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well this guy likes me and i dont.n he keeps saying sweet things so its sorta hard to tell him how i feel,i leave little hints like ur a real good friend.n so friend how r u?
and his friend is my friend so if i do something bad im scared it will ruin our relationship.
how do i let him down easily but not hurt him?and manage to keep a friendship with the other guy?
i am a girl and i am 15 (link)
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i think you should talk to your other guy friend... the one that you want to keep a good relationship with, and tell him about the one that likes you. ask him if there are any ways to let him down easy. and explain to him how you are feeling. if he is your friend, then he would understand
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so im having girl problems.not with girls but finding a girl 4 me.everygirl i meet im nice 2 them.i treat them with respect and i dont immediatley hit on them because there hot.i think finding a gf 4 me is more than being hot.i look deeper into there personality.for example i like girls who r athletic because im very involved with sports.the physical feature i look most at on a girl r her eyes.i myself have blue greenish eyes.so my question is whats the perfect bf? (link)
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The perfect boyfriend is being yourself.
i am a girl, and i look for guys who accept who they are and like to be themself.
I would say to you, to do just that. You want a girlfriend who likes you for YOU!..and not for somebody you are tryung to be. dont fool her, or lie about things because it will just cause problems later in time.
just wait and have fun with meeting new girls. and she will come one day =]
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tryouts for cheer are in 2 months. any suggestions? (link)
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Be confident. have you been on a cheerleading squad before.? If you have then just use the knowledge you already know. And you know the energy it takes... so apply it to your try out day..good luck =] and smile
sometimes even if you dont know the material, and you smile, the judges will see that you can carry yourself in tough situations. you can always review and practice the material..but how will they ever know if you can handle yourself infront of a crowd? act like you know what you are doing..even if its wrong.
if you havent been on a cheer team before, just pay attention to everything. learn what its about and what it takes to be on a team. maybe some flexibility and being able to present yourself infront of people. have any friends that are cheerleaders. maybe they can also help
=]
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ok so me and this guy have been talking for a while and the other day i found out that all this time ive been the other girl...he has this "love", but when he talks to me its like he forgets her and is paying attention to me. i love it, but when he says oh i love her on her profile...i cant tell if its me...wat should i so? (link)
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have you talked to him about how you feel? it is awkward but if it seems like he likes you then definitly ask him what he thinks. call him out on that other girl. But be nice about it. and just find out who she is.. like if they are best friends or something. if you feel like you know him enough, then ask him what he thinks of you.
You are beautiful and funny as hell.
and if he cant see that and is being a jerk about it, then let him be. he might just be those guys who just like action and talking to alot of girls.
and you cant let that get to you. so watch out.
tell me more about it.
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is sex any fun
cuz from what ive heard its pretty good
haha
yea im pretty bored (link)
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um okay haha well thats like me asking if coke tastes good. its good for some people. and for others its not. so i cant really help you out. sorry. but id be happy to help you out with whatever problems happen after you encounter sex. and then you can tell me how you liked it.
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does getting fingered hurt?
i know it depends on the person so don't say that, im asking if it does for you.
also how long does a guy usually do it for?
thanks (link)
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it really depends on so many things.. if you have fingered yourself then you know the feeling of something entering in.
Also, guys tend to have bigger hands then girls.
so 2 fingers for a guy is probably not what your used to.
if you have tried touching yourself, and its uncomfortable, then chances are, having a guy do it, wont feel so good.
a guy should start off slowly and if u like it then tell him but once it hurts let him know so that it can feel good for u. any other questions. ask me
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Im getting braces in like a month and I pretty much dont know anything about them. like how many different kinds are there and colors and what you do to take of them??- (link)
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lol okay well i just got my braces OFF on march 24 =] when i first got them on, it did hurt a little..but it doesnt hurt while they were putting them on. it hurt because the pressure was making my teeth really sore.. which is what is going to happen to you. but its only like that for less then a week. soon it will feel like nothing. your mouth will get sore usually when you go to get them tightend also...
they will tell u to not drink soda or chew gum.. but seriously i did that.. and my teeth came out fine lol
but LISTEN to everything they say about the rubberbands, if not it will delay. and you will get your braces off late
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I met this guy at a school basketball game and the moment i saw him i fell head over heels for him. We exchanged numbers and sn's. We started talking more and more, to the point we were up until like four in the morning. finally, he confessed that he was in LOVE with me...but he has a girlfriend. He says he's not happy with her and he's told me that he loves me. However, he claims he can't break up with her for "social" reasons. HE's super sweet and amazing. And he's asking me to wait for him, for how long i have no idea. He expexts me to be single and satisfied with text messages and im's, but only waves when he sees me....what do I do? (link)
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well, you want him to be single..
and he's not
so he should be a little more flexible on what he is telling you to be.
i think that if he really liked you, he would break it off with his girlfriend.. and what are those social reasons exactly?
he shouldnt care about what people would think of him. As long as he is nice and does the right thing, he should be able to do whatever he wants.
ask him if he really likes you..
and tell him how you feel.
also, you have the right to like other guys. and if he has a problem with that.. then he would know how you feel, right?
exactly lol
tell me how everything goes
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I'm a junior in high school and like I dont know .. things have been getting really confusing. so here it goes .. ok so I've liked this guy for a while now. we never talked. but both I and my friends believed that I did have a chance with him because we did catch him checking me out many times and trying to like make eye contact with me. and like on valentines I gave him a card that just said happy love day. he totally like rejected me and it weirded me out. he talked junk about me to my friend. and I thought it was rude that he could have just tole me himself that he didnt like me. because like I didnt even know him ... and it wasnt like I told him I liked him or anything. so a few weeks went buy and I kinda moved on .. seeing him every once in a while and it meaning nothing to me. so like a week ago he started talking to me. I noticed it more and more that we'd look at each other and I think I'm falling for him again. Even though I know that I shouldn't because all the stuff he did to me even when I didn't know him personally. I dont say hi and stuff to him because I know it will be awkward. but I do occasionally talk to him in class. I act like myself and I wont be anything that I am not .. so it's not like he could think that I am fake. I guess I like him .. but I dont know how he feels anymore. any suggestions? (link)
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well my suggustion would be to play it nice like nothing happened and start over i guess
Maybe his friends were just saying stuff and he was going along with it...[u know how guys can be]
and then, when you feel like you know him enough.. ask him why he was talking junk. but most of all, act like you dont have feelings for him. be smart in the way you think, and make yourself seem hard to get.
when u get to know each other, and he is being a jerk, then he is really not worth your time. tell me what happens. =]
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ok so basically i'm confused because first off, i liked this guy for a pretty long time and i like him but after he found out he promised he would not break my heart but he did so it made me miserable so i got over him. i thought i was over him but i don't know cause when i saw him with another girl who he wasn't dating, i felt a little jealous. so i don't know if i still like him or have some feelings for him. i'm trying to move on with this guy i like right now. so i seriously don't know what to do. so yeah, thank you. (link)
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i hate it when that happens! ok first off, he broke your heart.. has he talked to you since then? if not then i think you are focusing too much on him. its very hard to try and not like someone when you really do.
its painful and sometimes its all you can think about.
but if he isnt talking to you... you can maybe try talking to him again.. and "start over"...like just try to be friends =]
if he doesnt want to try to make things better then he isnt worth your time..
pls write back and tell me more about the story
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so i'm in highschool, this guy, i've liked him for a while now. but i'm too shy to go up and talk to him even though he comes up and talks to me. what should i do? (link)
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ok well this guy is comming up to talk to you.. that might mean that he is trying to get to know about you more. so dont stop that from happening. you may be shy but if you like him, dont make him feel like you dont want to talk to him. You know? so if he starts a conversation, get to know him, and see what happens from there. get comfortable with talking to him and it might make you less shy to talk or be around him. get the hard part over with lol.
anything else? send me another message =]
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so, i like this guy. he seems like the perfect guy. but like i started talking to him a few days ago. he tlaks to me at the most randomest times and he seems nice. i like him but i don't know if he likes me. i can't tell because its very vague. he flirts with other girls so i'm not sure. and i think he knows i like him. so what should i do about that? should i talk to him more or what? thank you love. (link)
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okay so you like this guy. lol if he is talking to you at the most randomest times then maybe he is just trying to talk to you. think about it, it may be random but thats his way of flirting. when you catch him alone without other girls around him, use that time to talk to him. if you are pretty close friends then ask him out to a movie...
if that is too nerv wracking then definitly get to know him more. set time aside and plan out when you two can talk.
if you are unsure then talk to him about how you feel.
most important is to be yourself. if he doesnt see something soon give him a chance to notice. but dont be too forward with your actions. you want to make a lasting impression that is good. so that he NOTICES
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ah so i guess i like this guy and today i found out he liked some other girl, should i still pursue it or sit back and watch them pursue a relationship? (link)
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ok well..
does he know you like him?
if so then play it off like its not the end of the world
..you might feel so horrible. but the way you present yourself says it all.
just remember when you walk pass him...
dont look down or look sad. although u may feel sad and hurt, dont let it show.
if there is something in you that he is not seeing.. make sure you let it show before he hooks up and your feelings are hurt.
and if he doesnt seem to notice then he probably isnt worth your time.
if he doesnt know that you like him, then maybe you should take it a step farther.
tell him how you feel without being too forward.
at least you are taking the initiative to talk to him and he might feel the same way
you never know
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Ok, I'll start off by saying I'm in college and I've only really had one real relationship in college that lasted about 6 months. There's this girl across the room in class that I think keeps looking at me and I think is really cute and nice, but we never seem to make eye contact (we have a couple times though). She doesn't have facebook or myspace, so I cant tell if she has a boyfriend or not and I'm too shy to just go up and talk to her. I found out though that she's graduating in May (I'm here for another year), so I have 2 problems; I dont really know what to say to her or how to approach her. And time is of the essence, because I really want to talk to her before she leaves to see if something comes of it. How can I just go up and approach her? What would you like for me to do from a girl's perspective? Thanks (link)
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well in my opinion,i think you should make up an excuse to talk to her. Like next time you see her, ask her what's for homework to start a conversation with her during class. cause from a girl's vision, maybe she is also scared of making a conversation with you so she wants you to make the first impression.
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does anyone know of a quick way i can get my hair to grow back its so shortt i hate it some one please help! (link)
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well you cant really get your hair to grow back faster.. so while your hair is length, why dont you try somthing new that you dont normally do. look in magazines of people who have hair about your legnth and see if theres anything you may like...
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what is your opinion on love. do u think it's possibe to love someone in under a week? (link)
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have you known this someone for a really long time? or have you only for a week?
if it were a week, then im not sure if the feeling is love. my opinion would be to wait.
if for instance you knew the person for a long time like as friends and you are now going out. it could be possible to fall in love after being with that person for just a week because of past relations. you may have been friends before and really know about that person.
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how can i make friends? i dont have a lot and my dad wants me to make more.. and so do i. so yeah thanksss =] (link)
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everyone has their own way.. but you can make friends by just simply going out of your confort zone. or even just being nice. but be yourself because you want frinds who like you for who you are. depending on your personality, it can draw a different crowd. like if your sarcastic or athletic or like to play video games. meet new people by trying new things. join clubs, try out for something at school, or find/talk to people you think may have the same interests as you. build confidence.
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I'm looking to find some new bands to listen to and I've been listening to more rock lately.
19/M
I like
Type O Negative
Rammstein
the most
No Nickleback or emo please.
My friend suggested Slipknot, but I'm looking for music that doesn't scream all of the time. Yelling is OK, but screaming is annoying. I'm not looking for rock where the artists try to sound tough with their voices. I prefer hard electric guitars and drums to somebody screaming.
I know most of you are girls, but any rock suggestions are appreciated. Perhaps you can ask your boyfriends if you don't know of any.
-Krupple. (link)
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i know what u mean... look up dragonforce. they are really good and the guitar is really awesome..
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my brother does guitar class in highschool
so we have a guitar
but i was wondering if anyone knows like a webiste
that i can learn how to play is online
instead of learning from someone inperson
i learn better from reading something
then from someone telling me it
if anyone knows a site
tell me!!! (link)
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ok. my favorite site is ultimateguitar.com
type in a song for instance and it should bring up different things on the song.. like a solo piece... or just the intro..
you can look at the ratings to see if other people agree with the tab..
:] message me for other questions..
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ok so im gonna get my cartilage pierced at Claires tomorro for my birthday..They pierces it with a gun and i heard that bad..but how bad is it what will happen if its done with a gun?? (link)
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truly if its done by a gun, it goes by a lot faster. at first it kind of looks scary because yeah.. it just does.. but trust me. its the fastest way and probably the most less painful. also its good because they sterilize it.. so they arent touching it with their fingers and all that.
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