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Hey.
My name is Sara.
I am 15 and a Sophmore.
I live in Texas (never move here, it sucks haha.)
I am a pretty simple girl. Little things make me happy and I am almost always smiling.
I like to give people advice...So if you have any questions just ask. =)

advice

how do you get over a crush that probably may not result in anything

Talk to other guys.

Try NOT to think of him.

Look at the negative things of him instead of the positive things.

Eventually you will get over him.

Hope I helped.

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I'm a capricorn girl and I keep getting crushes on Leo guys! why am i attracted to them so much! lol i've only liked like 2 guys who were something different.. a cancer and a virgo, but the people were all generally born within the summer months. weird.

Yeah that is wierd haha.

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Please someone help me.. I have been dating this girl for 9 months and 14 days today.. We have been doing really good lately.. But she is one of those girls who wants to talk to me CONSTANTLY and believe me i like it.. But sometimes it can be to much.. She gets mad at me when i want to go anywhere with my friends.. But the other day i told her she was to attached.. And i didnt mean it i was just mad because of how she kept getting mad.. But now i feel horrible because i have hurt her in the past.. And i love her more than anything in this world and i hate myself for hurting her.. Can someone please tell me how to appoligize to her and make it better. But dont say to tell her that i said it out of anger or to just appoligize because i have already tried it.. We used to fight alot because of how she would get mad.. But that is over with now.. And now she is scared to talk to me alot because she dont want to fight with me anymore.. And told her thats not the way to do it.. I know she loves me i can just tell she does. .But i dont know how to make things like they used to be.. Someone please help me..

Aww you sound like a super sweet guy.
Well, being a girl and everything if that happened between my bf and me I would want him to talk to me. But I guess she doesn't so have you thought about writing a letter to her? Just write down all you wanna tell her and give it to her. It's worth it. I mean, what do you have to lose.

Good Luck. I hope everthing works out good for you. You sound like you to sweet of a guy for it not too. Hope I helped.

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im looking for some good books to read for when i go out of town. any suggestions? im into fashion and girl books and anything like gossip girls. thanks!

I like the Chicken Noodle Soup Books. I don't know if you have heard of them but there's like 1000's of them. Haha. There's some for the teenage soul and relationships. Those are like my favorite.

Hope I Helped.

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k. i tan a lot. especially now for prom, but my armpits are really white. what would help that, the stand up bed?? i really like laying down, but what could i do to tan under my arms??

I don't know if this will help or not. But that happens to me to and when i am in the bed I flip over on my stomach and put my arms ups. I don't know if you know what I mean though. haha. But i aint sure of a better way to explain it.

Hope I helped even a little lol.

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is there anything to help tan better outside? i dont want to go to a tanning salon but i want to get reallly dark from outside. so i was wondering what i coudl use. nothing too oily please thank you


Okay, this is what I do. I get tanning oil, like the kind you rub on before you get into a tanning bed, and put it on. Then just go outside and do whatever your doing. Trust me, this works. I do it all summer on the days I can't go tanning.

Hope I helped.

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okay so ive had a boyfriend for 7 months now..and lately every little thing he did was starting to annoy me, so i knew it was time for a break...he still really loves and cares about me though. He's 15 and i just turned 17 and he won't be 16 till April...so that kinda turned me off a bit too. the thing is is that i really like 2 other guys.. both of them used to like me...but once i started going out with my now ex, one of them, "bob" started going out with another girl. and the other one, "Blake" has a kid and lives two hours away...
okay Blake....
the night before i broke up with my bf Blake came to see me... he told me that his girlfriend broke up with him 2 days ago... and he kept making suddle moves on me the whole night, but i didn't lean in for a kiss because i STILL had a bf... it's been a week since he came to see me and he hasn't called or texted.. but i really like him..... some of my friends think he used me just for a rebound, some of my other friends think that it was just a coinsedence and that hes just really busy. I personally don't understand why he would drive 2 hours just to rebound, when he couldve found another girl closer...
now Bob...
bob used to like me...but he didn't tell me until i asked him if he did... and i had just started going out with another guy. I liked bob too....now bob's being a jerk and we're both REALLY mean to eachother... but you can tell that we hate being mean eachother if that makes any sense at all....

i like them both... but i dont know what to do...
i guess:

1) do you think its okay to text a guy if he doesn't text you back or would you sound to desperate and should u just wait for him to text you?
2) how do you ask a guy if he likes you without asking that direct question?
3) what are some things i could say to bob that hint around at me liking him but don't sound slutty cuz he does have a gf?
4) Was Blake just using me for a rebound?
thanks.

1) Text him and ask him what he's doing. It won't sound desperate at all. But only text him once.
Maybe he just hasn't had time to call/text or whatever.

2) I don't know about this but I would just go ahead and ask it. I mean, what do you have to lose.

3) Just tell "Bob" that you like him. Don't play around because you could send him mixed signals and that would just be bad.

4) Not if he drove that long to come and see you. He probably just hasn't had the time to call/text you. I am sure he has an explanation.

Good Luck. I hope I helped.

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this really isn't a confusing drama story, it's just long. please read!


alright here it goes. i've been hooking up with this guy for about a month, and a few weeks ago he asked me out and i said yes. i immediately regretted it. i don't know why, maybe i'm afraid of commitment (probably not because i'm only 15) but i feel like i'm using him for experience. don't get me wrong, i do like him, just sometimes i get so many doubts about him that i get this sinking feeling, feeling like i did the wrong thing by going out with him, like i'm in too deep now to get out of it. the main problem is that i feel like i'm using him for experience and i feel like sometimes i have to force myself to like him, when other times i truly do like him and i feel like i would never break up with him. what do i do?? should i wait it out a little longer, just till the end of the school year? i change my mind so much about him that i feel like i'm gonna make the wrong decision by breaking up with him if i do..and he's been hurt so much in the past that i don't want to be his next girlfriend to hurt him. please help :(

You should't stay with him by only using him. Don't do it. And if your gonna break up with him, do it now. Don't wait beacause if you do, it's only gonna be harder on the both of you.

I hope you make the right decison and good luck.

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I seem to sweat a lot. The deodarants that I use do work, because it does'nt smell or anything. But im constantly avoiding shirts with sleeves because I mostly always sweat and there it is, the wet spot that doesnt smell, but it's just there and I hate it! I dont know what to do. I have already gone through puberty, im fully developed and everything, and i found out that im not growing anymore so i just dont know what to do or if itll stop when i get older. But i have had this problem for quite a while and i just need advice on what to do, please please please!

Okay, well I am not sure if you are a guy or not but if your a girl..they have this new deodarant from Dove that's suppose to help that problem. I don't know if it works but it's worth a try.

I hope your a girl haha.

Hope I helped =)

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alright well i have had glasses since i was 18 months old. i am probably getting contacts soon & i have 2 questions.

1. i have like white circles around my eyes becuase they never got any sun all these years. so it looks pretty stupid. i also do not tan easily at all. ive heard that those tanning lotion things by jergens & other people make you orange & dont match your skin tone. so what can i do? i also have alot of freckles which makes the white circles look worse becuase theyre are no freckles there & theres freckles everywhere else. help??

2. my friend told me that her mom gets a new pair of contacts like every 3 days. do you really have to change them that often?

thanks soo much everyone.

Don't know about the first one but as for the 2nd one..

I wear contacts and have for about 3 years now. No, you dont have to change them that often. I have had the same pair for like 3 weeks now. I have plenty more but theres just no reason to change them for me. And I have gone with one pair for a month till they started getting where I could barely see out of them. In her case, I guess it could be different but I doubt it.

Hope I helped =)

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i feel really stupid asking this because i know a bunch about sex & stuff & all my friends come to me with questions.
but when you give a guy a bj are they supposed to wear a condom?

They can but don't have too.
It's safer because if they have a diease and you don't use one then you can get whatever they have if they have like have a cut on it. So, just be careful about who you give a bj too.

Hope I helped =)

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You know the plaid bermuda shorts that were huge last year? are they going to be in again?

Yeah, I think they will be. Because I already have saw alot of people wearing them already.

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okay well today i shaved like down there..
and i think i got most of the hair and stuff
but now theres all these red bumps like cuts or something.. but i was really careful and it was my second time using that razor.. so it wasnt too sharp or too dull. why do you think this happened?? and how do i get rid of the bumps ASAP because my boyfriend is coming over tonight!
HELP

Don't worry. This happened to me to once too. I don't think there is anyway to just get rid of these bumps and cuts cus there like cuts haha. But mine went away like in 3 days. Just rub some lotion down there and try not to wear panties when you don't have to and they will heal faster. Well, mine did. And as far as your bf coming over, he shouldn't care. Just explain to him what happened and I am sure he will understand or say your on your period or something. Haha lol.

Hope I helped. Good Luck.

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okay so i reallly like this boy in my class, and i;ve known him since like 2nd grade. and we are in 7th grade now. So he found out that i like him and he still acts like he;s my bestfriend and stuff. but idk if he likes me or not! help ):

When I first read this, I was like OMG. I have liked this guy since 3rd grade and I am now a freshman. I was like deff in love with him. Like serious. He would flirt with me like really bad but only liked me as a really good friend when my other friend asked him. I now have a diff bf and I still see the guy I have liked for along time every day. But have kinda gotten over him. Haha. So what I am trying to say is, I know exctly what your going though. And if I could do it over again, I would just straight up ask him if he likes you or not. Cause if you don't, you could be wasting your time.

Hope I helped =)

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Do you have to use lubricant or lotion while giving a handjob?

It's much better if you do.

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Me and my boyfriend have only made out so far. If we were going to do anything further, would it be weird to do it at the movies? I just mean him fingering me or me giving him a hand job. The movies is the only place I can think of that is possible for us to be able to do anything like that. Any other places?

It can but doesn't have to be wierd at the movies to do that sort of stuff. If that's the only place you and him can do it then, make the best of it and go for it. Just try to make sure to get a movie with not that many people in it or sit in very the back. Hope I helped.

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i want to hook up with this guy at the movies. i have hooked up before but never like sitting doen facing the same direction as the guy. how do i move my body to hook up with him? if he puts his arm around my shoulders what do i do next? how can i get him to kiss me?

Just go for it.
Take chances and make the first move on him.
If he puts his arms around you, then smile at him and let you know you like him. To get him to kiss you, well if he likes you enough, than more than likely he will make the first move and kiss you.
And if you find out he don't like you, then remember there is always plenty of guys out there that would be happy to be with you =)

I hoped I was helpful.

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Is there a way to get rid of cellulite?

No, I don't thik there is.
I think surgery is the only option.
Hope I helped.

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