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OK, I have this crush and I am too shy to ask him if he likes me, and that is the only way!!!! i really have a crush on him. (link)
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well... GUYS heheheheh
and thats not the only way. Have one of your good friends talk to him, and i mean a good friend and not a guy prferbly a girl cause guys will spread it..... but anyway do you think that this guy likes you back?
Why dont you get a friend and have her say "hey you know that girl(whatever ur name is) do u like her more than a friend"?
and have your friend tell you what he said and then if he likes u go from there. let me know where u get with him
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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Oh wow! I know so totally how you feel! It IS hard. You're putting yourself at the risk of having your heartbroken and that's never fun. But then again if you don't tell him, aren't you gonna be like, "What if_____?" or "Why didn't I ____?" No, but Sammy is right. If YOU can't find out, try having a friend find out. Maybe not a girl, because he could get the wrong vibes, but if you have a really close guy friend that you can trust not to gossip, that might be safer. Guys generally feel more comfortable that way.
LIA AND SAMANTHA
this was answered by Lia
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All of my friends are really worried about me because I cut myself. My parents don't know I still cut, but they know that I used to. I'm addicted to hurting myself and I don't want to stop. Everyone wants to change me but I refuse to. How do I get everyone to stop trying to get me to change? (link)
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people only are trying to change u because they love you and they care about you. Chances are that they no what they are talking about and they are just trying to help u out. if someone wants to help u out sit down and listen to the words that they have to say, it might not mean anything to u but at least it makes them feel better. Hope that helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
this is answered by samantha
Cutting is a form of relieving depression. One of my best friends cut herself for the same reasons as you (She was addicted to pain too) and every single day I was so afraid of losing her. Like I'd think when she told me she wasn't gonna stop, "What if my best friend dies?" I was really... scared. That's why people are trying to change you. Not 'cause they wanna be all up in your life. It's 'cause they love you. And because you remind me of my friend, I really want to help you.
http://www.safe-alternatives.com/index.html This is the website for safe alternatives. It's really helpful in understanding a lot of your feelings. And as for how to get your family to leave you alone? There's no way, to be honest. Your family and friends will ALWAYS care for you. I hope to hear from you again.
LIA AND SAMANTHA
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OK, I think my friend is mad at me for no exact reason, I mean I wanted both of my friends to be friends, and they did, I mean thats great and all, but one of them, and I am not pointing fingers, but is hateing me for saying " Can you also be friends with me anymore?" PLZ SOLE THIS 4 ME (link)
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ok....well
i think i know what u r trying to say
this kind of thing happens all the time
if one of your friends dosnt want to be friends with another one of your close friends, then there is nothin u can do to make them friends.
Lets see here
for example if u were to have a party or something and u were to invite both of those friends over. And if your friends get mad at u fot inviting the other friend over. then just tell them that "sure i might have friends that u dont like but theres nothin i can do to change that and if u cant accept me for me and the friends i have. then well ur not a real friend"
hope that helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
this answer is by samantha
LIA:
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this is just a test (link)
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i am hearing things that my boyfriend is cheating on me and when i ask him he said no. what should i do? please help!!!!!!!!!
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sry about that someone else was answerin and not me. If u feel that your boyfriend is chating on u sit down and have a serious talk with him, and try to get as much evidence as u can to proove that he is cheating on u and if he is tell him that evidence. then you will no the truth
i hope that helped
LIA AND SAMANTHA
this was answered by samantha
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Well first of all...everyone of my friends are having sex now and im only in the 8th grade...i'll b in high school in a couple months and everybody will be trying to get me to have sex??...should i just try it ..like everybody else..or just tell them that im waiting for a special guy?...but the point is ..is that if im goin out with a guy i might think he is the right guy and go for it but i know we wont last long..will sumone pleez talk to me? (link)
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Personally I don't think you should. There was a Lifetime movie about this same scenario. The girl really has a break down after she loses her virginity. You shouldn't have sex because of your friends. At least wait until high school. You don't wanna grow up that fast. Intercourse has physical and emotional side effects. If you can handle being pregnant, that's one thing, but your child if you kept it would suffer more. Oh and it WOULD get around. Teens talk. You really don't want a reputation going into high school. But y'know, if you do... make sure it's right. If you know it's gonna end soon, don't. Save it for someone special.
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i have been sleeping with 5 guys for the last 3 months and they dont know about each other. Recently my best friend and i got into a fight and she told 3 of them about each other. Now i am 1 month pregnant and i dont know who the father is. The guys that know about each other now dont want anything to do with me and i am really hurt. I dont know why they wouldent want a beautifull sexy girl like me in their lives. Please help me in deciding what to do. (link)
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well no offense but sleeping around isn't beautiful or sexy. It's slutty. Now I'm sorry about the baby, but unless you can be sure to provide a good home for it under your care, you should probably give it up for adoption. And y'know, you seem insulted that your "boy toys" have turned on you, but helllooo??? Did it NOT occur to you that they're hurt too that you cheated on them? Sorry to be mean, but it's true. Oh and you should get tested for STDs. If you got pregnant, were you guys not using protection? Then you and all your partners are at risk.
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Ok my sex really sucks! what do i do? gosh please help me soon!!! my gosh!! maybe its because i am really ugly and i have a giant mole on my chin! everyone calls me triple m! for monkey, mole, and mouse! gosh.....and i weigh like 290 lbs? is that bad? oh and i am 5'3" (link)
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OK first of all... The people who answered all suck! They're stupid! First of all, don't go on an extreme diet. It's pointelss. And the other thing is... if you're muscly, noduh you're gonna weigh more! Don't listen to anyone who's mean, ok? I'm sure lots of people like you. For your great personality or whatever. People can be really heartless. If you do worry about your weight for clinical reasons (not just pleasing some jerk-off guy) eating a balanced diet consisting of mostly fruits and veggies can be good. But don't do it too fast or you'll crash. Also excercise can help too! So get happy and get fit! How perfect is that???
Hope I helped,
Leah
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