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so.. basically.

im 13. turning 14. and i have been thinking alot about sex, but i dont want to yet.
and i tend to like guys alot older then me.

so.. [3] queations.
1) How old were you?
2) Do you regret it?
3) Did it hurt?

1. I was 14
2. I do not regret it
3. It did hurt

Regardless of how old you are when you loose your virginity, it is most likley going to hurt. I don't regret loosing mine when I was 14 because I'm still with the guy who took my virginity. But, a lot of people are different. Make sure you really care about the person you want to have sex with, and make sure you're ready. :]

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I've never given or received oral sex. I am 15/f. People say it is normal to do it at my age and I sort of agree. I am afraid of having a guy go down on me because I don't have this kind of experience and I am shy. I'm sort of afraid of going down on a guy because I don't want to do it wrong.

People always say you're supposed to wait until it feels right but I think it will only feel right when I give it a try.

Any advice??

I think being weirded out about oral is normal for someone who has never tried it. You may not be completley comfortable when your doing it, but relax, and if you get to the point where you're seriously really uncomfortable with it, it means you aren't ready. And there's really no way you could give head wrong, unless you bite it. Just try different things with it, and see what type of things he liked. :]

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