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I'm not in high-school anymore but when I'm in school I don't have a lot of friends. I dress nice and I'm bubbly and easy to get along with I'm strongwilled and don't let people walk all over me but people (mainly girls) make fun of me. From what I know I don't act weird and I like a lot of stuff that other ppl like too but if I try to make friends with the 'preppier' people I feel like they look at me like a freak. My friends and other ppl tell me I'm pretty so I don't think I'm repulsive I do my best to be nice and be myself but it's a constant battle. I do have an anxiety and panic attack disorder but I don't make that obvious. I get really scared to be at school because I'm afraid people are making fun of me. I'm going to college in the spring and though people say it's different I'm still worried. Do I have bad social skills? What's wrong with me? I love making friends of all kinds but it's hard for me what can I do? (link)
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first of all you're caring why too much about what people think of you. which i can understand since i do the same thing. if you're friends tell you that you're pretty and that you're amazing then why would you want to be with the preppier people. It's not that they're laughing at you they laugh at everyone they only see themselves and you pose a threat to their prefection which scares them. Make friends but not with people you can't appricate the fact that you're talking to them.
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i am a fourteen year old girl. So theres this guy in my class that i really like named corey and he likes me too. But i asked him why he wouldnt go out with me he said that every time a girl has said she liked him it was a bet or a joke.Its not though and when i told him that he said that he didnt know if he could beleive me. Like i said i really like this guy and i ned help to get him to trust me. (link)
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you have to understand where his coming from. His brused his alone and scared. Be his friend i know you like him more then just a friend but right now that's all you can be then after you see him trusting you tell him again that you like him. You need to help him heal and then after you can help him love.
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hey guys ...i am 19yrs old girl.i am worried about my future.my cousin brother forced me to have sex when i was 8-9years old.if i dnt do so he use to beat me.he have sex with me 2-3 times but i didnt bleed.he use to lick n play with my pussy until i get menstruation(on 11).now i am worried if my bf got to know m not virgin..i dnt want him to knw since that was not my fault..help me out.do u think my bf will knw??
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Why would it be mad if he found out that you worn't a virgin if you're thinking about uping up to him in a sexual way after all that you've been through that must mean you trust him and love him right? well then he will respect you if you tell him the truth. You shouldn't feel ashamed, what happened happend and it wasn't your fault. I was moulested and there are times when i punish myself for letting it happen but i've come to terms that i just like you was a kid and i didn't know what i should have done. You are an amazing person and you're boyfriend loves you because of that let him know everything about what has happened to you the good and the bad that way when you do have sex it will be the best thing you've ever felt.
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Okay so i have a boyfriend and i understand that spending time apart is just as important as spending time together but he had borrowed his sisters car and i hadnt seen him or spent some quality time with him since wednesday (its saturday) and instead of spending time with me he went to spend time with his friends and driving other people here and there.
My question is should i say somehting to him about how im feeling or should i jus let it go?? (link)
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You love him right? and he loves you? well then you should tell him that it bothers you. But don't be mean when you bring it up and don't get angry just simply ask him why he isn't spending time with you and why he would rather spend time with his friends then be with you. Ask it out of the blue this way you'll get an honest answer. Why? because guys tend to come up with great lies to make you believe that that's what you wanted to hear but after a while you realize that it was all bull, so if you ask him when his not expecting the question he'll give you an answer that will be honest. but before you ask him anything ask yourself first "am i being to clingy?" hope it helps.
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he says daily he loves me but he has a girlfriend. Should I just leave or try to see if he will leave her? (link)
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Sadly as much as it hurts to say this he will never leave her and it's not because you aren't good enough or that she's better then it's because all men are scared. sure they never show it but they don't want to break up with someone because that would be uncomfortable for them. I mean you guys aren't married and yet he's you using you as the other women. His a coward, he doesn't have the guts to break up with his girlfriend for someone that he says he loves. Do you really want to be the other women? i mean you're much better then that. Either leave him or make him choose between you and her.
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