yo my name is Laura. you may wonder why my username is missweiner...well if you must know my last name is Weiner... and since its such a horrible name i try to make the best out of it and make a joke over it. I live right outside of Philly in a little place called Abington. I wont say how old i am but i will tell you that i am a Sagittarius (Nov 22 - Dec 21) - A fire sign represented by the archer, Sagittarius symbolizes directedness and high aims. Sagittarians are optimistic, straightforward and intellectual. However, they can also be careless, irresponsible and tactless.
thats definatly like me... i'm a pretty nice person but when i get upset its really hard for me cuz i can flip out pretty easily. but if u met me and didnt know me you would think that i was pretty happy with everything, but see i may have depression... if so im getting treated soon.
Please ask me anything and everything...and dont be ashamed. every question is worth asking. But be warned i dont bullshit... so if you want the truth...this is the advice column for you! i understand a lot more than ud think i do...plus i like to know about other peoples problems so i know that im not alone. ud be surprised how nice it is to talk 2 someone uve never met!
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is it possible to gain breast tissue through pills or creams (link)
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NO NO NO NO NO... oh and did i say NO? there is no way in hell that works....the media is bullshit dont listen to them. the only way youll ever develop for tit is from goin thru puberty or implants...or you could gain some weight??? but just remember guys dont always look for breast.... many surveys have showed that guys find girls with nice legs more attractive than a big chest... so no worries.... besides most really sexy models have small chests... i have a big chest and a lot of my friends dont but thats okay b/c everyone has something thats awsome about themselves... you just need to find it. youll grow tits eventually no worries babes ;-D!
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Ok sorry that this is long but please don't pass over it I really need help.
My parents aren't divorced but they both cheat on each other they basically both get with anything that moves of the opposite sex. My dad is always drunk and is very abusive. My mom isn't physically abusive but she just tells me that I'm a waste of life and that she wishes she never had me and that I'm such a huge mistake and bla, bla, bla but her boyfriend Tom hits me all the time and even rapes me sometimes. I've gone to the police before and they took my parents side because to everyone else they look like such nice people. But at night they're druggies and alcoholics. I even went to social sevices they put me in a home for a week where I started cutting and then they put me right back with them! Lately I met a guy who uses drugs and I've been going out with him. And we were using and did some things and now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. He was arrested for possesion so I can't go to him. I can't go to my parents. I really don't have any friends who aren't stoners and all they care about is how they're going to get their next fix. I don't know what to do. I've already tried killing myself and it didn't work. I'm soo scared I don't know what to do. I was going to run away but I know that I'll just end up somewhere where there's drugs and I'm really trying to stop. What can I do about all of this? Please help me (link)
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what you need to do is take a deep breath first... im like almost crying because even thought i dont go throught that much shit... i know how you feel. all my friends just found out that i cut and i know how it feels to ache inside... this is such a tought situation for you... and im not sure how to respond... but all i can say is that you should try talking to someone in school. or but do not kill yourslef because someone else hurt you... for all the people that dont like you... there are 100 more people who would cry their brains out if you died!
you should IM me sometime and tell me the rest of this... check out my advice column... ur not alone believe me... IM me sometime
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it's that time of the month again for me and i had a question about tampons. i use them all the time, but they always seem to leak so i have to wear a pad with them too. i would get bigger sizes, but they're too big for me. well i'm on the track team at my school and we hafta wear runderwear, bun huggers, whatever you call them, and a pad is too obvious, so do u have any suggestions on how to get my tampon to stop leaking? thanks so much - i rate! p.s. if this helps i use tampax pearl (link)
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hmmm thats tought... i know how that is b/c mine dont leak... i need reg/to super.... but i have a small set body so its tough...did you ever think about getting slim superabsorbant tampons? like tha kinda that absorb A LOT but are skinny... or slim reg. or just regular? or maybe you could keep wearing the kind your wearing now and put on a pantiliner???b/c they wont show through... i hope of was some helpp!
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15/f- I want to go on the birth control pills called Seasonale because they give you a longer cycle so that you have fewer periods a year, who wouldn't want that, right? well...my mom won't let me get them because she says i'm too young...and then she started giving me excuses such as "the doctor doesn't perscribe birth control unless you're sexually active" well...if i were sexually active, wouldn't i have wanted the pills BEFOREHAND anyway??? and i was under the impression that sometimes birth control is percribed to those with irregular periods to help regulate them. so, was my mom correct? and if she wasn't, how can i convince her to let me get seasonale? thanks! (link)
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your reasons for wanting birth control are amaizing! i cant believe i never thought of that! tampons ARE hard to use... its scary hahahahaha...but yea i have no clue if thats the truth that doctors only perscribe birth control for sexually active girls... but u could ask??? i could understand where your mom is coming from because the way it sounds sounds pretty skanky...but its still an amaizing idea... because the truth is...periods are a pain in the ass! so talk to your doctor and ask.... dont be scared... doctors are there to answer your questions...just like i am... and if your doctor has benificial information that could convince your mom, thats great! i say you go to the doctor on your own time... your mom wont take you? have another close ( and younger ) adult take you that udnerstands.. no worrys your ideas are awsome!
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I have had my heart broken alot. Since my ex (which was ended about 9 months or more ago) I still haven't moved on. Now I have someone I really like that likes me. I want to be with him I am just scared I will be hurt again.. Should I trust him?
He is a wonderful guy and really gorgeous. I am just afraid to give my heart to someone again and then it be handed back broken. (link)
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are you able to trust yourself enuough to be vulnerable.... you dont want to be paranoid but you also dont wanna give it up to easy... it does hurt. well since you ended 9 flippin months ago with your exx i would think you should be able to move on ( unless it was ReALLLY serious)... if you dont trust yourself... than than you cant trust another... but if this guy is as wonderful as you say he is... he will be there and he will make you feel as beautiful and amaizing as u really are
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do you think its possible to acctually fall in true love in the 7th grade? i know everyone always says you dont find love until youre older, but i think ive found the perfect person. seriously... if someone asked me to change somethinmg about him, i would say no, he needs no changing. ive gone out with him three times and all three times we broke up for stupid reasons. hes always there for me, and always makes me feel like the smartest, prettiest, most unique person in the planet. he is willing to listen to my views on things, and trys really ard to make me happy. he is artistic, yet hes also a football player. hes really hot but i SWEAR thats not why i love him. well, i think you get my point so ill be quiet now. Tell me what you think! thanks - i rate high unless your response really sucks. (link)
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i DEFINATLY think its possible... just ask yourslef why you broke up in the first place? this guy sounds amaizing and ur a really girl to have found someone that great... i have an amaizing bf too... but im not sure if its love... that could just be the depression talking.... dont forget that you should NEVER EVER EVER settle for anything less than your worth
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is masterbation a sin? if so then how do i stop? (link)
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well... i dont think it's a sin... it's sorta gross though haha... if ur a guy i expect you to do it...but if yur a girl well i guess its okay because its ur buinsess wut yur stickin urself with... but no its not a sin... but i still think its a little gross
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How can I get this guy I like in jr.high that is 12-13 to notice me even though he says he does not like me? (link)
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do u have tits? wear a low cut shirt or sumthing haha... or u know what helps? talking to him? what kinda stuff does he like? example; say he loves sports... ask him what his favorite sports team is and...( guy
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There's a guy-let's call him Rick. Rick and my brother, Tim, are friends and after Rick found out that i was Tim's little sister (he's a senior and i'm a soph.- "rick" is a junior) he started like yelling hi to me and all that jazz. Today, my brother's other friend asked if i knew Rick and I said yeah, and he said that we should hang out sometime. So here's my question. I'm not sure if this is like a joke or something- like saying hi to your friend's little sister. So my question is, does he like me or is he just messing around?
ps..Soo on saturday i went to the icecream store that I guess he works at and he gave my friend and I free icecream. (link)
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he gave u free icecream? unless hes a major asshole,which i doubt, hes smitten over u!
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