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E-mail: carmenbrown2424@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: New Jersey
Occupation: Teacher
Age: 27
Member Since: September 5, 2007
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is there ways you can earn on the net? like selling e-books for example?
if so what are the website links? (link)
ebay is the best site for selling anything just make sure it is legal.


I'm 13/f, and I have an overprotective mom. She can't leave me home alone for 15 minutes. I was going to my friend's house. I told my mom that my friend's babysitter was going to be there, which was true, and my mom didn't believe me. She followed me to my friend's door and STUCK her head into the house, and looked around. I was SO embarrassed. She could have at least asked my friend if her mom was home or something. And I'm going to my friend's house soon and I'm so scared that my mom will follow me to the door again. My mom never used to be so overprotective. HELP!! How do I get to calm her nerves down? I live in a town where nothing bad has ever happened. (link)
You first have to realize that you are only 13 years old. And do you know how many 13 year old girls get raped in killed.Your mom is just looking out for you.If you want to have her call over there and make sure the babysitters this there when your friends parents are away. But you have to understand your mom cares about you that is why she does what she does even if you think it is embarassing to you. Just because you live in a town where nothing bad happens those are the towns where things can happen. You need to thank your mother for caring about you the way she does. If you don't believe me about saying that towns were nothing bad happens can happen turn your tv on an check out the news you will understand what I am saying to you.


does anyone here have clinical depression or bipolar or something like that? ever since i was 9 i had fits of serious mood drops. i even tried commiting suicide at 13 (i have no idea how i survived i took a new bottle of asprin and panadol and a whole box of capsul medicine i didn't know what for -probably dad's coz he has diabetes and cholesterol and HBP- anyway i went to bed and woke up as if nothing happened)
then i tried it again but my sister had beat me up to take it (she's basically my mom... my mom's so passive... scared my dad wud blame her for screwing up the family)....

oh and the reason i'm asking about bipolar is that i usually get weired mood swings. i am so depressed and misrable and aloof all through the day but get so hyper at night and try to kid with my family and they just say i am weired....

also recently, my first time away from home, i went with a bunch of my friends for about 4 months and i totally went crazy. no boundaries no fear of danger no nothing. then i went home i was fine but my younger brother told my parents and so now new rules even though i am away from home... its basically house arrest or with my probation officer (my dumb annoying brother).

so i am not sure if it is my home condition or if i have something wrong with me :s .... i cant go to a shrink because me parents will freak out. and as i've said i can't leave without someone with me....

i get really upset if i THINK i did something stupid in front of friends and family and i end up getting so depressed because of it, moping for days and just staying in bed.... i have a fear that people will think i am stupid and just leave me.. i admit i had a very.. well complex childhood. we had money but its not about that... i knew i was different from the day i was born... my parents say i am spoiled, oversensitive, dramatic, complex.......

oh plus we have depression and bipolar running in the family... uncle and aunt and my older bro (though i sometimes think it was either from his surgery he suddenly went crazy, or he wasn't and dad just pretended he was and put hem in with all his connection so he could stop interfering with the business...)

what are the odds of me having it!?

and what can i do to find out?

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Scarborough, Ontario, ca

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If you want to find out you have bipolar disorder have your mom or dad make you an appointment with the doctor and get yourself checked out. I am telling you this because bipolar disorder is nothing to play with.And also it could be also the structure in your home that could have something to do with you to. How to find out both is when you go to the doctor tell him all of the things you wrote in your question and he will be the final decision of what is going on with you. You need to talk to a medical doctor not a shrink ok.


Heyy Everybody! I was wondering, does anybody know of anywhere that i could enter to win contests? Random contests like winning a tube of lipgloss or anything, just for fun? (Im 13 by the way.) Also, do you know of any that dont send you junkmail because i was going to sign my friends up for some but i dont want them getting junkmail! Thank you so much! Any sweepstakes/contest or anything works! (link)
surveys that have you enter contest just search the web ok.


So I need help I like this guy name well lets just call him G boy and well I really good friends with one of his best friends named lets call him B Boy. Well B boy likes me but I dont like him and he is always getting mad when I tell him I like one of his friends...but he's not the problem. I use to like this guy lets call him j boy last year and he is also best friends with B and G boy and now this year he comes out that he likes me and well b boy was at j boys house this weekend and B boy called me and we were talking like friends then he asked J boy if he still like me and he was all like yeah and now b boy is tring to get me J boy but I like G boy who says that he likes me too but now b boy keeps calling and bothering me saying that he loves me... I'm tired of all this bull...some one help me (link)
Girl you need to figure out who you like and get rid of those who you don't like by letting them know who you are interested in and who you are not interested in that is how you solve that problem. And if you do this and nobody ends up liking you then don't sweat it girl there are more fish in the sea and that means it wasn't meant to be.


So there's this guy.. I call him my best friend. We're kinda dating but not, because he's going away to basic training in a few weeks. He told me he didn't want a girlfriend while he was away because he didn't want to worry about what they were doing, hence us not being together. Anyways, it hasn't hit me about him leaving yet, but I know it will soon. I was just wondering what are some things I could do to keep myself busy and not think about him so much while he's gone? I don't have too many friends to really hang out with & keep me busy, but I definately don't want to be stuck at home all depressed. Thanks! (link)
Girl go out and have some fun. Forget about him obviously if he really loved you he would wanted a relationship with you but it turns out he is not.Don't let a man get you down girl go out and make some friends and find a new man some who will love and cherish you. Maybe he wasn't right for you. My saying is "Everything happens for a reason". "When one door shuts another one opens". When you go out and make new friends and find a new man then when he comes home he will see you having fun and not thinking about you then he will try to get you back but then it will be to late. Because when that happens you would have already moved on with your life.


When i get mad, i get MAD. My breathing gets outa wack and i usually end up puttin a hole in my bedroom wall. Its kind of disgusting how mad i get. And after I get that mad, my stomach hurts. I told my mom i think i needed anger management, but she just laughed it off. Nobody understands how angry i get. Does anyone haf any suggestions as to what i can do to calm down? (link)
You need to get anger management because when you met someone down the line you like and want to become involved with your anger could be dangerous. You could end up hurting someone you love or killing someone you love,or even go to jail over you anger.




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