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blah okay =[ i need some serious help. okay so i've had this on and off kind of messed up relationship with one boy (fred). i ended it every time we went out however because he was too afraid to kiss me, would only hold my hand...that kind of thing. i really, really strongly care about this boy. but i just feel like it will never work and he will never treat me as a girlfriend. nobody else does either, so in a way i've lost hope but i haven't lost the dream of it still working. recently, fred's friend (bob) started to like me. he says he likes me a lot. i believe him and so does everybody else. now fred found out and is simply furious that bob likes me because fred still really really likes me too. bob is kind of...relationship obsessed and is kind of creeping me out. i'm just looking to hook up with him and i don't care how shallow that sounds. everybody gets horny sometimes and i haven't gotten with somebody in a long time BECAUSE of fred in the first place. what do i do about fred? i really like him...might love him a tiny teeny bit...its just hard. everything is hard these days becuase i don't think fred will ever get the balls to freaking kiss me. what do i dooo =[ (link)
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on and off relation ships are the worse, and it sucks even more when the guy is prude. but chances are fred is not prude, just extremely nervous.
this is what i'd do.
tell bob that you're sorry .. you're interested in some one else, but you can still be friends .. and put him onthe bak burner for right now.
then go to fred, tell him that you think you should try it one last time, and you think that you could make it work. and if he agrees tell him that you care for him much, but you dont like how he wont kiss you. he probably wont take it offensivly. or you could be like "why havent you kissed me yet" in a joking way. and see what he says. if nothing changes with in the first week. you make the first move.
i'm sure he's just too nervous cause he feels like he'll mess up something by kissing you.
and if fred says no thank you, and doesnt take you back then go back to bob and tell him you're sorry that you passed him up, and that you'd like to be friends with him and potentally date, and get to know him better.
best of luck :)
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heyy justine, i'm 14/f. i'm a tad bit hairy down low...and i'de like to get rid of some of it i think..is shaving bad? somebody said they do it but then wouldn't you get like...stubble on your vag? (link)
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shaving is not bad, that's what most ladies do. and once you shave you will get a little stubbelly. but you can just shave right over that.
it's best to use either a little shaving cream, or soap, or conditionar when you're shaving it though, it makes it smoother. and when you're shaving do it in both directions, against and with the grain. it's makes it more smooth.
but if you want to get rid of some, the you can just shave aroudn your bikini line and cut it down, if you do not want to shave it all off, that's also alright to do.
good luck!
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Well i like this guy.. and i'm starting to become pretty good friends with this girl and he likes her. and like whenever we see eachother he says hi and it's not akward at all when we talk to eachother.
Basically what i need help with is how do i get him to like me? He's in my vocal ensemble and gym class.. we're always on the same team for gym and in vocal ensemble he talks to me sort of.. and we like look at eachother a little and lately ive been calling him and i offered to hang out like two times ..but he couldnt for family excuses that i understand. and he always kind of just nudges me.. i dont know if its kind of a sign or not.. but i think he kind of likes me.. but i'm not realy sure. and i'm starting to really like him. should i tell him or no? and what should i do? (link)
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i would do the whole have your friend ask his friend to ask him who he likes. and see if he says your name.
or if you're really bold you can ask him, and just be like "who do you like". ask him first, and see what he says.
but if you really want to make the first move, then tell him your self. be like "look, i know you like/ed so and so, but now that we've talked a lot i think i have feelings for you, i was wonderful if you feel the same way"
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is it ok to have such a good orgasm that u scream?
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surely!
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hey well my life life is at a all time low and i hate it. i didnt have a dat eto homecoming and i se all these people in teh halls going around hugging kissing and hoolding hands and it just makes me feel lonley and want a bf. i havejnt had my firt kiss yet and i hate it cause i havent had a bf since 7th grade which is sad to me. i like all these guys but they always have a gf or are older and dont see me in that way i wish that they did. i dont no wat to do i am desperate for anything and also i cant do anything casue they have gfs i dont no wat to doooo !!!!
a girl who needs some really good advice
and just talkign to them flirting with them doesnt help (link)
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well just look around, maybe find a shy-er guy? flirt with him a lot (flirting does help) then make a move.
you've got to be possitive on this.. guys like possitive girls, if you feel great about your self, they'll most deff. see it. and then they'll like you because of it.
it's alright that you havent had a bf since 7th grade, you dont always need one.
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hi
do u think it's bad to give bj's
and if not
where should he cum
cause i dont want it in mouth (link)
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it's not bad .. but then again it's not the best thing in the world.
i dont know, what usualy happens is he does in your mouth and then you either swollow or spit.
but if you dont want it in your mouth that's something you need to talk to him about.
have fun!
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hey well i need advice. ok well i went out with this guy who i liked for so long. well we broke up after a week. (he broke up with me) so then 3 days later he asks my really good friend to homecoming and she says yes. they go to homecoming, make out right in front of me, then the monday we get back to school he asks my really good friend out and she says yes!!!! i got really mad. They always kiss and hug in the hallways and everytime they do i just happen to be there. my really good friend is in all of my classes too. should i be mad at her? how should i handle this situation. people tell me that i should be mad at her but i just am not sure what to do. if you could help that would be great. (link)
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talk to the girl, tell her that you still have feelings for him, and it wasnt right for her to date him .. cause it's the unspoken rule, you've got to wait a year to date your friends ex, and you have to have approval .. that's just how it is.
so talk to her, let her know that you dont like that she's dating him .. and take it from there.
ask her not to show PDA in front of you, cause it doesnt make you feel to well..
best of luck!
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Okay I am a freshman at Downingtown West and I was just wondering, is it wierd that I havent had my first kiss yet? Its not that I dont want to or anything but I have just never had the chance to or anything. is it unnormal? (link)
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nahh, it's not abnormal.. it's fine. some people havent. it doesnt mean that you're prude, or anything.. it just means you dont put it all out there.. don't worry about it. you're fine.
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I like an older guy. I see him around school a lot. I don't know how to introduce myself or start a conversation. Have any ideas? (link)
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you should bump into him .. lightly and look him straight in the eyes and be like oh sorry. then if you see him again, smile nicely ask your friends, see if any of your friends are friends with him so you all can hang out.. or ask to be his friend on myspace, if you and him have one?
or if you have any classes together talk to him then?
have fun .. be creative. !
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I am 16, male, and I really like three different girls to the point where i can't stop thinking about them. Should I tell all three this, or should i tell them one at a time, and how would i go about telling them. One of them likes someone else at the moment and another one says we are "good friends" and would rather not be my girlfriend. However the third girl is free as far as i know.
Also if it not too much trouble, do you know good ways to flirt. Apparently I am not good at it.
Thank you very much Justine! (link)
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i am so sorry it's taken me so long, my advicenators wasnt working.
i would tell one girl, and see how that goes .. maybe the girl that you know is free. if you tell all three, and they all find out .. they'll get pissed.
so let the one girl that you like her, or flirt mad with her.
compliment her, a lot.. but not overly. make her feel like a 100 bucks :). girls like that. hang out with her in a group, then by your self. and let her know how you feel.
and if it doesnt work out, move on to the next girl.
best of luck!
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Hey, umm, until recently i hated this girl...mainly because my friends did, but she wasnt that nice to me either, but now she is in my class and is nice to me. Is she being nice just because we're in the same class? or does she legitimately like me as a friend? BTW I am a freshman boy. Thanks! (link)
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i would try being nice to her, because that's a stupid thing, but we all do it, just to hate some one because of your friends.
so talk to this person, and be nice to her.. and if she's nice back maybe she really does want to be friend. you'll never know until you try.
best of luck ♥
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do chrest white strips really work? a few of my friends use them and say they work great.. i know they are expensive but i want to whiten my teeth. also, do you know how long it will take to be noticable? thanks! (link)
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people that i know have used them and they've worked for them but when i used them, they didnt work too swell for me. so i am planning on getting my teeth whitened by the densist, which is also pricey.
but my friend used them, and she loves them. i could tell with in three days. so i'd say give them a try, they give guarantee. http://www.whitestrips.com/en_US/home.jsp?hasGoodBrowser=true
best of luck!
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ok so their is this guy in my school and we have known eachother for like 3 years and we are like best friends almost like borther and sister but i have a problem... i think that i like him and i am really confused about weather i should tell him or not. i dont know if i should because if i do tell him and he doesnt like me back then things will be weird but if he does like me well then idk. please help me! i need to know if i should tell him or if i do what to say? (link)
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well you're good friends, and if you are such good friends, then if you still him and he doesnt like you back he shouldnt let that effect your friendship.
but maybe you should just start to flirt with him a little more, maybe get him to notice that he likes you? bring your friendship to the next level with out really talking to him about it.. and if he's sending you the right messages then talk to him about it and hope that he gives you the responce that you want.
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you're taking forever to answer my question! (link)
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i am so sorry, i just answered though
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There's this kid I like SOO much!!!! I've liked him for a long time. I really don't know what to do. Last time I checked he didn't really think anything of me. I really want him to be my bf but I'm way too scared to ask him to be. His friends will make fun of me or he'll laugh at me. Probably both. Help! (link)
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well first off i am extremely sorry.
you need to start talking to him, get to be good friends with him, as long as with his friends. and get him to be friends with you friends. so you can hang out a lot more.
after a few weeks or a month or so of being good friends, move it up a step. maybe go to the movies with just him, ya know. a date ish thing.
and then if the one on one time goes good, tell him how you feel or maybe he'll talk to you about it first.
but be flirty, let him know he wants you. make him want you :). have fun!
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am i losing you? (link)
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well concidering i dont know who you are.. i can not answer this question.
advicenators is a place for people to come for advice, not to find out if they are losing a friend.
now if you'd like advice on how not to lose a friend.. i can help you with that.
talk to the person you think you're losing online.. not face to face, cause some one might get to shy and not say what they really mean.
if you make plans with them, dont ditch them.
be careful of not making two plans
remember that your old friends are just as important as your new ones, if not more important
make sure you dont make everything about yourself
remember that everyone is not as bright, smart, and friendly as you.
we all dont have the same talents
if you need anymore help, feel free to ask.
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what is the best color/ style of shirt to wear for picture day?
im a 16 year old girl and i have medium/light skin, kind of tan. i have hazel eyes. the background for the photo is a blueish color. what will make me look good? lol please help.
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i wouldnt wearing anyhting with writing on it.. cause in a few year you'll be like wtf. or dont wear anything that's "in" now.. you know? like tye-dye.
plane color shirts or polors with cute jewlry looks really nice.
best of luck!
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16/m
is it normal to jack off to pics of hott chicks?
and do girls think about sex as much as guys do?
oh..and do alot of girls look at porn?
do u look at porn? lol (link)
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wtf is up with all of theses questions.
yes, it's normal for guys to jack off to hott chicks. unless they are gay, the jack off to hott guys.
yes, girls think about sex as much or more as guys do
yes, a lot of girls look at porn
and no i do not.
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haha
yeah there is alot of sex questions
so i guess ill add
im not a virgin but ive never gotten anal before
and ive heard it hurts
should i try?
and i know u couldnt help the girl a little lower down there
but could u give me like 2 tips on how to finger myself??
please please please (link)
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i've never got anal before, but from what i hear . and icould imagen it would hurt. badly. but i guess it just depends on how you are feeling at the moment and how gental the man is. try if you'd like to, it's safer then vag sex.
and i've never fingered my self, so i wouldnt really know any tips. sorry kiddio. just go down there and do what ever feels the best for you.
have fun! ♥
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umm..sumtimes if i get really horny in school i go to the bathroom and finger myself
is that bad?
and i look at porn somtimes..is that bad? (link)
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if you were to read a few down, no fingering is not bad .. but at school? that's just strange. but what ever floats your boat.
and no porn is not bad either. it's all good
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