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Hello, stranger reading my page.
I don't get on here that much, mostly when I need advice, and then I scroll through and come across other good questions.
I'm 19. Trying to get into nursing school.
I live with my boyfriend. I love animals.
I have a 55 gallon saltwater aquarium.
E-mail: midnightxxheart07@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Indiana
Occupation: bein a ninja
Age: 20
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how do you give one?? (link)
midnightxxheart07@hotmail.com
you cant say that kinda stuff on here
so e-mail me



i just lost my virginity sunday 4, 2009.
and my boyfriend and i were going to do it again maybe this week or next weekend.
the first time i was on bottom. the second time, will it hurt as bad as it did the first time? and should he be on bottom or top? [im just wanting a way for less pain.] and i heard that it takes around 3 times maybe for it to not hurt anymore. help? (link)
My first time didnt hurt at all. and neither did my second or third[with the same person] they guy im with now the first time we did it, it didnt hurt but the second time it hurt soo badly it just depends on how hard youre doing it. If it starts to hurt tell him to be more gentle he will understand.
Be safe.
use a condom.
trust me more than likely youll get pregnate if you dont.


ok well i dont know what to do. i have a crush on this guy and we've been talking and then he told me he had a girlfriend. but im not giving up, and the more we talk the more i like him.

but the thing is since he has a girlfriend we cant really hang out because im not that kind of girl to do that to someone. but then yesterday he was like i talk to a lot of girls and i was like ok. and he was leading me on because he told he thought i was cute (he said your pretty damn cute) and that if he didnt have a girlfriend he would ask me to hang. and again he was hinting that he would ask to hang out if he was single. that was his answer to my question, do you like me alittle? because i told him i had alittle crush on him. and then we were talking about my school (because i go to a different school, all girls but totally not a lesbian) and i told him i wouldnt pay attention if guys were there because i would be daydreaming. and he was like who would you daydream about? and i said some like hot actors and he was like am i included in this.

and then he was like maybe you can teach me to snowboard sometime because im good and he doesnt know how too. but am i taking these signs wrong or is he just saying this stuff for fun?

i guess i just want to know what to do, he has a gf but like thats why i idk if he likes me and stuff????

i just dont know if i should even try or should i just not even go there. or any advice will help in this situation. (link)
Yeah, he totally likes you. what to do about it is harder though. it just depends on how close they are. if theyre not very close then i would continure to talk to him and like get him to like you more. and dont hide youre feelings, tell him. if he has feelings for you, he eventually will want to be with you.


ok this is a pretty embarrasing but i have to say it to ask the question so bare with me please lol..i have fingered myself before but i dont see where it feels good at all unless you are messing with your clitoris...where does all the sensation come from when a mans penis goes in and out when to me that doesnt really feel good...is it just me or am i mistaking how it works?? Any help is appreciated (except for calling me retarded):D thanks all (link)
well your retarded. Just kidding=]. i used to wonder the same thing so i know the position your in. well now that ive had sex i can awnser this. for one thing i can never get myself as wet as a guy can get me. you also feel your own fingers so it also wouldnt feel as good as another person doing it for you.like if you touch your arm it feels different than someone else. and your fingers are not as big as a guys penis and guy can get his penis in you alot farther than you can do yourself. Trust me, it feels good. I hope i helped and the sex will be better if its with someone you really care about. I hope i helped



Tiffany.


I recently started stretching my ears. I'm at a 4G right now, and I baught 2's that I'm going to put in after I heal.
No one I really know has ever done this, so I was wondering if the pain I'm feeling is normal, I'm pretty sure it is, but it's like, when I do my left ear, the complete left side of my body tingles and is in pain. I put antibacterial cream all over the tapers and all over my ear before I started stretching. Was that a good idea?
And also, I'm in a nursing class and we have to put in clinical hours starting somewhere around the end of January, if I take my plugs out, will I be able to regain the shape in my ear? I heard that once you go to a zero, you can't get your shape back, but if you're smaller than a zero than you're in the clear. True?

Thanks. (link)
well i have never gauged my ears that big
but you see when i was little i wore huge dangly earrings so they streched out.
i could with no effort randomly put 14 gauges through my ear
I gauged my already streched ears to a ten
and they fell out or i woulda gone bigger
but scince i lost them they healed up
and now my ears are smaller than they were before.
so I think theyll heal up but it will take some time.
unless you have them in for a very long time at zeros and cant make em any bigger,
like idk how to explain it but like if you want it to heal up then dont let double zeros heal to be smooth flesh.
and antibacterial cram is a good idea
still use it when you take then out
to help with the scarring.

hope i helped=]
15/f


i stared reading them. and i finished both of them in less then a week. and does anyone know if richelle mead is writing a third? someone please say yes! im totally addicted to that series. (link)
Hmm Im not sure. but i read the first and I liked it
my computers messin up cause i checked her site but nothing but the home page would load right.





so yeah here you are.



http://www.richellemead.com/blog/index.htm


what something that really turns a guy on in a girl? and i'm not tlking like totaly sexually,,but like something cute and hot that they do to flirt?
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Well I am a girl. But every guy is different, so ever one is going to give you a different awnser. Every guy has different opinions and personalities so yea.


All are vegetarian
Reincarnation & rebirth are the same.
Buddha beat himself.
Buddhists worship Buddha.
all Buddhists are monks

what are the truths to these myths? (link)
no
vegetarian means you dont eat meat.
Im veg, im not buddhist.
reincarnation means after you die your a different animal or person.


hi im 15/usa
and i like two guys. one goes to my school and the other lives far away...way too far away, over a thousand miles.
the one guy at school is really nice, but he isnt as outgoing as i think he is. he's really shy, but is super nice, nice personality. but i'm really talkative...so i dont know. and he knows i like him, but we both dont know each other very well, i guess thts part of the problem. and we dont get to see each other at school that much, and to tell the truth im not sure if he likes me all that much because he doesnt seem to exactly..come to me at school or he doesnt have myspace or aim, so i want to get to know him better, as friends at least. any ideas? and he lives close to me.
and the other guy lives very far away, but ive talked to him on myspace..etc and hes adorable, but i dont think there is even a point to get involved, too far away and long distace relationships dont work, but it's hard to get him off my mind. please help me with these guy problems!
**ohh, and how do you get a guy to shave off his beard?
thanks :] (link)
I think you shoudl go with whatever boy makes you the happiest. If you and the boy from your school both have cell phones, get his number and text, if not just try and hang out with him a little more at school.And as for the long distance guy.. A long distance relationship will be very hard My boyfriend is long distance too and weve been togehter for three months so it is possible to do. You have to be very...Commited. If not or he's not It probably wont work out If you like him so much, get his phone number if you dont trust him much about that, get his number and call him private so he wont see your number until you can trust him to have it. and if your parents will throw a fit about the call from out of state--then when he callls you make him call you private.well hope i helped=] good luck


15/f
Well I used to be kinda boyish..I didn't give a shit about the way I looked, but over the last 4 months I've pulled myself together, and started caring.
I usually wear nice jeans with vans or converse but then a nice top and a jacket..and some jewelry.
But now I'm a bit lost and I was wondering, what type of shirts/tops could I wear, with what kind of jewelry.
Some pictures would be nice.
Thankyou :) (link)
I dont really know your style but vans and converse sounds punkish. Go to a hot topic. They have some really cute clothes. and not all of them are band shirts i promise. If your more on teh girly side then you could go to hollister, or american eagle. Sorry if im not much help I dont really know your interests and stuff so yeah I tried.


I'm 13 and about 5'4" and about 120 pounds. I have friends that are 100-105, so I know it wouldnt be unhealthy to lose 15-20 pounds. Are there ways to quickly and safely lose weight that have been affective? (link)
Hun, you dont need to loose wheight. I'm 14, 130 pounds and exactly five foot tall. Did you ever think theyre underwheight? These girls might not be as tall as you either. But if you really wanna loose wheight, just try to lay off drinking soda and drink water ALOT. You could try going on walks and then try jogging and then get to where you could run. that will help. And one thing witch most people don't try. Turn Vegetarian. I've been veg. for a few months and ive lost around 13 pounds. When I decided to I wasnt even attempting to loose wheight either.I know it sounds a bit extreme but once your used to it its not hard at all. Oh, and if you do turn veg, make sure to take a multivitiman or you wont get enough protein and your immune system will become weak and you can get sick. hope i helped.


I was playing Guitar Hero (Legends of Rock) the other day, and I really liked the song that was playing in the background on the main menu screen. It wasn't 'paint it black', but the other one. Does anybody know the name of the song?
Thanks! (link)
Hmm.. I havent played that game in a little while
but I know they play ''Before I Forget'' by Slipknot on the main menu screen. I'm pretty sure thats it.=]


how do i get my girl to have a threesome, we are real confortable with each other and everything but i am ready to go farther and i think she is too but idk how to get her to have it and i want it to be with one of her friends but idk how to do that either i am 16 in 10th and she is 16 in 9th i would like some help thanks and no one really has to answer this (link)
Well, you can try to talk her into it but i'm a girl and I know how I and my friends can be. Girls get jealous. She might want you all to herself. or she could end up feeling like she's not good enough to pleasure you.She might be really straight and think that would be nasty. Try talking to her about it and if she says no then you probably cant change her mind.




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