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Q: Well....on monday i have to read a letter i wrote about wat i did over the summer.And i have to stand in front of the room in front of everyone.How can i have the courage to stand in front of everyone?And im afraid they will laugh at my letter too.Thanx in advance!
dont show that you're nervous!! when the teacher asks for volunteers.. be like " oo ill dooo iitt!!" and just get it over with.. but if your like.. one of the last people.. and seem shy.. then people will think that.. so just act like you really want to!!

Q: i cant think of what song to put on my myspace. if you have any ideas give the song and artist

thankss
um. i dont know it depends what kind of music you like.. i have the song so sick by flyleaf.. but like, there are funny songs. like..
emo kid-- by adam and andrew
im a gangsterr-- josh tobin
pink tee-- cam`ron

if you dont like those.. tell me what kind of music you like and ill tell u songs for that!

Q: my boyfriend is two years younger than me. is it bad? i mean he acts alot older and we really do like eachother..
no its not bad. my boyfriend is one year younger than me.. but he is 10000000 times more mature than me.. so no.. if you like the guy..then you like him. i wouldnt worry about it!!

:)

Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for going on 9 months now and lately I've been feeling like he's losing intrest. Can anyone tell me a few signs of losing intrest? Before I jump to the gun I want to know what the signs are. Thank you.

not answering phone calls, not calling you as much.. seeming like hes not listening to you.. not telling you how he feels..

but if he is.. i would suggest.. pulling away a little bit because there is nothing a guy wants more than something he cant have... so.. it always seems to work if the girl pulls away.. that the guy trails behind her.

Q: Hey,

I'm getting my hair done and i wanna know what color to get..so im gonna ask whats hotter? blondes or brunetts?
ummm.. for boys.. probably dark hair.. i mean. dark hair for the majority of guys, because not many can pull off the blonde look.. BUT. like, on occasion, a guy with long hair and have the surfer look can pull off blonde!

but for the majority. brunette

Q: 13/f. how much is a 13 year old girl supposed to weigh? I'm around 4'7 and weigh around 167. I think that is wayyyyy to much. How much should I weigh? thanks!
well, the doctors say that it is average to be 100 pounds per every 5 feet and 5 pounds for every inch after that...

Q: having menstration for a week is just natural for me. but this time is quite different cause its been more than a week now and my blood flow is still fast whenever i pee. i want to know if this is ok or should i consult a doctor about my situation?
i would wait a little bit longer.. like a few days and if it keeps being like that, then call your doctor.. just to be safe..

good luck

Q: hey i'm having a HUGE guy problem. and i just need opinions on what you all think so is their anyone out there with a heart that would help me by just giving me their email adress or IM or anything so i can tell you the story because the guy its about goes on this site. thanks soo much. please help im desperate.
mesaaz1990

Q: How do you take off mascara.
take baby oil and put it on a cotton ball.. then after that wash your whole face becuase oil can make you break out.

Q: I just broke up with my boyfriend a week ago. And I still love him. Well on Monday he asked some other girl out but she never gave him an answer so he gave up on her(supposedly). And he likes to say shit like he broke up with me and other stuff. But whenever he see's me or talks to me he seems so sad. Like I called him to see if I could drop by real fast to give him his key back and he said yea sure. When I get there he looked at me sadly. Then when I was leaving he stood at the screen door and watched me walk away. Then he called me today to see how I am doing and stuff. When he said bye to me it sounded really sad. What does all this mean? It makes me really confussed =/
okay. well. the other girl=rebound. he doesnt care about her or else he would still be trying. also, if he told you about it.. its a possibility he is trying to make you jealous... anyways.. he still wants to be with you. im in almost the same situation.. kind of.. and my ex calls me everyday to see how im doing and he`ll tell me i look beautiful and blah blah.. hes just being a guy though.. soo.. bottom line is..... he still loves you. & almost all boys will say theyre the ones who broke up just so they dont feel like a pansy.. so. yeah. good luck.

Q: how do you get someone to call you without actually saying that you want them to call you?
14f
take their cell phone and put your number in... OR!! take their phone and call yours.. and then you both have each others numbers.. and be like. "here! now you have my number so u can call me"! and it wont seem weird or anything

Q: On f-list (on Fuse) tonight, the theme was music videos directed by a certain director and I can't remember who it was that directed them. Number five was a song by Jamie Foxx, I think, that had the actress from desperate houswives in it. If anyone could tell me who the director is, I would really appreciate it a lot. Thanks!
uuuhhmm.. i think that one was hype williams..

is it like the same director for snap your fingers.. and so sick? i think that is it.. lol. good luck

Q: I need some places I can find some cute dresses for homecoming(semi formal) I'm plus size, size 18. pleaseeee help im desperate!

im ordering it online ..
the store "torrid" would have semi formal plus size dresses. and they have realllyy cute clothes so i would defff try that!

good luck

Q: Whats like the official definition of "hooked up" I thought it meant having sex, some of my friends just say like making out. So when I watch shows like Laguna and such, I never know what they mean!
hooking up can mean going out... making out.. or having sex.. or anything in between.. you just kinda have to know the situation.

&& on laguna beach. its sex. lol. cameron is a sluuttaa

Q: I need help with buying a car. It must follow all of these guidelines:
- 4 doors
- 4 wheel drive
- a lot of trunk space
- not a mini van.

I'd prefer a big car. Like and SUV or a truck?
It must be under $15,000.

I know absolutely nothing about cars. I need help quick because I have to tell my dad soon!!
hundai santa fe. my sister just got one.. and it was like. 11000.. and it fits all ur things. questions or whatever. lol. good luck!

Q: im 13/f
i wear flip flops everyday
and theres tan lines on my feet
my feet are getting darker but theres like a white line
how do i get my feet back to the regular color
um. i would proably say..

fake tan the white part.

its a small enough place that if you messed it up.. nobody could tell.. but they have these little sheets.. that look like baby wipes and theyre tanning ones.. so. that would work.. but defff.. be careful, because when i was in like 8th grade i used it.. and i didnt see immediate results.. so i kept rubbing it on me.. andddd.. the next day i was.. ORANGE! but yeah. try that!

Q: im 14 and me and my friends are going out this year for halloween. i dont know what to be!! nothing like a witch or crap like that because thats little kid stuff.. i dressed up as a gothic person last year.. so i need cool ideas. im female so you know and im a prep if that helps and i like the color pink but and i might be a devil not sure so tell me your opinion for a devils costume am i too old? and give me new sugestions of costumes of your own. thank youuu.
be little bo peep.. like. the costume is pink and its realllyyy cute!!
they`ll have it at spencers proabably

Q: heyy okay so i really need someones opinion on this .. i really want to get bangs but i'm not sure if they would look bad on me or not .. here's a picture of me: http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/2414912860097533098dVGkQd
i'm the one of the left. what do you think?
yeah i think you would look really cute with them!! i would get ones like this http://www.beautyriot.com/stuff/images/articles/approve/2093_1927_Simpson-Ashlee-05-400.jpg

they would look great!

Q: I need to change my xanga, because lots of people have been reading it that I didn't want to read it. I want to make all my entries disappear, but i want to be able to read them myself if i log on or whatever.....is this possible? is there a code or something? This person used to have stuff on her xanga, and now there's nothing: http://www.xanga.com/coming_over_tomorrow. How did she do that? I don't want to shut my site down altogether, because I wrote my feelings and stuff and I personally want to be able to read my entries, but I want to keep others out....I applied xangalock and stuff, but I was just wondering how to make it all invisible or if anyone knew of a site that said how to do that.
no.. you can do that.. just when you write your entry.. theres a little box at the bottom that says private. public.. & blah blah.. you just click private and it makes it where only you can see it but nobody else can...

look at mine too ~!
www.xanga.com/hco_af_love

Q: i love your hair in ur main picture with the cowboy hat. i've always wanted mine like that, how did you do yours?

thanks so much.
hah. well.. that day.. i had slept with it scrunched the night before... and i woke up and went swimming.. and got out of the water and took my pony tail out.. lol. and it turned out like that... lol.. so i wish i could tell you, but that pic is pretty much gel, hairspray, and chlorine


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boys.. suck. girls can be cruel. parents dont understand. siblings get on your nerves.. ive been through all that. &&& i understand.

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