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Im 14 male and i am running cross country..so i have to get a physical..is it bad?? (link)
yay for cross country runners! you have to get a sports physical to run right? they're fine.. the most they'll do is make you pee in a cup! its fine. when I had mine done at school my freshmen year all they did was ask me questions about my health, weigh, measure, and make me pee in a cup. its really not bad at all. goos luck this year with cross country!


I'm supposed to be going to the gyn (women's doctor) in a few months, and I was wondering, when they stick their fingers inside you to examine you, does that hurt badly, or what? Do they loosen you up or what..?

Please answer! (link)
this sight should help http://www.medem.com/MedLB/article_detaillb.cfm?article_ID=ZZZM8HN5HQC&sub_cat=6
I doesn't hurt at all. They use a lubricant so that it won't hurt. (is that what you mean by loosen you up?)
hope I helped!


What is the song called that goes like this...

How the hell'd we wind up like this? Why werent we able, to see the signs that we missed, to try to turn the table?


??? ill rate 5s (link)
the song is called someday by Nickelback


my mom's favorite food is muffins, I can't make them from scratch, what are the best muffin mixes? (link)
I like jiff, betty crocker also makes good muffin mixes


I am currently searching for colleges. If you are attending a college in the USA and live in undergraduate housing, please please answer with:

The name of the college
If they offer coed housing
And what coed housing is (coed rooms, floors, what?)

Thank you so much (link)
I'm not in college but I can give you a bit of info

Name: Boston University
coed housing: yes, male and female floors are alternated

Name Brown University
coed housing: yes, each floor has two wings, one male and on female, with restrooms and showers inbetween

hope I helped!


OK i have really liked this guy. I have liked this guy for 2 years my 7th and 8th year. In my 7th year i was a GEEK i dressed so UGGGG..BAD anywayz my friend told him i liked him and them he stoped talking to me. THem in the last weeks of 8th grade he started talking to me again. I was much prettyer in 8th grade then 7th. Once we ran down to the caf. and he said "YOur the fast i've ever seen a girl run" then when we got there.. some kid yelled. "Does she like you?" and he said " no, that was last year" and them i was crushed because i still liked him but i said "yup thats right" anyways. THem this summer.. he has asked my mom if i wanted to go bike riding sometime because he only lives like 4 miles away from me and stuff like "you should bring her down to your work sometime" and stuff like that. I almost always talk to him now. But he will never ask me out. He also has never had a gf or a kiss. SO what should i do to hint him on asking me out. or what should i do.. I don't want to ask him out or tell him i like him even thought he already knows because his grandpa told him.. long story there.but anywayz . please help i do rate.. (link)
why don't you ask him. a lot of guys are just too nervous to ask a girl out. he's never had a gf before, so he's probably really scared. if you ask him, it will relieve alot of tension.


how do you write a thesis statement, like what do you need to include in it (link)
a thesis statement is basically a sentence that summarizes what your paper/ article is going to be about. you should include any major ideas that you will explain later in your paper. the first couple time you use a thesis statement will be tricky. but once you get used to it, they become easier and easier.


what are STDS? how do u get them? can you get rid of them? what happens if you have STDs? (link)
STD means sexually transmitted disease. you get these diseases through sexual activity. most of them have no cure, but they do have medicine to help the symptoms. if you have STDs usually you'll have to take some kind of medicine depending on the disease.
this sight should explain the different types of STDs
http://parentingteens.about.com/cs/stds/a/stdsfact.htm

hope I helped!


Hey. Im 17 years old, and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We live together and everything, but one night, when we were having sex, we didnt even notice the condom slip off. Well, he came inside of me, and then we looked frantically for a condom we though was still on. The next day it came out of me, but there was no cum in it or anything. it was as clear as it was when it first came on. Also, im not on birth control. It has been 2 weeks since, and I was just wondering if there is any chance of getting pregnant. Also, it was only 2 or 3 days after my period. So, can i? (link)
there is always a chance you could be pregnant after having sex. you can either wait until your next period or buy an inexpensive home pregnancy test to be sure that you're not pregnant.


There's this guy that i met at a local teens club. He was super cool, and my friend keeps saying she thinks he likes me. I dont know, he was totally sarcastic like, the entire time, like making fun of my friends (not really, just playing) but he didnt make fun of me. and when this one guy made fun of me, he through cake at him, but it might have been cuz the guy was making fun of him to...i have no clue what to do, should i make a move, or chill out and wait for more signs?

Thanks in advance,
Jessy (link)
spend more time with him, get to know him. Go out with a group of friends, but to a place where you can be alone for a period of time.


hi my names kayla and im 14 yrs. old. me and this boy named zach went out like a yr.ago.and we didnt last long.and now me and him are starting to talk again and we are getting along great!me and him were talking about getting to know each other and then mabe hooking up since we havent went out in along time! and me and him agree to make it work this time! and then we started talking about sex! and im kinda scared to! cause i start to think that if the condom breaks then im gunna get pregnant! i dont know what to do! i would get in so much trouble if i got pregnant since im only 14! but i really like him now that we atarted talking again! and i dont want to tell him no cause i want to make our relationship last! please help me on what i should do! and if i use a condom what the percent would be that i could get pregnant!

thanx alot! xoxo im me on xoxokaylaoxox91
always kayla (link)
I know that you want this relationship to work. But if you don't want to have sex don't! any guy who pressures you into it after you've said no or expressed your concerns isn't worth it! but if you really want to, most areas have health centers that deal with things like HIV, Aids, abortions, things like that. You can usually go there with out your parents approval or presence. They can perscribe you a birth control pill or patch. Other than that, use a condom. If it breaks there is really nothing you can do. There's always the morning after pill. You can take that up to 5 days after you've had sex and it will terminate any fertlization of eggs that occur. I believe you can get that at most drug stores or you local health center. This may depend on your state laws.
Hope I Helped!


ok here it goes my house smells really bad. I dont know why i think its because of my grandma shes old and she just moved in with us. Theres a really bad smell coming from her and now the whole house smells! I dont want my friends over because it smells! should i still let them over and how can i stop the smell? (link)
try fabreize (sp?) it works wonders on every thing! when we got out cats a while ago, they weren't house trained yet, it took odors out of every thing. also try candels, they usually perk up a room
hope I helped


Okay, I know that you have a ton of these questions, but oh well.
I'm 14/f, and I live in pennsylvania. In pennsylvania you can start working when you're 14, but few places will hire. Does anyone know where they hire at 14. I heard about McDonalds, and there's a McDonalds where I live, but I don't think they hire at 14. Wendy's doesn't hire until 16, neither does Rita's. So does anyone know any places?

Btw, I can't babysit. Not allowed to, and there's no one to babysit and it's almost fall so I can't do landscaping.

Thanks in advance!! (link)
I may not have these but chick-fil-a's hire 14 year olds. also check out your local libraries, nursing homes and hospictals. they'll some times hire kitchen work, and officer typle jobs. doctor's and dentist offices also hire secretary type work.


hey umm how do u get rid of stetch marks??? (link)
they'll never completely go away, but cocoa butter and vitamin e lotions will help to make them fade.


hi im 15 f and really shy. i want to get ajob but daren't ask people if there is any places. i no you might all think im weird but the reson im asking this question is bc my mom and the rest of my family want me 2 get a job
please help xxx (link)
you could try getting in to refereeing or unpiring for local sports leagues. depending on where you live. if you have chick-fil-a's they hire at 14. other than that, check places like libraries, nursing homes, and hospitals. the nursing home my mom works in hires kitchen workers that are 15. also, coldstone creamery (ice cream) hires 15 year olds.


i m 13 & i have a crush on a 15 year old guy and i THINK he likes me too so my b-day is coming up this saturday and i was wondering what i could do to get him horny or @ least make him show that he likes me p.s. I WILL have a pool so any sexy things i could do in there w/out people noticing that much PLEASE HELP!!! :( (link)
wow take it slow with the getting older boys horny! your only 13! but if you want to get his attention, wear a cute little swim suit, play some good music, are other people going to be there? if so hang around with him for a while, but not the entire time, make your self available, not pressed.


there is this boy that i like alot. he is sweet,kind,and o so hot. but then there is this other guy same thing. but i like the first guy better than the second guy because he is older and more mature. i can't stop thinking about the first one. i am confused. but then i found out that the first one doesn't like me at all. he doesn't even care that i like him. he barely knows me and he is starting to hate me already. so here are my questions.

how can i get the first guy to start to get to know me?

who should i pick?

i will rate with reasonable answers (link)
the guy doesn't even care that you like him? wow, you should choose the second one! you said the first one was starting to hate you already... some guys get uncomfortable when they find out a girl likes them. thats probably where the hate comes from. but if he had interest in you and found out you liked him, he would have probably asked you out already. spend some time getting to know the second one. that will help you forget about the first on and like the second one better. remember there are pleanty of fish in the sea. don't hold your self to one guy!


ok, i am felling bad ALL THE TIME becasue of something I DIDN'T EVEN DO! I was at this girl's house lets call her K. I went with two other girls lets call them KK and S. Well, im know as your everyday GOOD GIRL, who doesnt want to do anything wrong. but, once i got there, K, KK, and S were smoking, drinking, and wearing thongs that they STOLE. I R E A L L Y want to tell my mom about this. It is a month after the incedent and i can't live for 3 hours without thinking about it. I don't want to get the three girls in trouble even though i hate them for what they did, and don't want to socialize anymore. my mom asked why i wasnt hanging out with S anymore and i said they just aren't my type of ppl. The day of the incedent my mom asked if there were any drugs involved, she asked this b/c i havent hung out with these girls for about 2 years and i made a new group of friends who have my back alwasy and would never do things that they did. and they have changed A LOT!!! Me and my friend N are always thinkign about it. and i dnt want her to feel bad to. I know when im at this age i should not care, b/c i hate my parents... but im nto like that. i want to ahev gilmore girl moments and feel close. I want to be bffs so i can spill my guts to her, cause i always feel better in the end. our family vacations starts TOMORROW! and i cant look her in the eye without thiking about it. I keep on telling myself that i didn't do anything, or all the kids ahev at least ONE secret. but i feel bad. i ahe had MANY opportunities to tell my mom about it. but i got scared and never told her. But, that night while im crying myself to sleep, i wish i did. i had two dreams so far about this, one, they all got caught, b/c i told their mom's htey were doing it and they saw them smoking. The second, K (who supplied the ciggerates) quite. so, they all stopped. I really need some help, sorry this is so long. will rate a 5 to anyone who helps me with my problem.
*Jenna (link)
You should tell your mom. She will understand why you had a hard time telling her. But she'll pround that you did tell her, and that you didn't take the offer. You will be so relieved if you tell her.


ok well i'm not really a gossip girl i'm 13 i dont have a boyfriend and all that stuff...i had never heard of masterbating(sorry i'm not sure how to spellit)until i got on this site. I completely froze when i saw what it was, i've been doing it since like first grade. Just one day it became an obsession, i was going to stop but decided not. I was thinking of talking about it with my mom becuase i have all those stretch marks and things...does anyone have advice?!? (link)
first off, strech marks don't come from masturbation. Every one gets those just from growing. Its completely normal to masturbate. Guys do it all the time. lol If you feel comfortable talking with your mom about masturbation. But it will probably be a bit strange. If you enjoy marturbation, then you really don't have to stop unless, you do it in inapproprate places/ times.


i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?
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the best advice I can give is to just say it! lol but other than that, write a poem, brun a cd with his favorite music.




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