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i went to this party last night and made out with 3 guys and gave one a handy and some stuff..and i was drinking a little. i cant remember exactly what i did with the one guy, but i kept worrying i had sex with him. im a virgin, and last night was my first time doing anything besides kissing.

well pretty much it was a hump and dump, and he got pissed at me for some reason and all this sh!t. it made me feel horrible. but anyways, im worried something happened..like i would remember if i had sex or he fingered me right? it hurt a little down there, but not too bad. and i remember both guys with there hands there, they were like both laying next to me. and then when i stood up my pants were undone.

then, this morning i find out this guys basically a man whore, and i feel like such a slut. all his friends are like your gonna get some gross disease! ahahah. and no not funny..is it possible i could catch something from making out or hand job i dont even knoww! haha help! =]

Alright well first if you think you only drank a little than you probley would remember doing stuff. Just in case go to a gyno and ask her (you should probley get a female one for this kind of stuff) to give you a little looksie. She will be able to tell you if anything penetrated there. As for the slut thing...we all have our days when were a little more naughty that nice. You'll get over it.

~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~

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okay so at a party a guy tried to hook up with me....(just makeout not like actual sex or itd be rape) he basically forced me up against a wall and i couldnt get out of it...my boyfriend of 3 months walked in and he had to saddest look on his face that ive ever seen and he just walked out the door when i tried begging him to come back. my boyfriends friends with a few of my friends and they said that he was so heartbroken and i feel like shit because i feel like i wasnt cheating on him, even though it looked that way. i like him sooo much and i would never wanna lose him but i think i did =( my friends say he said he doesnt wanna talk cause hes too upset...what should i do? =(((

16/f

Well this guy seems like he truly cares about you. Buy him his favorite candy and write him song saying how sorry you are and try to explain what happened. It may seem corny but I think I guy like that will think it's cute

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There's this boy that I've been crushing on since my freshman year. I'm a junior now and he's a senior. I feel like he likes me but I'm not sure. And I want to know if he does before he graduates, and if he does like me, I want something to happen. I want to tell him that I like him but not really tell him? Like I don't want to bluntly state, hey, I like you. We're both in IB, we have no classes together, and we're both busy almost everyday.

Also, if he says no to anything (No, I don't want to hang out, No I can't hang out, No I don't like you, etc.) what should I say? How should I act?

Thanks!
16.f

This is what you should say to him: Look a couple of people have been telling me that you like me. Is that true? If he says: Why? Do you like me? Say yes! It means he likes you to almost 99.9% of the time. If he tells you no to your face just say good i didn't want things to be weird between us. It will hurt but it will also save embarresment

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17/f


My school is having a dance but I don't know what to wear! The theme is jungle but I don't like to wear greens or browns. Do you have any suggestions of other jungle related outfits I could make? It is going to be very hot so any face painting or warm clothes are not good options. Thanks!

I would say go with a leoperd print tank top but make sure it's not one of those furry kind because you don't wanna be sweating everywhere! Wear a jean skirt and try to find some wild looking earings. also try to have cat tails when you do your makeup.

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my bestfriend and my little sister are trying to raise money for christmas to help our parents who are having trouble with money this year

it is nov. 2 so we have a good month and a couple of days

what are good uniqe ways to raise money..please invole the holidays like christmas and thanksgiving that are coming up!!
I need to raise at least 500 to 1000 dollars..how about a cookie drive..what would you do
thanks so much

ps we are 15 and to young to get jobs!

Alright Try to hold a car wash! It can be really fun and I got 200 $ by doing that once! If your concern is it might be cold either don't wear bathing suits or schedule it on a day where the weather man says it will be warm!

~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~

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Ok well my boyfriend and I have been talking about fooling around but hears the thing..I have never given a bj before so I was wondering if you could give me some tips on what to do.

lol neither have i! but my friend's have and they have tried to teach me. well once you have it in your mouth even if he wants you have to have it in all the way but you shouldn't cuz u can choke. what you do is lick the top of it and actually drool all over it and slide it in and out and kinda massage it at the same time

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15/F
I've never kissed a guy but over half the kids I know have already lost their virginity or gotten way close to losing it. And they're all like "YOUVE never kissed a guy? youre gonna end up like the 40 year old virgin, oh i know this guy for you" or whatever
And I 'pleasure' myself and stuff but just doing that, I feel SOOO guilty like I cant leave my room after.
And theres this guy that wants to do stuff with me and I really like him, and I talked to my mom about how I dont think hes that good of a person to hang around and she told me how my sister lost her virginity to a guy when she was my age.. which didnt really help.
But I reallly wanna do SOMETHING with a guy to know how it feels.. but at the same time I dont because I like being special, and feeling proud, and seeing peoples reactions when I tell them.

I just don't know what to do :[
this is highschool and its hard

Well I'm only in middle school but I think I have an answer for you! If you feel guilty about "pleasuring" your self be sure not to rush into sex! If you like the guy date him but make sure he's not a guy just after sex! Get a guy you really care about! Remember you only get one first kiss!

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