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Member Since: August 18, 2005
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Last Update: September 28, 2005
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I have a friend who is over weight and is always saying Im so fat!! Even though she kind of is I dont want to be mean so I say no your not.I dont want to keep lieing to her but I dont want to just say Yeah you are.How can I just make her stop saying she is fat and ugly without hurting her feeling.I rate high..PS If we say something mean to her she freaks out and says omg I cant belive you just said that. (link)
wow...i have the exact type of friend and the way i got her to stop is...i said to her "ya know when you call your self fat and put your self down it gets really annoying so can you please stop saying it" now she stoped saying it so maybe you should try saying something like that to your friend...never tell her she is fat b/c she might go and stop eating...so try telling her that it gets annoying when she says it

i hope this helps please tell me what happens!!



i know there has been a lot of questions like this so... i hope i'm not getting on your nerves! okay my birthday is in october and i'm turning 14, i have no idea what to do for my party b/c i can't have everyone over to my house or anything and what would we do anyway? i was thinking maybe w/all girls head to a spa or something, but i have a TON of guy friends. so please help! GOOD answers get 5's i'll report you if i have to! (link)
i think you should have an ice skatting party have you parents rent out a rink or something like that everyone has fun at those and you can save the spa for another time



Hey i was wondering if any of you know a all around really good shampoo and conditioner.. i use brilliant brunette right now but i was wondering if theres like a better one maybe pantene the brunette expressions or garnier fructice or what... my hair is wavy i can curl or straighten it so yeah thanks! im looking for one to make it shiny and healthy and makes it just look good! 15 f (link)
i would say pantene or garnier fructice>sleek and shine...i use garnier and it really works and it seems like we have the same type of hair

hope it works



Okay, this is my third day using tampons and their great. But last night I found out I just stopped and it was my second day. It was the same with today. I'm like 99% sure that I took every tampon out. I came to a close encounter with almost forgetting one, but I didn't. That was only the first time that happened. Now today I have pains right where the tampon would be, and I checked down there and saw nothing. I need help right away. Thanks. (link)
well i think you should really see a doctor because you might have TSS if you almost forgot one...ask your mom to call your doctor asap!



Okay.. I have played soccer and done dance for 11 years. The result= Realll muscular legs. I know that some people think it's good, but I hate it. Does anyone have any tips for slimming your legs down?

(i don't want to quit either and plus I cant!)

Thanks!!! (link)
i would say dont do as many leg exersizes do more arm and ab workouts to kind of hide the leg muscles...run alot so your legs dont get week theres nothing else i can really tell you but i hope this helped!!



ok well im 14 and i have been a cutter since i was 12. im also anorexic. i have been since i was like 10. i also have trouble eating infront of people, when i have to eat. i just get nervous and very self concious when i eat around other people. even my parents. im 4'10" and i currently weigh 94 lb. i want to get over my cutting and eating disorder SO BAD! i have tryed forever but just run back to them. i think about suicide a lot, espically after this year. this year i lost a lot of friends. 2 died in a car accident on the same day and 4 killed themselves. it has affected me badly.
now i am addicted to cutting. i cant feel the pain anymore. no matter how much or how deep i cut. ive tryed the rubber band thing but it doesnt work. if you have any ideas on how to stop then please answer. i rate high. (link)
well...i really think you should stop cutting its not the answer...even though i dont know you i still dont want you to do this because you could end up killing your self even if you didnt meen to when you were cutting...if i feel this way and i dont even know you emagin how the people that care about u and love you would feel if they found out...you really cant controll what happens to other people such as the friends you lost killing them selves or getting killed...you shouldnt take it out on your self..really cutting is a horrible thing to do you should really stop...when ever you feel like you need to cut resist it...you may think it helps but really its only making things alot worse...about your eating disorder...for a someone who is 4'10" and only weighs 94lbs is deffently not fat at all...if you think your fat then exsersize dont stop eating...run a little more go to a gym dont stop eating...you should really start eating again...everytime you think to your self "i'm fat" make a list of atleast 10 good things about your self. trust me it works...i used to think i was fat and thats what i did and now im fine with my self...also to build up self confidence ask people if they think your fat im sure they will say no...94lbs doesnt sound soud fat at all...alot of people probley wish they weighed 94lbs...think of your self as "lucky"...because really if you weigh 94lbs you are lucky...be happy with what you have!!
>>>im sooo sry this is soo long but i really think you needed alot of help with this(i hope it helped!!!)





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