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erm...ok, I'm 13/f/ca, and next year I'm going to be a freshman in Highschool, I'm wanting for hopfully some...encouraging words. I"ve heard this kid saying I'll trashcan me cuz then he'll be a seinor. Do Seniors really make your Freshman year a living hell? how bad is it really? I need the truth really, cuz some people say you're never trashcaned in highschool, and others say Seniors are made to make Freshmans lives year a living hell.

pleaaaaaase help!!

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Paranoid

haha.. don't worry!.. nothin like that really happens people just say things to get ya worried about it! .. coming out of my freshman year.. i know from experience! i actually had a lot of senior friends and trust me there nothin like there made out to be! don't be worried about it.. just live these last few years up there the best years of ur life!.. have fun! but be safe

-xoXo*Katie

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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do?

yea that makes u sound really shallow... looks don't matter give the boy a chance!

-xoXo*Katie

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I have this Bad habit.
I like all my best friends~Tara's~ boyfriends.
Last year,she liked this boy named Davon.Then one day my friend Ilirida asks me if I like Davon. I said he's ok.If he likes mee as a girlfriend, I'll like him as a boyfriend. But Ilirida told him I said that so he said he liked me and tara now.Me and tara spent aboput 2 months fighting over him. Our friendship got really torn up cuz of a guy. Then, Davon stoppped liking tara and only liked me. That caused BIG problems. So Taraz mad. Reallly MAD. Me and davon wer like bf-gf 4 liike 3 months wen tara started likin him agen.He dumped me. I got REALLY mad at Tara.But wen he stoppped liking both of us, we X'd him oout of our lives. but now everything is happpening alll over again. What am I suppo

you should never choose a guy over a girl friend.. its just one of those unwritten rules.. u don't choose a guy over a friend and u don't date a guy if theres chances of a friend liking.. or STILL liking that guy its just one of the "rules of feminism" as Gretchen would say :0) (Means Girls).. haha

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Alright .. so im 13 .. and i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend last night .. meaning i was a virgin until last night .. well i heard your supposed to bleed your first time .. and i didnt .. it hurt like SUPER SUPER bad .. but i didnt bleed .. and i was just wondering if thats normal or not . Thanks :)

every girl is different.. despite what you've heard.. u don't ALWAYS bleed your first time.. but it does hurt most girls unless they are "loose" as sum people say.. things will get better for u!

-xoXo!*Katie

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how do you get rid of back cramps when your in your period???

you can take midol.. or pamprin for ur back and cramps and also heating pads work very well.. also if none of it helps u should talk to ur mom about taking u to the doctor and they can perscribe a pill for back pain and cramps.. i had to go about it yesterday and my cousin takes it and nothin else helps her so i guess it must work pretty well :)

-xoXo!*Katie

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i have greenish blue eyes, and very dark auburn red hair..i have a big event comming up..any of those beauty experts out there have any make up ideas to look pretty, natural..but not as natural as every other day? thanks

well.. i think you should just do sumthing simple.. like maybe just a little powder on ur face and maybe sum bronzer.. use a brown shimmery eyeshadow and and maybe a little green in the creases of your eyes to bring out the green.. and just a little lip gloss nothing fancy :)... for the hair.. just wear it straight down and maybe flip it out.. any more questions.. jsut ask :)

xoXo-*Katie

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I am no stranger to the behaviour of most guys. Very sexual, like the jokes about sex but I have a slight problem, I don't know how to react. I have a few guys that are bothering me at this time I will explain. Well this boy called karl right he's 17 and i'm 14, well basically he wants sex and he keeps pestering me he tried to touch me up and I don't know what to do. Some boys just fancy me and I can take that. There's this other boy called Steve who's 16 but he thinks i'm going to go out with him and tries to get me to cheat on my boyfriend and his girlfriend which gets me in trouble with his girlfriend. Another boy I don't see but he's really nice, prob is he calls me all these names and keeps asking me out. A little younger boy who's a few months younger than me is asking me to strip i don't know how to answer these there a no but how do I say that assertively?

just tell them you aren't interested in them.. but be blunt about it.. you don't have to be nice if u don't like the things they are doing to u or calling u.. make sure they know how u feel

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ok im 18 years old and im a guy. my question is ... when am i gonna start to grow a beard? my beard hasnt come in at all and ive never shaved ever in my life. Its kinda sad really, shouldnt it be in by now? All my friends shave all the time. any ideas?

just give it time!.. be happy u don't wanna shave its annoying.. and facial hair isn't attractive anyways :P

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i hope you can help because everythings really weird and i cant figure out what to do. ok there's this guy and i met him about to years ago over the summer. we went out for about a year all together (it was an off and on relationship & he had other girls and i dated other guys) but i cant shake the fact that im in love with this kid... even though its been about 3 months since the last break-up and hes had 3 other girls. i like too other guys and the both like me. ones older ones my age (im 15 - if it helps any) the older one i like more ... alot more and hes always there but he wants sex. the one my age we hang out and always have fun but im not quite sure if hes on the same page as me... please help!! soon

well.. i'll just tell u this.. ur not "in love" with the guy u meant 2 years ago over the summer.. if u were.. u wouldn't be considering any other guys.. sorry to sound kind of harsh... but its not love.. u should just decide of which of the guys treats u better.. and hate to break it to u but EVERY guy wants SEX!.. thats just how they work.. but the right guy will respect your feelings on it and not try anything until u are ready to

xoXo-*Katie

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ok i'am 13 and i wear a 38d bra . they have been this way since like ever and i grow out of my shrits in three months evey time i buy them .and my boobs keep on geting bigger and bigger how can i make my cloths fit better and i all ready wear an extra large in shrits because of my chest.please help i rate really good.

merle

there isn't really much you can do.. maybe u can get minimizing bras that make ur boobs a little smaller.. and really once u get older u can consider gettin a breat reductiong because u may start having back problems and stuff

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