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hey..i'm headed to High School in a week..9th grade..in a few advanced classes..bio,geometry..spansish..etc..anyways..
what are some things that are a must have for high school? like as far as notebooks,folders..?stuff like that..
also..i'm very unorganized when it comes to my school papers and such..so plz keep that in mind when thinking of things i should buy..
thanx a bunch..

i no excately what u mean... ok first thing is an accordin folder. they are absolutley esstenial for advanced classes! number two is a ti-83+ calculator for math cus thur really really convinant. make sure you carry around a few extra dividers and always have a planner on hand. for spanish its obvious to have a dictorany- so i hope i helped! ~nyladi~

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

gurl im 14 too n i havent "liked" liked one guy yet... so dunt b frettin ~nyladi~

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i've been playing the guitar for almost 2 years now and i'm pretty good at it... my friends want to start a band but they need a bass player... i was thinking about becoming a bass player. has anyone here played guitar and then started playing bass? is there a big difference? how hard is it to play? and how badly will i get calisis on my fingers?

my dads been playin bass for 40 sumwhat years or watever... bass is alot like guitar, but it only has the lower notes on austic. bass has four strings (witch you prolly no) n also u havefta have a good ear to hear all the bass notes in songs (unless you get the musik) the difference is noticeable, but if you know the notes on the guitar, youll b fine at bass. itll b a challenge but the bass roxz. hope i helped ~nyladi~

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I am going back to school shoppin in 4 hours, and I want to know what stores are cool for this season. canadians please answer, because whenever i get advice from the usa, in canada, we don't have the stores you guys suggest! like macys or sephoras, as much as I'd like to shop there!

it all depends on ur style... but the main stores r all the preppy ones like pacsun, abercrombie, american eagle n stuff- but if ur lookin fur a cheaper way, go to jcpenny's or kaufmens, they got good clothes fur good prices ~nyladii~

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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever. i want to have a BIG 16th birthday ( im 15 ) my birthdays in july. What should i do? I dont want to have a pool party or anything. But can you give me some ideas..like where to go..if i should stay at home and invite people over or where to have it. ( if youve already had ur 16th birthday reply! ) but if you havent thats alright lol. thanks

if i wur u, i wuld go out clubbin (thurs teen nites at sum places... u can get vip treatment if u call earlier too) then go midnite bowlin wit a bunch of friends... if u got the cash rent a limo to do the travelin but if not thurs always car poolin, hope ive helped ~nyladi~

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ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared

wow this is sum serious stuff. first, TELL UR MOM. that is the most important thing. next, contact a center that can help u with this bc it sounds like ur in a state of depression. third contact the police. think about it... wat if your not the only person hes done this too?! you need to get this guy out of here bc i know i wouldnt want him touchin my hair... n i mean do this rite now... so i hope u have the phone n ur hand. go!

p.s. its 100% illegal

~nyladii~

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okay so i knoe how to kisss but ive never realy made out with a guy... so idk wut to do when i make out? where do i put like my hands? and how do i bring up the subject that i wanna make out with a guy?

it jus kinda cums... it hasta b the rite moment n u jus no wat to do. the only thing i havefta say is dont b too agressive... or else ur first make-out session il sux. hope i helped

~nyladi~

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my friend has liked this guy for a while, they were going out for like 6 months and they broke up in april every since, shes liked him since then and he still likes her too, but her friend from penfield (cute guy) she likes him a little too, so lastnight he told her that he liked her and asked her out, and she doesnt know what to do cuz shes been waiting for the other guy for months, and she really likes both of them

ight... the first thing that came ta my mind wus who dumped who, cus if he dumped u, u dunt want him to break ur heart again. second thing, is if u have already gone out with this guy before and it didnt work out, why would it work out for the second time? i get that its hard to get over someone that u once liked n stuf, but this penfield guy is givin u a new chance to start sumthin u havent had yet. so my opinion is go wit the one who ur sure wants to go out with yah, that way u know ur not losing somthing that could b realy realy special

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