about to start mine, and I never got sore nipples before one either. It's been like this for a week now and I don't know why. It's not excruciating, it's bearable but I'd rather it not, you know? It's not my breasts or areola, it's just the nipple. (link)
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your boobs will get sore a lot while they are growing. dont worry it dpesnt mean your pregnant or anything.
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ok so i went to kohl's and bought 2 pairs of jeans-- one was a size 0 average and the other was a size 1 average/regular. for some reason, the size 1 is much tighter than the 0! i didn't wash them or anything, i just bought them and tried them on and the 1 is tighter. why is this? (link)
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because different brands of jeans run different sizes. like a 'Hollister' 0 is usually a lot smaller than an 'american eagle' 0. its just the way the company makes there jeans to fit a certain type of person.
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Can anyone recommend any books about the history of the mafia?
I've always been fascinated by the mafia and organized crime in general and I really want to read some biographies but first I'd really like to read about the history of it first.
The only books I can find tell about the start of the mafia in sicily and then seperate books which tell about the coming to America of the mafia. I'd like something that can tell me the start of the mafia and the coming to America of it in one book.
While we're at it, you can recommend some biographies or other books for me to read after I've read the history one, if you want.
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http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/results.asp?WRD=mafia&z=y&cds2Pid=9481
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/results.asp?WRD=mafia+history&z=y
http://www.mobstory.com/books/books-01.html
here are some links that may help you.
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ummm k so yestaday i qot high widd this kid and then we hooked up and shit and he was fingerrin me but i was reallly high i think he might have put his dick in me but like it ddint hurt or nuttin and it was for like 3 seconds i dont kno if it was his fingers or whatt im scared i dont wann be fuckin pregnantttttt wouldnt i bleed or sumthin?
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well first off, most girls really DONT bleed thier first time having sex. it is always possible that you could get pregnant from pre-cum if he went in you for a second. but most likly nothing will happen. it is actually harder to get pregnant than you think. as long as he didnt cum inside you then im sure you will be fine.
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i have some stretch marks on my breast. does anyone know of anything that i can use that i can find around the house to get rid of them? cuz i dont really want to buy anything. im 13/f (link)
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im not sure of anything that will totally get rid of them, but make sure you put lotion on them everyday or as much as possible. this will help them stay soft and help your skin not stretch anymore. you could try using a scar cream like Mederma. it might work on stretch marks also.
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i heard people say that you can't wear white after labor day or is it veterans day
-which holiday is it, labor day or veteran's day
-why can't you wear white after
-what happens if you wear white (link)
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haha your right it is labor day. but dont worry thats just an old saying. nothing is going to happen to anybody if they where white from now on.
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Why is it better to drink at the legal age, 18, then any lower age?
And if you're yougner than age 18 and drink, what does it do to your body parts? (link)
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well the legal drinking age is actually 21. and they have that law because you're supossed to be more responsible at that age.
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has anyone done an application for a tafe coures like this
im appying for a childcare tafe course for next year instead of going back to school and there is a section in the application where we have to write why you want to do the course and get picked to do the course, i dont know what to write...
what is the most important thing about childcare?
like what can i write so show them that i am really interested and really want to do this course.
i cant just write that i like kids... or that i baby sit...
can anyone help me think of what to write... starting next week im doing volenteer work at a pre school to get experience so i can write that in but i dont know what else to write??? (link)
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say things like you love to make kids happy and you cant wait till you have your own kids. say how much care you have when watching children.
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I think I smell "down there" it's not a fishy smell, I can't explain it, and I don't think it's from discharge. What could be wrong with me? I'm a virgin to, if that helps any. Someone even noticed it, i'm so scared. How should I tell my mom?"
I'm really embarrassed about it and me and my mom don't talk about this kind of stuff, how should I bring it up? Saying something like someone said I stink and it's not from sweating.. will she get what i'm trying to say? (link)
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yeah thats good. you can just hint to her, without actually have to come out and say exactly what it is. trust me she will understand. she is a mom afterall. these types of things are her job. just say hey mom i think i have a weird kinda smell. it isnt from sweating its like"down there". you probably wont even have to say that much, im sure she will get what your saying.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zATF9hGQ3PM
whats the song at :38? (link)
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it is called "Heels over Head" by Boys Like Girls.
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how long does it take for sleep meds to kick in? (link)
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depends on what medication your taking but it generally takes about 30 minutes to an hour, to get the full effect.
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SIMPLE QUESTION-
I was wondering, how do you know what kind of pack you have on your abs? (2 pack, 4 pack, 6 pack) (link)
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if there is only 1 bump (muscle) on each side of your stomach, thats a 2 pack. if there is 2 on each side thats a 4 pack. if there is 3 on each side thats called a 6 pack.
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my dog was just diagnosed that she is diabetic. well she has been peeing like 1/2 gallons all over half of the kitchen in the mornings. i have done ANYTHING you could think of. mopped 35435435 times, vinegar and water. but the pee is so sugary that it is always still sticky and i can't get it all up!
what else can i do?
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pour a little bit of bleach on the area where she peed and let it sit for awhile. after about 30 minutes mop it all up and wipe it down with water. that should get the smell or stickiness out.
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when i try to finger myselft all i fell is like something blocking my finger from going anymore than one centimeter in, i know it could be the hymen, but would that really do taht? n if it did is there anyway i can 'break' it without having sex...
also is there a certain angle you have to go in to figer yourslef? (link)
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it could be your hymen but your body is probably just not used to that. it will probably hurt the first time and if it bleeds thats okay. bleeding is just your hymen breaking, which can happen by using a tampon, fingering, running or other vigorous activity. you might just have to break it the first time but if it hurts to bad then just wait until your body is more ready to handle that stuff.
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i recently got a pass to my school's (i attend a community college) PE building. i have access to pretty much any kind of gym equipment including a pool, indoor track, etc. i would like to tone my upper arms and thighs (you know, eliminate a little fat and flabby-ness) so i decided to dedicate the two hours or so before my yoga class to working out. so, how would spinning (stationary cycling) or running for 20 minutes and then swimming for an hour and then participating in a 50-minute yoga class work out for me? maybe i could lose a few pounds in the process? (link)
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that sounds really good. also try jump roping for 10 minutes. it really tones your legs and butt. also for your arms do push ups, go from 10 all the way down to 1 then go back up again. do this once a day and you will definetly see results. also if they have a punching bag use that for awhile. i am a kickboxer and these are some of the easier workouts we do.
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I think I smell "down there" it's not a fishy smell, I can't explain it, and I don't think it's from discharge. What could be wrong with me? I'm a virgin to, if that helps any. Someone even noticed it, i'm so scared. How should I tell my mom? (link)
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a little smell down ther is normal for your age. make sure you take a shower everyday and wash really good. try using a strong scented soap. if this hasnt help then ask your mom to see the docter. she wont think your gross or weird because a lot of girls have this problem. if your docter is a guy then just ask to have a female one check you out that day. if its anything abnormal she will be able to prescribe something that will clear it up.
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k so i'm dating this kid for the third time. dumb i know but theres just something about him. he's kinda weird but more like outgoing and doesn;t care what anyone thinks of him. which i don't care but my friends are always like ew gross. i don't know i just like him..how should i deal with people saying stuff like that? (link)
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exactly what 'blackrose13' said. just ignore them. dont let them influence your decisions. you want to be a leader in life not a follower. stand up to your friends and say hey guys you what? i really like this guy and would appreciate it if you could stop making fun of him. if they dont respect your decision then they arent good friends at all.
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