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Q: I like this girl.. but we arent good friends... we talk a lot but we arent great friends... I wanna tell her but I'm afraid to tell her kinda... I feel to shy.. How should I tell her

WELL ii WASNT SURE ABOUT THiS SO ii ASKED MY FRiEND MATT... HE SAiD: JUST COME OUT AND TELL THE PERSON... THERES NO POiNT iN HiDiNG iT... YOU SHOULD TAKE THE RiSK AND JUST TELL THE PERSON... YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT MiGHT HAPPEN... SHE MiGHT END UP LiKiNG YOU BACK... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: Yuo know what...I really thionk yuo did help...bc you know what....this is one of your friends...and actually it was our problem, I just didn't know if it was really true....hope you can figure out who I am

iS THiS CASSiE ??? CUZ iF iTS NOT THEN ii RELLE HAVE NO CLUE...... JUSS TELL ME !

Q: I like this guy a lot, but we arent really friends and I'm way too shy to tell him that I like him. What should I do?

WELL, ii WOULD TRY AND TELL HiM HOW YOU FEEL... iT COULD WORK OUT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE... OTHERWiSE ii WOULD DROP HiNTS AND FLiRT WiTH HiM... THAT ALWAYS WORKS... WELL FOR ME NE WAY... LOL HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: what is oral sex

ORAL SEX iS WHEN THE MOUTH, TONGUE, OR LiPS ARE USED TO REACH AN ORGASM "DOWN THERE"... iTS ALSO KNOWN AS GiViNG HEAD, GOiNG DOWN, OR A BLOW JOB ON A GUY AND EATiNG OUT ON A GiRL.... TO FiND OUT MORE YOU CAN GO TO http://www.gurl.com/findout/fastfacts/pages/0,,623581,00.html
HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: hey, I have a friend who I thought was one of my best. but now I'm not so sure. she got really upset when I started goign out with my b\f because she liked him.and now nothing has been the same between us and I'm not sure if she even likes me anymore. Please help me!

WELL iF YOU TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL iT SHOULD HELP... MY FRiEND AND ii WERE LiKE THAT FOR A WHiLE AND THEN ii TOLD HER HOW ii FELT AND WE BECAME FRiENDS AGAiN ! iF YOU NEED MORE JUST ASK ! HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: Ok so theres this guy that i like and i've told him that i like him...well i didnt exactly tell him someone else did, but the point is he knows. and to tell you the truth this guy is like the only person i want to be around right now. but im not sure if he feels the same way about me. Im not sure if i should spend more time with him or just let it be, what should i do??
Signed,
The confused girl

ii WOULD SPEND MORE TiME WiTH HiM... CUZ THEN YOU WiLL MOST LiKELY FiND OUT iF HE LiKES YOU TOO ! iF YOU NEED MORE JUST ASK ! HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: I like this girl and she said she kind of likes me a little..... How do I get her too like me more and when will I know she does with out asking her

WELL TO GET HER TO LiKE YOU MORE FLiRT WiTH HER ANY CHANCE YOU GET... AND WHEN SHE STARTS REALLY FLiRTiNG WiTH YOU iT SHOULD BE A CLUE SHE LiKES YOU MORE... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: I drank last night and got tipsy. I remember everything so I wasnt really drunk. Anyways I think I have a small hangover. I feel like I'm going to throw up and I'm a little light headed. What should I do? Should I force myself to throw up to get it out of my system, should I eat or take medicine or something? Please help I really dont feel good.

JUST DRiNK A LOT OF WATER AND EAT LiKE SALTiNE OR RiTZ CRACKERS... ALSO TRY SOME ADViL OR TYLENOL HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: Ok Ihave this really huge crush on some guy how do I get him to like me more than a friends?

WELL THERE iSNT MUCH YOU CAN DO... ii HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM AND ii JUST FLiRT WiTH HiM AS MUCH AS POSSiBLE AND HOPE HE GETS THE HiNT... SORRY ii CANT BE OF MORE HELP... ~xoxo~

Q: a few months ago i gave this one guy head. and my throat felt weird for about a week and a half after. (by the way, it was my 1st time. in case that makes a difference.)

but i know that your throat hurting is a sign of gonorrhea... and i also know that gonorrhea causes arthritis... or leads to it. or whatever.
and my knuckles are starting to hurt.

but the thing is, i'm starting to think this is all in my head...
i know this doesn't make much sense... but if you have any advice, please tell me.

ii WOULD REALLY GO CONSULT A PROFESSiONAL... iTS HARD TO TELL UNLESS YOU GET TESTED... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: hey hun...i need ur advice again. I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months now and I have this feeling like he is cheating on me, but I dont know for sure. I was talking to someone and they gave my all the normal signs of a guy cheating on a girl and most of them were him. I don't want to believe that he could do this to me, but sometimes in life the good things hurt, and I dont know whether to keep my guy, because I dont want to loose him, or should i dump him and see what happens from there???

ii WOULD CONFRONT HiM ABOUT iT... iF HE SOUNDS LiKE HES LYiNG iD BREAK UP AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS... SEE WHAT HE SAYS AND GO FROM THERE... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~XOXO~

Q: Me and this guy have been going out for six months now. I just moved to another city an d we are going to try to make it work but I don't know what going to happen... should we break up and date other people? Has it been to long and we need to change things up? please help me...

well i would see how it goes and if you decide you want to see other ppl then i would break up... but you dont want to ruin something that could be really good... hope i helped ! ~xoxo~

Q: i really cant dicide should i wear :
1. a green skirt and a white shirt with a green butterfly on it
-or-
2. a denim skirt with a baby-tee thats black with pink writing on it and it says if found plz return to the nearest beach
i just dont knoe what too wear to school tomarow... yeh i rate 5's fer good answers jst put outfit 2 er outfit 2

thancks

OUTFiT 2 ! DEFF !!!

Q: I have this problem..My bestfriend was going out with this boy..Then this boy broke up with her..She was shock (i guess)..But okay, that's not the major problem..Now,I'm going out with that boy..and no one knows that except my sister..I've been going out with that boy for 2 weeks or so..now I have this illfeel..I feel that I'm so wrong by going out with my bestfriend's ex boyfriend..I don't know what to do..Should I break up with that boy and give him back to my bestfriend, or keep going??

-feeling-guilty-girl-

WELL iF YOUR FRiEND STiLL LiKES THiS BOY THEN ii WOULD SEE iF SHES OK WiTH YOU DATiNG HiM... THiS HAPPENED TO ME AND MY FRiEND WAS PiSSED! i WOULDNT RiSK LOSiNG YOUR FRiEND OVERA BOY... ii DiD AND iT JUST iSNT WORTH iT... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~XOXO~

Q: Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide.

OK SUiiCiiDE iiSNT THE ANSWER ! HE PROBLY JUST POPPED YOUR CHERRY ! iiTS NOTHiiNG OUT OF THE ORDiiNARY... BUT ii WOULD STiiLL GO AND GET CHECKED OUT FOR STDs... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~XOXO~

Q: is it possible to become pregnant in this situation:
a guy touches his.. thing, and gets that "pre-cum" or whatever on his hand/fingers. then he fingers a girl, a few minutes later, with the same hand as before.
please only answer if you actually know what you're talking about.

WELL, SPERM DiiES SOON AFTER iiT HiiTS THE AiiR SO iiTS UNLiiKELY... THE CHANCES ARE LiiKE 1 iiN A MiiLLiiON... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~XOXO~

Q: hahah i smoke bout 2 bags of weed a day should i stop??

WELL, iiF YOU LiiKE TO SMOKE THEN GO FOR iiT BUT ii WOULD TRY AND CUT iiT DOWN ! ii MEAN TO ATLEAST ONE BAG AT FIRST AND THEN HALF... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~XOXO~

Q: i need help on what to wear i got 3 tops and i cant choice.. i am goin to the mall to see a close friend that i havent seen but i need help with a top..
1)http://photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/?action=view¤t=2f5f8131.jpg

2) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg

3) http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a181/sointoyoux0x/ccda716e.jpg

i am planin to wear blue jeans and pink and black shoes. my hair will be striaght but i dont know if i will wear a hat that has the inatails of my first and last name on it and it is black and red... should wear a hat or not?? and whcih top should i wear???

WELL ii LiiKE THE PiiNK FLOWERY TOP... AND NO HAT... THEY MESS UP YOUR HAiiR... LOL... HOPE ii HELPED ! ~XOXO~

Q: wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?

iiTS WHEN YOU HAVE ORAL SEX WiiTH A GiiRL... KiiND OF LiiKE WHEN A GUY GETS A BJ...

Q: Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do?

THERE iiSNT NE THiiNG ELSE TO DO... YOU SHOULD TRY AND MAKE THE TAMPONS WORK AND iiF NOT THEN YOU CANT GO iiN THE WATER... JUST HOPE YOUR PERiiOD ENDS BEFORE SAT...

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hey my name is Kaitlynn and i love to give advice! i love my friends, laguna beach, degrassi, my cell phone, AIM... ill be happy to help ne way i can... xoxo