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Okay, I'm pregnant. I chose to see my family dotor who has been my doctor for years to go see for my checkups. The problem is everytime I have an appointment and go to tell my in-laws about it they are always comparing my doctor to thier family doctor. Like they say "well Doctor So&So would have never done it that way". And they compare the hospital I'll be delivering in to the one they go to as well. You know, it pisses me off because I think it is my decision what doctor I decide to see, especially in this time of my life, I trust my doctors because i have known them for so long. And I refuse to change doctors because I shouldn't have to. This is my choice. The problem is lately I've been trying to bite tougue my in-laws oppinions but its is getting harder. I don't want to say something mean because they are very nice to me and do alot for me and I don't want to come off disrespectful, so what can I do to keep myself from blowing up at them? (link)
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Try politly tellign them that you thank them for their concern but you feel mor ecomfertable with your own doctor that knows your body and what you liek or dont. If they get mad, they'll get over it. theirs nothing you can do if they continue but talk to your husband have him tell them whats up. rember you cant please everyone.
hope it helps
~TiNa~
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ok i really feel like i have an awesome boyfriend! he doesnt drink very often, and he doesnt do drugs (like weed)... which is something pretty much every guy my age does around here! well about a month ago my sister had a graduation party and my boyfriend came... there was a lot of alcohol there so we drank a lot and both got pretty drunk (its ok my parents were here to regulate!).. well about a week ago i found out that at my party my cousin gave my boyfriend cocaine, not a lot..i guess he was out of it so my bf licked the bag clean or something? just a little powder.. i dunno i dont get it. but anyways, my boyfriend doesnt even smoke WEED! so it was really hard for me to accept... and when i asked him about it, he denied it & said he didnt remember! and other ppl at the party say they think he was pressured into it.. i kinda just let the whole thing go.... do u think theres something else i should do about it? (link)
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Well i for one will never even "expirment" with drugs. so many ppl die on the firt time the mess with them. tell him that you are worried and ask him if he does think he will expirment if he says he didnt. Peer preszure is something way to many people give into. I do to, but not for anythign liek that. I think that if you do still wanna be with him even if does get hooked on drugs, dont do it just cause he does.
hope it helps
~TiNa~
p.s. if you dotn do something about a problme, it gets bigger
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This summer while in Canada I met a really awesome girl, however I really really really..... screwed up our relationship. I cheated on her once, guilted her into a lot of things I shouldn't have, and I lied to her so many times. It was just in the last week that I was with her that I started to straighten my act up and realize how wonderful she was. I want to say sorry so bad, but I live 1600 miles away from her and don't have a planned visit there for 2 more years, also I want to do something bigger than just write her an email and hope for the best. We are kind of friends now, we talk every now and then online, but I still feel like this is still keeping us apart. If anyone has any ideas on how to say sorry for being this horrible I'd love to hear from you. Also, flying up there just to say sorry isn't out of the picture, its about $700. I really need something big that says I'm sorry and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to have you trust me again. (link)
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well i know you cant do anything about what you did, but if you meet an awesome girl, dont screw it up. girls rele get self contiuos when boys cheat on them. they wonder whats wrong with them that made you cheat. if you love her, dont go to other girls! well send her an ecard or flowers or somethign to show her your sorry try writting her a poem or something or your own to show her how very special she is to you.
hope it helps
~TiNa~
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one night i got really drunk and i was talking to this kid justin (who wasnt drunk) then i feel asleep and i wake up and im naked and hes ontop of me on the bed and hes naked and as soon as he saw me wake up he ran into the other room...i dont no what happened really...i try to ask him and he tells me that he was just touching me he didnt like rape me or nething....but i would no if we had sex right? or if we didnt nething more...i no he put it in my mouth bc i had the taste in my mouth..but i would no rigth? please help meee
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well first he could be lieing becuase rape is a crime. if you could be pregnant you may wanna find out. tell your mom or a friend that you can trust. If anyone eles was home/ where it happned ask if they know anything about what happend. Here are top 3 things to do.
REPORT HIM, EVEN GETING YOU NAKED AND TOUCHIGN YOU IS A CRIME!
DONT GET DRUNK ANYMORE ESPECIALLY IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYBODY THERE LIEK A FRIEND THAT WILL WATCH OUT FOR U!
O YEA.....STAY AWAY FROM THAT KID!
hope it helps
~TiNa~
to everybody, if you go to a party, date, or something, make sure you always take your drink with you. you dont want soemone to slip somethign in it and either kill you or date rape you, or w/e they want to do.
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i need help i want to pant my room but f i do not know what color to pant it so here are some of my favorite colors
-red
-black
-purplish blue
-gray
-green
-blue
PS IM SORTA GOTH (link)
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Ok im not gonna tell what color cause i dont think you'd want my oppion,im not gonna lie, im a prep) but i wil ltell you that if your parents will alow you to paint your room, pick something youll keep for a bit cause if you buy good paint that works it can range from $30-$50. Maybe thing about which color you have always kinda liked and if you dotn plan on changing everythin gin the room, somethign that goes with it.
hope it helps
~TiNa~
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Ok, over the past few weeks a lot has been going on. I'm fixing to make some big transactions and I'm going to have to leave a lot of my close friends behined to move to a different location. Something that's always been very hard for me, is dealing with CHANGE. I know it's like that for a lot of people, nobody really likes change yeah yeah. But I always get extremely depressed when I have to change things in big ways, especially if I love the way my life is going. I just feel like everything is going to fall apart. So, I guess what my question is, is has anyone ever had a hard time with change, and overcame it.. if yes, then how so.. I mean if there even is an awnser.
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i recently had a small case of depression. I just felt liek nobody cared. one of my best friends was leaving my school and going away. I would no long see and talk talk with her everyday. I also was missing all my friends. I had a long period of time when i just sat there and thought of all thegreat things i have to give up. the fact that im going to high school after this year and never seeign any of my best friends there definatly brought tears. when i thought about it i remebred how scared i was when i had to leave my home and start school and make friends, which was now one of the best things of my life. so what im trying to say is you liek what you have now but when you change eventually your gonna reajust and be happy wit hthe change.
hope it helps
~TiNa~
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I have a big freckle on my fore head, and it makes me look ugy. Is their any way to get ride of it or make it not as noticeble? Please help!!! (link)
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Well everyone has been telling you about concealer, and if you use it listen to this. i wear eye shadow and mascara and lipgloss and thats about it. There are 2 girls in my class that idnt liek somethign abotu their face and decided that they should wear concealer. well the color wasnt acatly their skin color so they put it all over their face. BAD IDEA! now they have to wear it becuase they have gotten the wrong kind(it had way to much oil). They have tons and tons of zits. so if you do go with concealer make sure you get some with very little oil or oil free if you can find it.
hope it helps
~TiNa~
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ok here goes...
i like this kid let say his name is steve..and i hooked up with him last year and he asked me out but i got scared because yah i liked him alot..so i made up an excuse and said some1 told me he was a player..and he got real mad and we stopped talkin then this year we started talkin again..and he told my friend that he has liked me since the day he first saw me...and he never stopped liking me...and he is soo sweet to me..but hes an asshole to everyone eles but hes soo hottt...and the other day his friend lets say bob..said to me u kno i like u right..and i didnt kno what to say cuz i love steve..and i only like bob as a friend...and 2 of my friends that kno them have diff opinions
1st friendd...go out with bob hes a good bf i kno that and steve is a jerk (juss keep in mind steve hates her)
2nd friend...steve is wicked hot but an asshole
bob is ugly but nice
then bob told me to chill with steve and see what happens between us...but i dont wanna waste my time if something doesnt happen...but i think i love steve
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If hes an asshoel to everyone else, chances are he wont like forever. Becareful because if you read in magazines there are alot of relationships that boys are horrible to other people for numerous reasons and eventually dont love you. They could abuse rape or even try to kill you. if he loved you when you called him a player he wouldnt stop talkign to you or get pissed he would calmly tell you that we wasnt and how muc he cxared for you. my advice, if you liek this bob guy go out with him.
hope it helps
~TiNa~
p.s. looks dont last forever
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