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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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This is for one of my friends, and I don't know what to do, she's heartbroken. Please, help, ASAP!

I have this guy that I like (we're really good friends, we've known each other for a long time), I don't think he likes me. I like him more than any other guy that I've ever liked, what should I do? Please, help!

well if your really good friends just be like.. what would you do if i said i liked you and see what he says. or try to hint about going on a date or hanging out alone

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My hair is like super strait and extremely hard to curl or scrunch anybody got any tips on scrunching hair?

ANYONE can scrunch their hair no matter how straight it is
get your hair all wet
not soaking wet tho
then brush it
it would be smart to make sure you do your part ahead of time.. but you dont have to.. at the end you can use bobby pins and make like a poof only not a poof lol
put your head upside down
rub gel in your hands and start to scrunch
andd more gel
and more
and more
use some hairspray too lol
put your head back up and see how it looks
it might look kinda stringy or flat
so keep scrunching.. dont add more gel
usually youll start to get the hang of it

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hey.
im tryin to make one of those personalized mp3 player things for my myspace. well, when iw ent to make one, it said the code for the song hade to be in mp3 form. well does anyone know a site where i can find these codes at?

if you go to like yahoo or something and search for your song and then click audio songs will show up and then you have to find one that works and like copy the link
its kinda confusing

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k this is wierd
i dont use tampons and i want to ask how do you go to the bathroom when you wear tampons
do you take it out and have to put it back again

you can pee with a tampon in
you just might wanna hold the string outta the way so you dont pee on it lol

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if you cant get someone out of your head, were they meant to be there?

theres no real answer for the question
sometimes you just fall for someone so bad you cant get them out of your head even if it will never amount to anything

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so my boyfriend and i had sex earlier, were both 14. but anyways, he like got off of me and it felt pretty wet down there so i felt my..yeah..and there was blood. it bled for a couple minutes and it was sorrrrt of a lot. it wasnt like dripping out or whatever, it would come out if i wiped it with the towel i had, or if i stuck my fingers in and pulled them back out. why do you think i bled? im also having cramps right now from it, but i usually always have cramps after sex.

your too young to be having sex
your body is still developing
if you still want to have it tho make sure you use protection
and if your having sex you should start going to the gyno so you can make sure everything okay
but your boyfriend probably just popped your cherry or he might have been a little too rough

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I have really dark hair & brown eyes & somewhat tan what shades of eye shadow would I use?

i was thinking like an olive green might look nice

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how do i make like a band profile on myspace, because i want to get certain songs but they dont have them so my friend told me to make my own one of those things but i dont know how, so yea if anyone knows how to do it, or a website i could go to to do that please help. thanks in advance.

just click on music
and then somewhere onthe page it will say create an a band profile or something like that and just click that and create the account [:

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how much make up should a 14 year old wear?

*&& if so, could you please tell me in steps? im new at this lol!

thank you !

you done need alot of makeup
id just do some lipgloss
and a little bit of eyeliner (only on the bottom)
and mascara

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can someone please tell me the name of this song and/or who is sings it?

your everything i want
your everyhting i need
your everything inside of me that
i wish i could beyou say all the right things at exaclty the right time ..

please help if you can, sorry it's a kind of old song

Everything You Want - Vertical Herizon
i love this song lol

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I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions.

in high school people make a big deal about it
but really, its not a big deal at all
some parents are 5 years apart so its no big deal

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ok listen i have a real question and i might sound strange but i am fourteen and i got my first period a month and 13 days ago and still no second period. why? is there something wrong with me? and should i tell my mom? help! (sorry bout the long question by the way)

nothings wrong
when you first get your period, it is very irregular
enjoy it while it lasts lol

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what is a really good concealer either stick or liquid? i just want one that works well, doesnt make my face look oily, that is oilfree and is very cheap and can get at the drugstore? thanks a lot for your help

i like the liquid ones
but i use covergirl continuous wear
it works really good

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i am haveing sex and i am on the pill and have been for almost to years and im not sure how long this has been goingon but whenever i get my period ( i get it for 3 days) on the 1st and 2nd day it is usualy brown not red and it hurts really bad i never used to have cramps but now i get them terriably is this bad or is it normal idki just need help.

its hard to say
id suggest you go to the doctor just for a check up and to make everythings okay

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Well, im not ugly, But im not the prettiest person in the world.i just feel ugly.How do You be pretty, I mean those girls witht eh pretty eyes and guys are all over. how do they do it? anything is apreciated

you have to build up your confidence and self esteem
looks arent what makes you you
its your personality
as for pretty eyes, all you need is a little eyeliner and mascara
some guys dont like girls with alot of makeup because it makes her look fake, so dont go overboard lol
but yeah, just talk to guys and theyll start to like you, dont go after as a boyfriend thing, go after them as friends and see how things progress fromthere

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Hi. Okay, so I want to get a necklace that says "Jailbait"

I saw the one GirlProps had;;
http://www.girlprops.com/RetailScience/page2/item/6358

I want one kinda similer to that but more fancy & pretty.

Does anyone know where to get one?
Thanks!

i woludnt suggest getting a necklace like that because it sends the wrong message
but if you really want it
maybe try spencers or ebay

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ok i'm not sure if this is gay or not asking you but you seem like you give good advice you see theres this girl i like alot and she used to like me to but we got into this huge argument and now its like some times we will have our moments and sometimes we just like cant even look at each other
we used to be together all the time but now we hardly even talk so
i dont really know what to do

can you help?

its not gay at all
well i dont know what the argument was about so its hard to think of what to say
maybe you should just talk to her
tell her, all past arguments behind, you like her and see how she feels
if she doesnt feel the same, move on and continue to be good friends

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i need to know if this guy that i think i lust with ..likes me back...but i feel a lil bad about it because its my BF4L's brother..like he was my frist makeout..he's drivin me places when he would hang out with his frineds..he would by my things..and he would always like look at me..or if im spending the night at his house..and we walk to the living room at the same time he'll like play hit me...but he has a girl friend...and i have told him that i liked him..and his sistertold me that he likes me..he's all i ever think about...he bascily everything i think about..i do feel that he feels the same way but...hes never acutally told me...i always have this feeling inside that hurts me sooooo much!!!..but i need to know on how can i get him to like me back!! so can you help me????

well how old is he?
if your friend already told you he likes you back then you kno he likes you
but if he has a girlfriend he probably wont break up with her for you
its probably better that way tho b.c even fi you did go out then if you ever broke up, everytime you went to your friends house youd feel awkard
and if you went out, your friend might get jealous that youd rather be with her brother
if he already knows you like him and isnt doing anything about it then i suggest you just move on
i kno its hard but just try to focus on looking for someone else

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everytime i watch the movie thirteen my vagina starts like pounding. its really wierd. whats going on?

it means your getting horny
thats not bad or anything lol

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I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions?

i think you i.med me with this question and you didnt like my answer
if he doesnt feel the same, dont push yourself onto him
why not just plan for a couple of people to go to the movies or something and invite him

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