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There's this guy who I was close with for a while, then after holidays he got a girlfriend (like 5 months ago)
Before they started going out, we talked a lot, and joked around.
Now when he's with his girlfriend, he ignores me completely!
Like he looks right through me! wtf?
But when his girlfriend isn't around, he's always jokey and nice talking to me again.
Usually when I see him around school as a joke we kinda knuckle punch :P
Once he walked by with his girlfriend and he lifted up his hand to knuckle punch when his girlfriend wasn't looking..

Wtf.

Also in history class, instead of asking the people around him, he asks me for a pen, even though I'm 4 seats away...
But before history class he stands there with his girlfriend and he completely ignores me..

What do you think is going on?? (link)
he probably doesn't want to make his girlfriend jealous! just smile when you pass him! if you're friends or know his girlfriend go talk to her, then bring him into the cnversation!


i want to have sex and am ready but do not know how to let my bf know... he and i are both 17 (link)
well... if you wanna have sex... and he wants to have sex... as my friend says... it just happens! =] just get theing heated and see how things go! or just tell him you're ready! but make sure you have protection!!! hope it helped! =]


me= 16/f
him=17/m

we've been dating nearly a year and im in need of ideas of gifts to give him on our 1 year. I love him with all my heart he's the sweetest guy ive ever met and a lil emotional. i want the gift for hjim to be amazing and remind him of me since he's gotten me many amazing gifts such as a ring, neclace, and an adorable stuffed animal to cuddle with. I dont want the gift to be something to do with his interests cuz thats more of a christmas/b-day gift. I want it to be just something that reminds him of Us and our amazing year together. we havent taken many pictures so a scrapbook wont work im thinking that for our 2 year when we have more things to put in it.
give me as many ideas as possible i need a ton!!

thanks (link)
is there anything thats happened between the two of you that your always taking and laughing about... well get something that has connotations of that! or get him something that is engraved with the date you started going out or something!


16/f. I love looking at myself in the mirror. And it's weird..because I'm not cocky and I'm not confident. But I'm like...self obsessed I guess. I spend about 30 minutes in front of a mirror before school. Everything has to be perfect. Sometimes, I'll just stand there and observe my features...and admire them. I also take a LOT of pictures of myself. SO many that there's not enought memory in my computer to store them all! And it's funny as well...because I've never had this problem before. Going through middle and elementary school, I could care less what I looked like. And in middle school and early high school, I had really bad acne problems and so I kept my face hidden from half the people half the time. Now, however, since I got a boyfriend this year and since I lost weight and began looking "prettier" I look at myself too much. I'm afraid this will develop into a serious narcissistic problem. It might already be. And it's interfering with my schoolwork...even though school's over - because I spend more time looking at myself in the mirror and fixing my hair and face...than actually taking notes in class! I don't know what to do. My face is beginning to clear up more (I'm on Accutane) yet ..what if the problem gets worse when my face is near flawless? I'm not conceited AT ALL. I don't come off that way. I just never had the confidence..and now it kinda shows..and I actually like myself for once. How can I manage this? Keep it normal? ...Ahhh. (link)
i think its grea that you feel better about yourself now... and theres nothing wrong with looking in a mirror... my friend does it everytime she can... but if you think its turning into a problem... tell your friends to take your mirrors away everytime you look in it! friends are there to help! use them!!!!!


There this guy I'm kind of interested in. He's in one of my classes and we're always talking and stuff, but I want to be able to get him to "see" me in a different way. Any tips on how I can be more flirty subtly? I always seem to be near him, and its a class where we are always working on projects or in groups. We're always looking and smiling at eachother and chatting, but I want to be able to do more.

ADVICE? (link)
well... onw thing that ALWAYS seemed to work for me and my mates, is complimenting him! especially telling him he smells nice!! an added bonus to that compliment is that it gives you an excuse to get closer to him!!! and who said you had to flirt subtly? do it outrageously!! that will probably get your result... and if not... its fun anyway!!!!!!!!




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