Hey everybody! I love to help people and I've been the designated advice-giver amongst my friends for years so I've gotten pretty good at it. If I haven't been through it, I know someone who has, so feel free to ask me anything! I just wish I had known about this site when I was younger and needed more advice of my own.
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i had sex yesterday without a condom. but i had just gotten off my period about 5 or 6 hours before, and he didnt cum. (we were interrupted)
is it still possible that i could get pregnant? (link)
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The simple answer is yes, there is a chance you could get pregnant.
It doesn't matter when you have your period. You can get pregnant before, during or after your period. During your period, the chances of pregnancy are lower, but still existent. The truth is that there is no predictable time during the month when the risk of pregnancy can be said to be absent.
Also, even before the man finishes, there is "pre-cum." That is the clear liquid that comes out during sex. Although it is a small amount, you should always use protection because you can still get pregnant and contract STDs from it.
If at all possible, you may want to go to a Planned Parenthood. They can give you more information and there is also a pill called Plan B that will prevent pregnancy if taken within 48 hours of sex. You could also get on birth control for the future. They offer it at little to no cost to those who qualify.
I hope I'm not making you nervous. The chance is probably small that you are pregnant, but I figure it is better to be safe than sorry!
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ok so yesterday i took my pill on time and i had unprotected sex but this morning i took my pill 3 hours late could that increase the chances of me being pregnant from yesterday? (link)
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You can miss one pill and as long as you take it by the next day you don't need to use a back up method. It is a good idea to take it around the same time everyday but three hours should not make any difference.
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18 years old female, will be turning 19 in a couple of months.
i'm pretty outgoing, i love meeting new people, i think i am pretty which makes me confident, but not cocky. alot of guys always like me but i never like them back. and if i do have feelings for them too, i push them away. maybe it is because i'm scared to be in a relationship but i am picky, so it's hard for me to find someone i like, and who likes me back. i'm still a virgin, and proud of that and i know it's not a factor in me being single my whole life. my brother is 21 and getting married in a year, and is always making fun of me how i'm going to be single my whole life and i'm never going to find anyone and my parents laugh about it? which makes me feel down on myself, and makes me give up hope. my WHOLE family always bugs me and when i see them they always ask, "have a boyfriend yet?" which gets annoying beyond belief. i am a freshman in college, but i commute and i'm not into the whole "partying" thing, and i don't trust college guys, i've heard some of my friends say that 4 guys have said "we're not looking for a relationship, it's college!!" which makes me not want to trust them. also i just come here for school and go home, since its 30 minutes away. i know people say, you're 18 you have your whole life but i don't want to be a 30 year old, having their first boyfriend you know. i've always dreamed of like having kids when i was around 23-25, and now i feel like i'll never find anyone and everything will be thrown off... i am scared to like get physical with a guy, even kiss a guy which could also be a factor in me not having a boyfriend. i think people think so highly of me(sorry not to sound conceded), and think i've done all this stuff with guys because they all think i'm so pretty and then they try to get with me and i'm like ahhhh!! don't know what to do. i'm just really depressed about this, i've always thought about it since i was a freshman in high school. (link)
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Long answer, sorry. :)
First of all, a lot of people haven't had a boyfriend at your age. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was a sophomore in college. Now I am 26 and have only had two serious boyfriends. I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years.
Maybe you should try going on dates with some guys. You don't have to make them your boyfriend right away, just hang out with them as friends. Being picky isn't a bad thing. It just means you know what you want. You are way ahead of people much older than you in that respect. However, you'll never get to know anyone if you don't give them a chance.
If you are worried about the physical stuff then stick to group dates or stay in public places at first. That will keep the pressure off you. It's true that a lot of college guys are only after one thing, but that's not true about all of them. You seem smart so I think you'll be able to tell the difference.
Try not to put your life on a time line. Saying "I want to be married by 22 and I want to have kids by 23" puts a lot of pressure on yourself. You may end up settling for someone because you want to meet your deadlines. I had a friend that did that and now she is pregnant and in an unhappy marriage. People are getting married and having kids much later in life now. We live so much longer so it doesn't have to be a race.
As far as your family goes, I think you need to tell them that their comments bother you. Tell them it is annoying, rude and makes you feel bad. If they love you and want you to be happy they should respect how you choose to live your life.
I've always found it is when you stop looking for a guy and stop worrying about it that things start to fall into place.
Sorry this is so long. Feel free to write if you want to talk more.
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i was wondering can u have an abortion bc supposely my friend did and she came back the next day suppoesely she is on this medicine that will kill the baby.. she says she was 4 months pregnant. so like can u.. i dont think she can. i think she is lieing.. any advice (link)
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Well it sounds like your friend is not being completely honest. There is the morning after pill, but that has to be taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex. There is also the "abortion pill" which is really a combination of two medications, mifepristone and misoprostol that is an option for women who are 8 weeks pregnant or less. Most doctors won't even do an abortion after the first trimester (about three months). She would also be showing a little by 4 months so it would have been harder to hide it.
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Hey:)
Thanks for answering,
So you know Onch,
Well like what brand are those big glasses he wears?
like the circle-ish ones with the rainbow frames.
Ive noticed he has alot of those,
I SO want some :( badly.
Thank you! (link)
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A lot of the pairs he wears are from OC Shades. Here is their website. They also have some on ebay if you want to try that. Hope this is what you are looking for...
http://www.ocshades.com/p3006/3006---Big-Super-Round-Sunglasses/product_info.html
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Does anyone know if Kellan Lutz has an official Myspace? (link)
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Well he doesn't have a page that he created himself, but his sister supposedly runs this one and tries to get as many messages as possible to her brother. I'm sure he checks it out himself once in a while. It seems pretty legit.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewProfile&friendID=354774299
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What song did Jesse McCartney sing from his new album on Ellen DeGeneres show on his latest appearance? I couldn't watch it. (link)
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He sang his new single "It's Over." Here is a clip so you can check it out...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnQMCfqozuE
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there was a movie that i have seen but i cant remember the name and i need help.
i think it was in new york and there were big trucks going in a tunnel that was under the river and the trucks had gasoline in them and somehow blew up. the entire tunnel collapsed and there was people trapped in it. i remember a character had to stick a bomb in like clay or something to blow up a wall to escape. i think its called sunshine? or something like that?? (link)
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That sounds like Daylight starring Sylvester Stallone.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daylight_(film)
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ever since i was in 7th grade (i'm a soon to be sophomore in high school), i have always kept my old school work for the entire year. like if marking period one finishes, i'd put all the work for each subject into a folder labeled, for example, "english, marking period one." however, in freshman year, i got SO MANY PAPERS. and we weren't allowed to clean out our binders until the end of the semester... or TWO marking periods worth! it was crazy. but after the first semester ended and i went to put all the papers into my folders, i realized that folders just weren't cutting it. the folders were WAY overpacked. i have seen drawers that have dividers in them that way, like this:
http://www.madcropper.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/09/tracie-claiborne-scrap-room2.jpg
but my desk doesn't have drawers like that (and i don't want to buy a wheely storage unit).
does anyone have any ideas of how to store my old papers? please do NOT suggest binders either, because it will take forever to hole punch
and i only keep the papers until the last day of school, and then i sort through them to figure out what's truly important that i'll use for a long time & what's unimportant.
thanks (link)
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They have little storage boxes with the dividers already in them just like the picture you have. They aren't too expensive and can hold a good amount. You can find them many places like Staples or even Wal-Mart. Here is an example so you know what to look for (and it's on sale!)...
http://www.containerstore.com/browse/Product.jhtml?CATID=74538&PRODID=10012617
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what is the name of the song when will smith starts to walk ?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=n8LfRq61dE4
(the song that plays) (link)
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Party People by Nelly and Fergie
On YouTube...
http://youtube.com/watch?v=FLQJLtG4bj0
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so i just heard this song tonight on the radio. its an R&B/hip hop style song, and the only words i can remeber are "that girl is dangerous" or maybe it was "this", not "that" but yeah. i googled and all i got was a song by matt pokora, but that one sounds too pop. the one i heard was more hip hop & upbeat. does anyone know what this song could be? (link)
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It sounds like you are looking for this...
Dangerous by KARDINAL OFFISHALL featuring AKON
Here it is on YouTube,,,
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kFeaqB-AAMo
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Ok two questions. I need help figuring out what these two episodes are called. The one with future dwight, and the one when he thinks hes in the CIA, i have no idea what they are called but i wanna watch them bc i hear they are really funny. thanks! (link)
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The one with future Dwight is...
Branch Closing (Season 3, Episode 7)
The one with CIA Dwight is...
A Benihana Christmas (Season 3, Episode 10)
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So like..I'm 142 lbs now, which is still overweight. seeing as I'm approx 5 feet tall. I don't look fat.
Anyhoo, I want to (hopefully) lose about 10-15 lbs by the end of June. I have a lot of muscle except I have a lot of flab ontop of it. But no matter how much I cut down on junk food, eat healthily, and exercise 3-4 days a week for 1-2 hrs, I can't seem to lose more weight (I've lost about 4 lbs in a month?)
So what can I do to lose weight faster? (link)
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My friend had the same problem as you. She cut down her food and was exercising regularly but nothing was working... until she started running. I don't know what you've been doing for exercise, but adding some endurance running should help. It's not about how fast you run, it's more about getting a steady pace, keeping your heart rate up and doing it for a good amount of time. Try starting out trying to run a mile (that's 4 times around a standard track). If you get tired, don't stop completely, just walk. Don't forget to stretch before and after. Also, walk a little bit after you run for a cool down and drink plenty of water.
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what dress is this: http://images.starpulse.com/pictures/2006/11/22/previews/Carrie%20Underwood-SPX-002661.jpg (link)
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This is the Max Azria Atelier dress that she wore to the American Music Awards.
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http://farm1.static.flickr.com/168/442739396_ca8527871f.jpg (link)
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The short little legs make me think that they are Corgi dogs.
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how to use a fishey eye lens effect on my photos with photoshop??? like exact way of doing it for excample (tools-->applications ,etc) somehting like that exact directions :) tnx (link)
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To get a fisheye lens effect in Photoshop go to...
Filter > Distort > Spherize
Then you can choose how much of a distortion you want. On a related note, the filter will only operate on a circle that goes to the edge of the shortest dimension, leaving undistorted corners. So if you want to apply it to the entire image, increase the canvas size by at least 200%... Image > Canvas Size.
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can you get pregnant if your cherry hasnt been popped? (link)
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YES! Getting your "cherry popped" really just means that the hymen is broken. The first time you have sex your hymen is broken... so the first time you have sex you can get pregnant.
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What is the song in friends season nine when joey and rachel first kiss?
remember when joey sees ross and charlie he goes and kisses rachel there was a song played there when they closed the door.. what was it?!?? (link)
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That song is "Untitled" by Interpol. Here is a video for it...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6LlrkcKaWEI
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how to grow taller (link)
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Unfortunately, most of the factors determining how tall we are come from our genetics. There are a lot of websites out there with claims for miracle pills that will help you grow but they simply do not work. There are a few other things to consider though... Women usually reach their tallest height shortly after puberty but can grow until around 21. Men are the same except they may grow until 25. A healthy diet with a good amount of vitamins and minerals will help you reach your tallest height. Make sure you get plenty of calcium. Caffeine and smoking may stunt your growth but that hasn't been proven. There are exercises like yoga and pilates that may help to increase the spinal fluid and therefore lengthen your body also.
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what's that song called that was on american idol gives back?
it was on the video with the mosquito nets... it starts w/ "help, i am dying..." or something like that? (link)
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That song is called "Breath Me" by Sia. Here is the music video...
http://youtube.com/watch?v=U6PGrub3jUc
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