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i saw one of those commercials thats "above the influence" and it talked about sloming or sluming it has someihting to do with leeches.
1. what exactly is it
2. why do people do it (link)
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Its sloming: Sticking leeches on myself
Its not real its something they made up for the commercial(i m pretty sure) to show you how stupid it is to do drugs like "its a social thing" and stuff like that.
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okay.female here.
well i`m 17 almost 18.
i`m short like 5 foot or 5'1 who knows really alot of people think 4'11 but i honestly don`t know.
well my current weight that i know of it 118.
pants size is usaully 3-5 i porbably should wear a 4 but those suckers are hard to find.
i`m not completely unhappy with my body just my stomach.
&& i want to lose a few pound to make that stomach look better.
i have love handles thats my main thing i hate.
people say i should not lose weight because of my breast. they are a 38 d.
so i want some ideas on wat you think i should do.
i have an ab louge would that be good.??
& i love food so yes that would be hard to be real strict.
so thanks alot
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Use your ab lounge. And for your love handles (I hate those little butts!!!so anyoing!) anyways this may be hard to follow but try.
Lay on the ground like to do a sit up.
Put your legs straight up.
And ease them down to your right.
Then up.
Ease down to the left.
Then up.
And just keep reapeting.
Also:
Do your floor crunches to the side.
Hope I helped
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for the past 5 days my stomach has been upset. but over those 5 days ive started throwing up alot using the bathroom alot and getting dizzy also. everytime i stand up to go to the bathroom i feel like im about to fall because i feel so dizzy. my dad says to just drink lots of fluids but that doesnt seem to be helping haha ive been taking pepto-bismol and dayquil and nightquil. any advice on what i can take for my dizzyness (its the dizzyness like when you first get up in the morning and everythings off track)
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I don't what they are called but people use little patches for motion sicknes, headaches and dizziness, you put them on you neck like by your ears or on your wrists, my mom used them they worked really well. I bet they sell them in any drug store.
Good luck
fell better
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i got in touch with my dad last year after 8 years. one of my aunts (she's 28 i'm 18) use to call me all the time and w'e talk. she made me feel special i couldn't wait for the phone to ring! now the other day i called her and she said to call her the next day. i asked her y and she said i'm going to forget. i was bothered by this because she told me that whenever she wnats to tlk to ppl she makes time for them. she took me back and i don't think she should have told me that. i feel that since a year has passed she's acting different. when i first got my cell phone the first few days before it got messed up she never called. she would only say i'm going to call u tomorrow then i'd end up calling her instead and she'd always call her bf on the other line or they'd be talking already and she'd make it a three way. now i got my phone again and she never called she only returned my calls. i think it's unfair for her to expect me to call and she can't remember to call me anymore. i called her a few days after she told me that and she never called back. i think she's messed up to call at first and now she can't even remember no more
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This may seem childish but don't call her. Like let some time go by see what she does. Then in like a couple weeks call her, rather than everyday.
Hope I helped!
Good Luck!
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There is this guy I'm interested in, and I am pretty sure he is interested in me.
The thing is, he is quite rebellious. He drives fast, gets into violent fights, and pretty much questions and ignores all authority.
He acts like he doesn't like anybody, and acts like he is emotionally disconnected from the world around him. Is this a macho act? I don't know for sure.
The thing is, I seem to be an exception to his normal rule. I want to be the exception (He is very hot). He seems to want to connect on a personal level with me, like I'm different from the rest.
What are your thoughts? (link)
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Well he sounds perfect! I love the rebels. Anyways trying hanging out with him more away from everyone else he'll feel like he can open up more like he doesn't have so much to prove. Stay away from any topics a rebel could brag about. Like don't say omg I snuck out last night or anything like that cus he'll get into his element and be all I do that all the time. Just be casual, he'll feel "safer" and start tuning it down a notch and let you in more and more.
GOod Luck!
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okay so..im14/f and my boyufriend is 16. and over holiday break, his family went on vacation. they went on an 10 day cruise on the carribean. jealous? ya, me too. but while he was gone, new years happened. and i did something that i couldnt regret more. i hooked up with his best friend. but i couldnt really help it. we were at a house party. and it got crazy with liquor. and i drank. a lot. i was really wasted and out of it. but the point is, i have a very guilty conscience(?). i know that i wont feel okay untill i tell him. but how do you tell the person that you love with all of your heart that you cheated. how do you cheat on them in the first place. i feel dirty. hes the only person that i have ever been intimate with, and i know that i love him and he loves me back. its so hard to live with guilt. and i feel like a tramp. once again, how do i tell him. btw, hes incredibly strong and im sure he would hurt one of us. most likely the friend. what do i do to stop everything. (link)
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Well this is always a hard thing to do. Start by telling him you love him and then tell him the truth. You can include that you were drunk and you are sorry but don't use being drunk as an excuse if you make excuses he won't believe how sorry you are. After you explain it to him remind him it is not his friends fault it is soly(sp?) you fault. You are in the realtionship not the friend. You are the one who cheated it is you that can only be held responsible. Sorry to say that but it is true and I have a feeling from what you wrote you know that. But that may let him look at it from another point of view and keep him from being extremly angry with his friend. Point out also that you are telling him, it shows you love him and want him to trust you and you want to be honest with him. Just try to not make excuses, being drunk is not an excuse its a factor.
Good Luck!
HOpe i helped!
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I'm a 23 year old girl ,my life has been a living hell since my parents left us ,this was 10 years ago (I was 13 )I was the oldest and as you can understand I was always the one who had to pull it togheter for my other sisters ..I lost almost my whole life doing this...,no good memories,only pain and sorrow .
I fully grow up by my self thanks to the power of God .
But now I live with my bf ,he is good to me .
But memories keep coming back to me ,sometimes I woke up in the middle of the night crying and it just go on and on .
I don't know why but I keep asking myself why they walked out on us like that ,It hurts like hell.
I don't have close friend because I'm afraid
I don't know why ..I have thousand of good friend and you could say I am very popular for making jokes ,organising nice school trip ,parties ,acting in stage plays etc etc and I really can give good advice but I really really can't have a close friend , the truth is I am even afraid to be close to my bf , I don't know why ......I feel so unhappy feeling this way
I feel like I'm in a lonely world , I feel depressed ,I barely sleep and I can't concentrate at school.
My sex life sucks ,just because I can't get in the mood because I cant't stand for people to get to close to me ,I just want it to be quick so he can get off me ,this is a really strange feeling I can't explain,
I love him but I can't explain this weird feeling and its not just with him .My ex broke up with me because I never did have sex with him..
All this is depressing for me ,I can't live like this any longer
I am really dying inside
help me ,I need advice
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I truely believe everything happens for a reason, though it may be horrible. I believe by your parents leaving and you having to take care of you sisters you matured, grew up in an instant, and did something amazing. You had to hold what was left together and you did. Now you have to get past it and let people into your life. You have to start trusting people and working on realtionships. You may want to start by talking to your boyfriend, let him know how hard it is to let someone in and tell him that you love him but you need to go through a process to put you life back together. Let him know you want him by yourside while you do this and that you need to take things slow so that you can be whole again.
Hope I helped!
Good Luck!
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oh my god og my god oh my god please anyone help i cant even type my best girl friend just committed suicide last night, i'm freaking out. i just heard this morning, she lives two streets away from me, i'm 16/m. she's 15/f. wow i really dont know what to say shes my only friend that ever listened to me and actually cared and i feel like im one of the main reasons she killed herself. she had tons of problems, and lots were with ppl i talked to and stuff. i duno what to do, oh my freaking god. i cant believe this. please help i seriously think i was the main casue of her wanting to die (link)
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I doubt if you were her best friend you are the reason she killed herself. You probally kept her even if you didn't know it from doing it sooner. I believe when it is your time its your time, but sometimes someone can save you prevent the inevatable from happening a little longer. She probally held on a little longer because you were there for her. I am so sorry for your lose. Don't blame yourself, everything happens when it is the time. You gave her friendship someone to talk to, a place to feel safer. You can't blame yourself.
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my friend is like average sized not fat not skinny but right in the middle and her mom keeps tellin her dat shes gettin fat cause she don't wear a small in juniors anymore and shes startin to believe it and is thinkin of becomin anorexic jus so she can fit a small in juniors again so can you give me some advice to give her?PLEASE and THANK YOU (link)
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Just keep like telling her you think shes really pretty like she has a nice body. Like she is at the perfect size, she has body but not to much, she is healthy, not pouring over her clothes, but not so small she looks ill and if you turned her sideways you couldn't see her. Just remind her that she looks great.
Hope I helped.
Good luck!
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