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Website: It's Like That
E-mail: cranberydreams16@aim.com
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Location: Pennsylvania
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Age: 18
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Member Since: September 7, 2007
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Yesterday I started school for the new school year and I was really excited about seeing my friends because I had been in Colorado all summer. I came back and in the early morning, none of them even bothered to say "hello". I don't know if they didn't see me or if they were simply snubbing me. I was miffed at first, but quickly shrugged it off. I renewed most friendships to almost what they were by lunch, but when I came to sit in my seat, there was another girl whom I just happen to extremely dislike, seated there. The tables in our lunchroom are allowed only 8 chairs per table and so I sat with 3 or 4 other girls I knew sitting at the opposite table. I was quite upset but I assumed that she would just sit there for the day. Today I came back and found her there again. Everything was normal because I pulled over a chair, but moved back to the other table by myself when a teacher scolded me. I am very, very upset about the fact that this girl seems to have taken my place with my friends, even though I KNOW that only one girl at my former table actually likes her. I thought of sitting with other friends but all of the other tables with them are filled. Should I accept the fact that this girl has taken my place, or should I try to take back my former importance in the group? By the way, I can't get to the table first because she has a classroom about 2 times closer than mine. (link)
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You need to confront your friends. Just ask them straight up what's going on. I don't understand why they would sit with this girl if they don't like her and if they do like you, than you should be sitting there, not her. Yeah, the best advice I can give you is to just ask them calmly what's going on. Hope everything works out for you!
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15/f
so right now. im dating this boy matt, and hes a football player and hes like a quarterback and hes really popular, and hot and what every girl wants.
however. i dont. i mean i like him, but i kinda got a crush on this emoish boy, name max. hes soo cute. and he seems so nice.
i guess im just sick of dating jocks, who just want to show me off in the halls like im some prize or something. like my boyfriend doesnt even like listen to what i say sometimes. its so annoying.
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You're 15 years old, you're not married, if you're unhappy in this relationship, dump him. Don't be with someone who makes you unhappy. These are the best years of your life, enjoy them, date around. Be with someone who will listen to you and make you feel special, not someone who shows you off like a piece of meat. Hope this advice helps! Good luck with everything!
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I know this is going to sound really skanky but, I gave this guuy head a few days ago, and when he cummed I swallowed a little bit, but then spit the rest out. Now there's this rumor going around he has an STD, can I get it from swallowing just a little bit of his cum!?
pleasee helppp.
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You can contract an STD from oral sex. So, if he has an STD, you may have contracted it as well. You should definetely go to a doctor to get it checked out. Even if it is just a rumor that he has an STD, better to be safe than sorry.
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what are some good stores to look at online that are in like actual malls. homecoming is in a couple weeks and i really dont wanna order online at the risk of getting the wrong size ect. ive tried Deb and JC Penny's. i dont really see anything that would blow people away. please help.
Tiffanii (link)
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You should look at Macy's. It's my personal favorite store and they tend to have a lot of cute, trendy dresses. I'm unsure where else might have some good choices. But good luck and I hope you have fun at the dance!
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14/f
So i really like this kid and my friend does to. He is new to this school so there is a lot I dont know about him but from what i do know he is really funny and sweet. Not to be concieted, i am one of the more pretty popular girls in my school because im nice not because im intimidating or manipulative. So my friend is in lower math with him and I am in higher math and the way things work out is that she is in 2 other classes with him and without me to give him more attention than i could. No offense to her but she isnt one of the more attractive girls and i just really need a way to get him to notice me. BADLY i have been single for way to long because my recent crush isnt allowed to have a girlfriend because of his parents but he is bring a jerk lately.
Thanks! (link)
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Well, I see the predicament you're in. You like a boy that your friend may like as well. I don't think you should go out of your way to get him to notice you. Showing off and playing games tend to deter boys, instead you should just be upfront with him. You seem confident with yourself and who you are, so, simply be yourself and just ask him to hang out. Don't make it a date, that might scare him off, just make it a casual get together. Some one on one time with him will give you both a chance to decide whether you like each other enough to start a relationship. Hope this advice helps at least a little! Good luck!
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(its long but please read it. please? ill be very greatfull :-))
For the longest time sense Late 7th grade i liked this Guy, (whos name shall not be known) Wow. i loved everything about him. everything. but he was popular. and i wasent. buti liked him so much, he was like diffrent from all the other guys, and me likening him so much and him not even knowing i exsisted jusst killed me. i was despreate to get his attention. my friend told me just to try and talk to him. so I did. in art, he had this painting he said his grandpa made and shared it in class, when he wass walking towards me my heart was pounding so hard, with him just looking at me. thten i asked him questions about it. later i wenet over to his table complimeanting his painting. thhen lateer he even came over and complimented mine! days went by. i sunk so low for attention i purpously fell of my chair, just for him to ask if i was ok. He did, my side hurt alot, but hearing his voice was worth it.We did holligrams for holloween, and i sent him one. i was afraid he would laugh and tell all his friends and make fun off me. but nothing happened. Mabyee he didnt get it. i thought. IN science me and my group were in the hall working at a table, when our teacher came out he went over by me and the teacher, held on my chair and asked the question. AMAZINGLY another time in science we had to make partners oposite gender. we were the only two left. it was werid beacuse hee was popular, couldnt he find one? we worked together! i liked him so much, when he threw his paper away, i kept it.to go home and stare at his writeing. wow, i feel like a stalker, lol anyway, hee kept staring at me in chior, or so i thought as days went by, i figgered he was looking at this otheropoular snotty girl behind me. at lunch he had to tell the lunch lady somthing i guess as he went by our table he stopped and stared at me for about 5 secounds. then left, my friend next to me argued he was staring at her. wow, i love him. he is evereything. i am homschooled now. i think about him every single day for a while, but now i never see him. I have ea choice to go back to that school or go to another next year, and be popular there. But he wont be there. he probly doesnt eveen like me. Mabee it was a cowincadince (however you spell it.) Maybee he thinks im weird. Maybee its nothing at all. nothing. it might just all be inside my head. i like him so much but i know i could never be with him. a guy like him would never be with a girl like me. why am I wasting my time? but i cant help thinking about him. but it doesnt matter, he'll never like me...right? (link)
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First of all, never ever let a guy feel like you're not worth it. Because you are worth it and remember that. Secondly, you need to stop worrying and just ask him out. Yes, I know, you can't do that, you'd just die of embarssment if he said no. But the thing is, he may be crushing on you just as much as you're crushing on him and how will you ever know if you don't just ask him? Life is wayyy to short to not go after what you want. You need to get over your fear and just confront him. Worse case scenario he says no and you'll be no worse off than you are now. Best case scenario he says yes and you guys end up really hittiing it off. I know what it's like to have a crush on someone that you think would never like you back, but you just have to go for it. Life is a series of risks, don't sell yourself short. Be confident in who you are, know that you're brilliant and that if he turns you down, than he's not worth it and there's plenty of fish in the see. P.S. Don't assume he doesn't like you. Assuming makes an ass out of you and me!! Trust your heart and go for it girl!
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I'm sorry if this is kinda long.
I've been going out with my bf for about 6/7 months now, and he was a virgin before and I wasn't. About two months into it we had sex, mainly initiated by me, and it's like he can't get enough of it! I just basically played up to it at first. About a month ago we had just had sex and I told him I loved him because I did. He went quiet for like a few minutes and then he said that he would wait until he truly meant it to say it to me, blah blah blah. This hurt me but as he was only being mature I just accepted it. Ever since then he never gives me any compliments that isn't to do with me being sexy or being good at something sexual etc, he although he does hang out with me if sex isn't involved I clearly get the vibe that he's not having much fun and if there is ever a possibility for something like that we WILL do it. I'm beginning to feel like I'm being used. The thing is, I do genuinely love him, and I'm wondering if I'm just being oversensitive cos he didn't tell me he loved me - he's got a reputation as being this really nice and decent guy, and it's not like he pressured me into sex to start with! It would really upset me if I had to split up with him! There's this other guy I've been chatting to a lot recently who's really nice to me and I think he likes me for the right reasons as well - I would NEVER cheat on my bf but it's opening up my eyes to what's out there. As you see I need some help :( Thank you! .xoxo
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First of all I'm not sure how old you are, but I'm going to assume you're older than 13 but younger than 20. It seems to me that your boyfriend is simply being a horny teenage boy. It seems genuine when he states that he wants to wait till the right time to say I love you, because he wants to mean it. I believe he is telling you the truth. However, it seems like all he's after righ now is sex and it seems like you're looking for something more than just sex. You're young, you're not married, and you're becomming interested in another guy. So, here's what I think you need to do, be straight up with him, simply ask is this relationship going anywhere, or is it only based on sex? If all he wants is sex, maybe you should cut the strings with him and pursue a relationship with someone looking for the same things you are. If he wants more than sex, smack him upside the head and tell him that he better step it up. I really hope my advice helps and good luck with everything!!!!
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