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I heard this song on the radio but don't know who it's by or the name:
Shory is a killer
and i wanna have him
and i gotta have him
tonight! (link)
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Killa by Cherish (feat. Yung Joc)
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so i have this friend 'jane'
&&her mom does && does && does for her.
she does everythinq she says.
i mean i quess you could call her mom a sort of 'push over?'
then my friend [13years old) starts screaminq && pouts.
im like wtf dude?
i tell her to chill out ; butt she acts like thats okay for a thirteen year old qirl to do.
its almost like when you see a qirl in a movie yell at her mom.
she trys that butt she looks ridiculous.
what do i tell her so she can stop makinq a complete fool of her ; her mom ; && me in public? (link)
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I think you should confront her alone. Try to describe or even reenact the way she acts, if she sees or is able to visualize this childish behavior in some form it might give her a wake up call. Tell her that she's not treating her mom fairly and shes being very ungrateful, and acting like it's ok for a 13 year old to do that is very excusatory, she can change if she wants to.
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I'm going to try very hard to exsplain this clearly. I have always been sort of a loner and I've never had many friends. I have been out of High School for almost 5 years now. Even nowadays whenever I see pictures of someone I went to High School with I still think to myself "She's so much prettier than me, I'm not good enough to be friends with that person, or I'm not even worth her/his time to even talk too." I think to myself...I'm just a loner, I'm fat, I'm ugly, and I'm just not cool enough or my all time thinking He/She will be quick to judge me. At times I've tried to build my confidence to talk to someone however once I spot a second of awkwardness I think to myself "Omg, I choked they don't like me...or I feel like such an outsider" Ugh, It's got to be so bad I don't even want to socialize and I'm turning into a Hermit.
Please Help (link)
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Everybody is different, that's what makes people unique. If someone doesn't like you for who you are then they wouldn't be worth your time. Outer appearance doesn't ensure friendship. You have to start focusing your attenion on all of your good qualities, that way you can gain more self confidence and maybe get out a little more and become more social. The more you think about the bad the worse you feel. Be yourself & be proud!
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People always say to me on myspace or your gorgeous your beautiful and your so pretty . I dont really feel that people see me that same way in person . I feel that im getting more complements on a website then i do in real life . In person some people say oh you wear too much makeup oh your nose is wierd and youve got acne and all of that i sometimes find myself that im never pretty anymore .... That im only pretty in picture then i am otherwise . Is there any real reason why i feel this way ? Help please ? .
-torii babiiee * (link)
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We always question other peoples' opinions of ourselves, it's normal. But what's most important is how you view yourself. If your happy with the way you look, whether in person or in a picture, then that's what matters most. And as far as the people who judge you in person, everybody has acne at some point, so I'm sure they do too =]
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What to get My boyfriend for Valentines Day. I was thinking of a personalized mug or bowl but he lives with his parents and that wont really have much of a meaning cuz it wont actually be his. I might get him boxers but What else can I get him. Something cute and small we dont want to spend too much money on each other? What do you think? (link)
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Maybe you can make him a mix CD of songs that remind ou of him, and that you think he'd like too. Music is always meaningful.
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