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Q: i need help.......
there is this boy i rely like in my school. im seriously obsessed with himm.....at first when he asked me out and like i rely didnt want to go out wif himm at first but than i relly started to like himm than he dumped me. and we ended up going out lik 6 different times and he dumped me all the times and i relyy lik him n he says he wasnts to be my friend but w.e im around him hes always rude to meee n lik i havent gone out wif ne 1 else cuz i like him sooo much

what should I do???

ps srry if this was to long
My answer to you is that if he dumped you every time and is mean to you, then he isn't worth your time. You need to find a guy that will treat you right and won't be a ass to you. Hope I have been of some help. ~Candy the Wiccan

Q: My friend is going out w/ this boy. When he asked her out, he said that he didn't want to tell anyone. I'm the only one they told. His friends tease him because they hang out so much. She's starting to think that he won't tell anyone because he's embarresed of her. What do you think? If it's just because he doesn't know how to stand up to his friends, do you have any advice?
I'm not saying that this is the reason for him not coming out about their relationship, but he might not want to tell anyone that they are dating because he might be with another girl also and doesn't want anyone to know that he's a cheater. I'm speaking from experience so I know how it feels to have a guy say that they don't want anyone to know about it and I end up finding out that he's going out with someone else and didn't want the other girl to know he was cheating on her with me and vise versa. I think you should talk to the guy and ask him why he doen't want anyone to know about them. Maybe he has a good reason for not wanting anyone to know. But you can never be too sure. Hope I have been of some help. ~Candy the Wiccan

Q: Ok, the guy i like is like 5 feet. give or take a few inches. And i'm like 5 8. It's a HUGE height difference, and idc about looks, but i dont want ppl making fun of him b/c he's going out with a giant or make fun of me for going out with a midget. We're both in 7th grade. I think i should just continue liking him. I think i have a good chance with him. What do u think?
My advise is that you should let other peoples opions get to you although sometimes it can be VERY hard. If you like the guy just the way he is and he likes you just the way you are, then there is no reason that you two shouldn't be together. I personally have dated my share of short guys and we didn't care what other people though. We just cared about what we though and how we felt about each other. It may take time but after awhile your feelings for each other will be more important than what other's think about you two and you will be happy. SO if you think it could definatly work out with you two then I say that you should definatly stay with him. Hope I have been of some help.
~Candy the Wiccan

Q: Agh... I'm so agitated and confused and depressed at the same time I can barely type this...! Anyways... my gf and I have been going out for about 10 days. My friends and I and her hang out all the time. Well it started last night. My friend was just joking around and he said "I'm like a star in the sky!" (Yeah we're pretty weird sometimes.) And my gf said "If you are then I will love you haha" and this kind of got me down, even though she said she was just kidding. Also, the same day, my friend was just like "My butt hurts." Then she says "Haha let me check that out for you then", and she touched it lightly... In a joking way, but it still didn't feel right.Another thing is, today, when my friend and I were walking towards her, she was like "Hey (friends name)!" And I was thinking to myself... "Eh? :( She didn't even say hi to me..." But... my gf said that she is crazy about me and she really loves me and everything like that, and she said that like the 7th night we were going out... but on msn. =\ Anyways, my question is, does she still like me? Or could she be liking my friend, and not me? I mean, she says she's worried that I will like another girl and dump her in the near future, and she also says that she's afraid to get hurt again, so maybe she will hurt me, and everything will be fine for her? I don't know, but we still held hands and hugged and all the normal stuff we do like that, but it still made me sad... please help... and thanks for reading...
My advice to you is to talk to her about how you feel. She may not realize how she's making you feel. Most of the time talking does work. And with the hugging and hand holding, she should also be making an effort to hold your hand and be the first to give you a hug. You shouldn't have to make the first move all the time. Like they used to say: "It takes two to tango", you can't do the dance with out a partner. Hope I have been of some help. ~Candy the Wiccan

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