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Hello, My name is Sierra. I am a high school student. But please dont let that fool you. I've been through more in my life then a teenager should have to. But i've grown and matured from thoes things. I'm open and honest, I love to give advice. I'm a very nice person. I have a wonderful stedy boyfriend whom i love more then anything.
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so me & my boyfriend had sex for the first time last friday. and also saturday. & we used a condom & since it was our first time, we didnt do it too long since he popped my cherry & it hurt the second time. now im wondering if i could be pregnant? we used wasted 3 condoms & filled each with water once we were done with them & there was no hole, so the condom was good. so is there any chance of me being pregnant? i doubt it , but i just want more opinions.
Your very smart for being safe and going the extra mile as to fill them up. And yes there is a chance, But its like VERY close to impossable. Really, Dont worry.
i'm on my period, obviously, and i'm starting to get really bad cramps. i wake up because it really hurts. what are some ways to make it stop hurting? or help ease the pain?
Well medicines such as midol work well, But maybe lost of water and lost of my friends say ice cream helps. But i'm not sure why.
my bf wants to try anal. i thought he was kidding because he always said no, it's gross. i guess not this time. i really don't want to. for so many years of being anemic and constipated from my diet, the idea of a penis being shoved up there.. is not appealing. i've had friends say it's not pleasurable and everything. that it's only good for the guy because it's tight. he 'missed' once and that was a bitch.
so what's your anal experiences? horrible, good? :/
Well first of all, Its all up to you. If your not confortable with it then say no and he better respect that. But here is a very easy way to make it as confortable as possable for you.
First off, Buy anal lube, None other will
Work as well and last as long. And alwassssy
use a condom. Becasue its safer, And because
Without one when he cums he runs the risk
of the sperm runing down into the vigina.
Crazy but possable. Well first ask him to put
A condom on his fingers and lube and put one
Finger inside your anal until its confortable
About for you, And then another one. Take your
Time and do this until your third finger. And then put a condom and lots of lube and try it out
Tell him to go very slow.
Dont let him put it in your vigina after unless you change the condom. It will be unconfortable
For about three times, But belive me, it does
Get better.
my girlfriend and i were having unprotected sex, but i pulled out before i came. i washed my penis and peed after, and then we did it again, but i was wondering if there could be any left on my penis from the first time that i came, which would make her pregnant
PLEASE dont give me crap about "you can get pregnant from precum" because it's completely untrue, anybody with google could tell:
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/0922.html
http://www.corporatemofo.com/stories/021201inandout.htm
http://www.idsnews.com/news/story.aspx?id=33698&comview=1
condoms = 3%
pulling out = 4%
if that's not enough evidence maybe a government website can convince you:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query.fcgi?cmd=Retrieve&db=pubmed&dopt=Abstract&list_uids=12762415&query_hl=9&itool=pubmed_docsum
im not an idiot i did research before we did it
please just answer my question and none of the crap about precum because that's what i got on the other advice websites
I have a couple friends who got pregent on precum alone.
But anyway, No worrys. Because first off you wash then your clean and if you pee, your clean. But also, once spream is exposed to enough air it dies anyway.
i have a very long penis (20 and a half cm) which is good for my girlfriend, but it is also very thin, which is bad for me. I don't feel a lot of pleasure from sex. Is there anything we can do to make either her tighter or me thicker?
Along with certin postions changing the tightness. Tell her about a thing called "kegal" excercises. This is when the women tightens and relaxes her PV muscle (The vagina muscle) Doing this alot tightens her somewhat. And while having sex ask her to tighten the muscle, You'll feel it and it will make things better for her.
Hi,
The condition:
I have a female friend, who commonly wears very revealing clothing. Short shorts, or tops which show cleavage and stomach, etc. It seems a little bit wrong really.
Although I wouldn't want to go out with her, because of her slightly egotistical personality, and way of dressing, I find myself incredibly physically attracted to her, almost to the point of wishing I could seduce her, even though I know it would be a mistake.
So I know that being around a well bodied girl, in a state of scant dress (even though I don't look favourably on the behaviour) causes this reaction for me.
The Question:
Men in short shorts, etc, just seems like an even worse social wrong than women (although there's no real reason that it should be so, apart from that society is sexist).
I would like to know if there is a similar thing happens to women, around men of scant dress, or even simply showing as much arm and leg as they can, without seeming vulgar.
Thanks
It really depends on the girl and what they are into. But the media has made us belive things such as men wearing releaving clothing it more so "gay" then "apealing" Now maybe wearing knee shorts and a fitting shirt might catch the eye of some girls depending on your body status. But for the most part, its really not a noticed feture.
Hope i could help. :]
(I'm just a fast typer, I realized I spelled alot of things wrong but i had to leave so I did not fix it, Thanks for the insult, when all I was trying to do is help.)
On Myyearbook.com i posted on a confession that i was a virgin, and the website said this is potentially innapropriate content, your profile may be deleted and the police may be contacted. the website says they contact the police on pornography and violent threats, do you think the police will be contacted??
PS, i didnt use my real email, or name, location, and i deleted my account right after that message.
I really dont think so. And if they do, I'm sure they'll eaither let it go or just talk to you. Because saying your a virgin is not something innapropreate for the most part. I dont think you should be worried.
Me and my boyfriend just had sex.. and I'm not supposed to get my period for like 2 or 3 weeks. How long do i have to wait to tell if I'm pregnant or not? ..
It depends on the test you buy. If you buy the EPT test then you have to wait till five days before your missed period.
Ok I have a question about girls and there bgf's dating. My best guy friend and i really like each other and care for each other. He can't date but we are kinda 'together' in a way. Like im totally single and can flirt with any guys I want but i think if i got a bf he would be hurt. i dont know anyway 1) how do i get him to show me he cares about me. he has done it subtly before but not as of lately and i know he does but i want him to show me.
2) is it weird when a girl and bgf start dating because he and i have liked each other for so long and he cant date so when he can if we date i think it might just be weird to actually date him after not for so long and all that. we hold hands occasionally and hug and we kissed once and it would be kind of weird to start dating. my friends all say we are perfect for each other and we are a lot a like and they dont care when we flirt cause we do it constantly. everyone at our church says they have known we liked each other ever since meeting us. we are both japanese so everyone always thinks were brother sister and then thinks were dating after we tell them we arent. haha its never awkward but i want more of his attention and i dont really know how to get it so ideas are welcome.
To recap haha:
1) ideas for how to get him to show me he cares about me
2)is it weird for two pple like us to start dating after everything? we act almost like friends with benefits but we have only kissed once and its more than that because we really care about each other and i may flirt with other guys and he flirts with other girls i know he doesnt like another girl and i dont like another guy. also tho i just transferred schools so we wont see each other as often and i do want to date another boy but if i did i would end up cheating on him because my bgf and i are just so close and stuff.
3)how do i get his attention?
thanks so much and i will rate all your helpful advice! ;)
Well maybe try and tell him how you feel. And also when you guys can date, If it feels right just go for it, You know eachother well so you have a better chance of lasting. Remember this,
"Love is friendship on fire"
After i have a shower or get my hair wet..i let it air dry but as its drying it gets all big and poofy and i just cant get straight. I tried straightening it but throughout the day it just gets poofy again. If anyone knows how to make it straight plz tell me.
maybe try buying conditionar for frizzy hair. or maybe relaxers, Like certin gels or creams made to control frizz.
im not so outgoing around some people so what are some ways that i can talk more?
Well i dont know the type of person you are but i know that most people who have trouble opening up to others in conversation is because they are not fully confortable with thier selfs. Try working on loving yourself as much as possable without becoming "cocky" and dont try to hard. One thing in life i learnt that is very healthy and good for you is to love yourself and to always remember to smile. I promise you'll atract more people that way.
Does anybody know any songs about stereotyping? Like how it is bad and it hurts people?
thanks!
I'm not sure if this might be what your looking for but the song "admit it" by (say anything) i belive has something to do with sterotyping.
ok sublime is like one of my FAVORITE bands. what are some relaxing like lower songs by them though?
i listened to one last night with my friend but i dont know what the real song is becuase on his ipod it was seed but i know the song seed and its not that. its a slow song and they have the dogs barking in the begining if that helps. but if you could help me think of the song, or just name song slower, relaxing songs by them i would really appreciate it :) thanks!
That is my favorate band and has been for about five years. The name of that song is "ruca" That was the first song i ever herd by them.
Although Im good at giving good love advice, for some reason I cant help myself. Everytime I like a boy and we start talking, I pick out something about them and lose interest. Why does that happen? Its just I get bored so easily I think, or they start to annoy me, but they dont do anything in particular annoying...I just dont understand.
This used to be my biggest problem. And personally i think it comes with matureaty and loveing yourself. I'm not saying anything about you at all, I know the person you are. But from my experince it was something i grew out of, Not with age, But with maturaity. And also when i not confortable with myself and everything about me, I tend to find things wrong with everyone eles. If you work on excepting yourself. You'll see it comes alot more easy to except other boys for thier little flaws too.
so there's this guy in my class that i like and i was woundering how do i know if he likes me back.
I guess it really all depends on the kind of person he is. Some guys act immature (smacking and being mean) when they like girls. Some get shy, And some flirt alot. Look for any of that stuff and i guess just try to talk to him alot and see if you feel that click for both of you. Then maybe tell him how you feel.
how much effective is morning after pill? is it 99% effective? i heard that the first time, you never get pregnant. is that true?
They are pretty effective. And i cant stress this enough, You can ALWAYS get pregnet, No matter where, When how many times. Always. But i really hope you deside to use a condom. Or get birth control. And if you dont want to, At lest please ask him to pull out, And then take the pill. Dont forget to take it though.
My boyfriend and I have been thinking about having sex. I told him I was going to find out any possible thing that could happen first. I was wondering how long sex generally hurts girls after. If you have any answers that would be great. Thanks.
Now this varys for everyone. On the first time it tends me be unconfortable. But being completely relaxed helps alot. Some girls however find the slight pain pleasurable. Try buying water based lubercation. This will be things soooo much more better and less painful. Just be confortable and slow at first. And use a condom! I'm telling you, Its reallyy not worth it if you dont.
i have a problem, well actually two. so i need some advice asap.
one: with my skin i am prone to get ingrown hairs, VERY easily. it scars and doesn't look very appealing. i dont want this guy to get the wrong idea, its just on my bikini line though. im afraid to shave cus if i do everything ill have ingrown hairs all over down there. so i dont know what to do?!
two: i've been with a two guys before just fingering, and it was abosulutely unpleasurable. i got nothing out of it. and i want to get wiht the guy i like, but i dont want nothing to happen, again..
so if anyone has any ideas on what to do//whats wrong. please let me know..
Honestly, I dont know what to say for your first problem. But for the seond one i guess all i can say is that if you dont want anything to happen with him, Tell him stright out, And if he does not respect that then its his loss. But if you do, Maybe try waiting till you really get confortable with him, And when your completly relaxed and confident about the whole situation. Try kissing alot and touching until you get "excited" alot, Hopefully that will help self-lubercate. But in the event that your still unconfortable, Go buy some lubercation and aply this before to make things alittle more slippery. Ask him to try a bunch of new things, And tell him when he is "hitting the spot" Good luck :]
hey everyone,
well I have a boyfriend and we have sex and all that and I'm always wet and stuff, but I don't know why but my pussy smells weird/bad and I don't like that smell, I always take a shower clean my self and all that, like what is causing that smell? how do I get rid of that smell, I get so embrassed, but he doesn't care, but I do it makes me seem dirty, but I clean myself and shower like everyday (I'm a neat freak) so please help! has it happened to you? help! how do I get rid of this smell?
thanks for the help =]
I've had that same problem. It could be a multiple of things. First off, Think about if he is your first, And if you are his. That way you could add or elimidate the question of an STD. If you think for sure its not an STD then it could just be BV. It is very common in girls, I had it about three weeks ago. If you do have it, You could go to your gyno and get a medicine. Or just buy summers eve cleaning wipes for odor. Use them like three times a day for awhile and you should be fine. Also, Take more bath then showers, Because shower steem can cause bacterial build up, But dont douch or put any water up there. It will only make it worse. Hope it works out for you.