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well, i'm 15 and i'm definitely not having sex before marriage. me and bf are sure of that and are strong with our beliefs.
but for me, i'm little lost on some things. i would just like to be a little bit smarter with the subject.
1st - is ejaculation (for both guys and girls)good or bad? is it gross? does it get on anything?
2nd - what are orgasms for? what do they do? why do people always ask about them?
3rd - what is "popping the cherry"? is it bad? is it something to watch out for? does it hurt?
4th - and when i am married i'm a little afraid to have sex because a lot of people say it can and can't hurt and girls can always can get pregnant. is there anything to really be afraid of? what is there to really watch out for?
5th - how well do condoms work? would condoms work everytime we would have sex?
thanx for answering... (link)
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1: ejaculation isn't bad, it's just the name for when semen comes out of a penis. there is just a point when you are having sex that the man reaches a point where he ejaculates inside of you, or inside the condom. women can ejaculate but it is much less often and it doesn't really matter...don't worry about it. when you have sex there will be discharge in your vagina that acts as a lubricant, but that is different than ejaculating
2: there are many nerve endings in male and female genitals, that is what makes sex so pleasurable. an orgasm is just when someone reaches a point where they are going to "explode". it is just a brief feeling of extreme pleasure that fills your body, which in movies is when women moan and such :)
3: women and girls have a very thin layer of skin that covers a small part of the vaginal opening. when you have sex for the first time, this skin breaks. popping the cherry is just a term used when a girl loses her virginity. It hurts a little, but nothing to be afraid about, it may bleed, but not too much.
4:sex hurts a little at first, but once you do it you will begin to like it. sex is meant to be a pleasurable experience and it is nothing to be afraid of! don't worry about the pain, it is very easy to handle, you may not even feel pain at all! condoms can break or not work, and birth control may not always work. that is why not having sex is the only way to be sure you won't get pregnant. However, once your married you will have sex ofcourse and when you do just talk to your husband first about what your plan would be if you got pregnant by accident. keep using some form of birth control and you will be fine.
5: 99% of the time, there is always a chance it won't work, but usually it does
hope that helped!
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okay so i get cali is cheif resident...but who was chief resedent before that....and im confused about who is becoming chief of surgery...is richard staying? (link)
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i don't think they ever say who was chief resident before cally, but i think that richard is probably staying, otherwise mcdreamy's big shpeal about how he shouldn't be chief and richard should would be pointless. so yeah, richard is staying unless we find out at the beginning of next season that he actually doesn't want it, but whatever. it's confusing. i can't wait till it starts up again!
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I live in Australia =]
I'm finding it really hard to sleep at night. It takes me like 4 hours to get to sleep no matter how late or early I go to bed. It only happens on school nights and I HATE MY SCHOOL WITH A PASSION. I also had no troubles sleeping in Primary school and my first high school
So any suggestions on how to get to sleep? (link)
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ok here is a list of suggestions that I have used to get to sleep:
* go to your doctor and get prescription sleep medication
* get a book of relaxing yoga to do before bed
* drink warm milk or tea before bed (uncafeinated)
* DON"T eat chocolate or drink coffee or soda before bed
* read a couple of pages of a book before trying to sleep
* Don't watch tv or go on the computer right before you go to sleep
* After 20 minutes of not being able to sleep get up and pace the room and move around a little and then try again
* change schools, the reason you can't sleep is because you are very stressed out about the next day, that's the real problem
goodluck!
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I am having a problem with a friend of 1 1/2 years that lives down the street from me. I am a man, 42 and he is 30. We are both married. We both like cars and mechanical stuff, so we have lots in common. He has all the qualities that I want in a friendship, like honesty, integrity, non-smoker, light drinker, no drugs, etc. I really enjoyed talking to him, but I was always the one to initiate contact. I used to go down to his house and talk to him when I saw his garage door up and he was working on his car, but it's been three months since I've talked to him and he hasn't made any effort to contact me. Whenever we would see each other, he acted as if he liked me, he was in a good mood and talkative. He obviously knows where I live and he has my phone numbers, but he never calls or comes by. He knows that I race a dirt track car every Saturday night, and I've told him that he is welcome to go with me any time, but he never does. He never asks me to do anything with him, either. I feel that I am the only one that wants to be friends, so I am not planning on contacting him any more because I don't want to be a pest or be in a one-sided friendship, which is not a true friendship im my book. I figure that if he really likes me and wants to be friends with me, then he will make an effort. It's really disappointing to have found a guy that I really would like for a friend and be rejected. This is really bothering me, because I have no close friends and I was hoping to develope a close friendship. :( What do you think? (link)
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make one final act of friendship, because he might just be shy. after that I would suggest giving up and trying to find other men at the race track or whatever, don't waste your time on this guy
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hi^_^
can you guys please tell me your favorite songs so i can download some new songs?
thaank you:) (link)
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britney spears has great music
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what are things i can masterbate with without poping my cherry (link)
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a vibrating razor, your fingers
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Me and my Boyfriend were kisssing and he stops kissing me grabs me,and kisses me on my forhead..He always does that and then after he is finished he grabs me tight and Holds unto me for awhile.so i was teling my friends about what had happened And they just Looked at me like it was the stupidest thing ever...err..They didnt find it cute i think they found it childish or origninal and i dont think much men do such things..Is it me or was it realy sweet? or am i just a sucker for stupid things such as that. (link)
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that's really sweet, they are probably just jealous. from now on, don't kiss and tell because it makes wonderful moments like that not as great!
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Hey. Well, last week I went to a dance/ social thing with my friends, I go to it every two weeks, it's called the Y-Dance. So anyways, we were walking around talking to random people like we always do, haha, and we talked to one kid that we actually became friends with. He was really hot and seemed extremely nice. I met him once before but I don't think he remembered me so I didn't bring it up. He gave me and my two other friends his myspace link and he told us to request him and we did and now he's all three of our myspace friends. My two other friends think he's hot, and they think he's nice too, but they said I should "go for it." The thing is, I think he was either flirting with all of us equally or that's just his personality and he wasn't flirting at all. He made us all like sit on him and stuff, but I refused to sit on him becuase I didn't want to hurt him by sitting on him, and only one of my friends ended up sitting on him. I really like him and it seemed he may have flirted with me a tiny bit more than my friends, but I'm not sure. He's in eigth grade and I'm in seventh, but he didn't seem too much more experienced than me. I don't really know what to do without asking him out and flirting a lot becuase I'm not sure if he likes me.
Is there a way for me to flirt just a little bit with him, without seeming desperate or that I really really like him? If so then what do I say and what do I do? Note that I'm really not pretty, http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=27091707&albumID=0&imageID=10765058, and I'm a complete dork. haha, but please help anyways? I really need it and would appreciate it, and of course rate you. (link)
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google flirting tips
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hi ok so me and my boyfriend are redecorating his room. hes got a plasma screen tv and he is trying to find a blue light that he can put behind it to give off a glow like effect. something similar looking to a blacklight if that helps. (link)
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find a lamp store, they usually have strane lighting that you can order, also just try target or walmart
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Alright so i like this kid and we have been friends for a pretty long time but just this week he broke up with his gf should i ask him out or give him time..? Plzzz help (link)
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wait one week, then ask him out. in the meantime try to console him and help him through the breakup
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I kno how to put pics on my myspace page from photobucket but whenever I put them on there,they come out WAY to big!! how do i make them smaller??:]-THANX! (link)
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change the settings on photobucket
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i need a new aim s/n what could it be im randomgrl777 but i dont want to do that. im punk goth~im 13~fav #s are 7 and 666~i love evanescence and the used and eyeliner and eyes and penguins and gore and death and dark stuff~im lost on a screan name help me. (link)
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penguineyes666
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oka where should i start well first of all there this group that me and my friends had made up right and we was all doing fine and stuff so anywayz like few days later they said they didnt want to be in it cause it starts to much drama because there these girls at school who also have a group and they start saying stuff like we copy of them and stuff. Anways so now we dont have the group nomore, so now two of my friends told me that they were in another group which is the group that broke us apart in the first place. so now they are in it and they didnt even ask me if its was okay and stuff so they just bascally left me out. what should i do. (link)
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make up a new group for idiots who want to be in these lame groups
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how many calories are in one of those big bagels from a bakery? (link)
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about 300-600
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i cant find a song that goes
''jkjkjk lololol''
''did thoes peircings hurt''
''fuck you''
its more rock kinda music
help me whats the name of it and the site that lets you type in lyrics and it finds the song (link)
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it's called "really bad song" by the idiots
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okay today i was running outside in my neighborhood. i forgot to stretch and since i have health now in school (13/f) i havent done gym for a while.. and my basketball thingie ended about 2 months ago, and volleyball on saturdays just finished like last week. i dont run alot on a daily basis.. maybe to like the bus in the morning or like.. during school sometimes.. but not really.
anyways i ran really fast on the toes of my sneakers pushing myself to go real fast.. (im training to be the fastest soccer player on my school team next year, since i didnt make it this year.) and then after my feet were like shaking a little and i felt like my feet were hurting. i'd been running for about 20 mins then.. does that like litle pain in my feet mean that im losing calories or something? hm.. thanks.
also how can i get better at soccer? im not that amazing.. i've only played 3 rec seasons.. but iv'e always loved it but i never had a chance to play when i was younger (i did basketball and dance when i was younger) but i'd loooove if i can get on the top team for my school next year since i didnt even make the second team, the B team. i just love soccer so much tell me how i can become a hella lot better! THANKS! :) (link)
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go on jogs and go to soccer camp
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I really do not understand the message behind any of these movies! There is something wrong with me.
The Royal Tenenbaums
The Life Aquatic of Steve Zissou
Garden State
The Virgin Suicides
Igby Goes Down
i heart huckabees
why do people like them so much (link)
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the message of the virgin suicides is kind of like the struggles that girls go through at home and all of the others are just like about life. people like them because they portray life in an honest way instead of all hollywoody
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what goes on in you gothic peoples heads? like do get songs in your head and what are your thoughts and do you love people or not and what do you goths think about? (link)
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we think about wearing black and being emo and killing ourselves
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Fuck! I made a bet with this guy in my class that I would go on this ride when I go to Great Adventure (northeast) like a week from now, for my orchestra concert. Its to go on Superman. Now.. I'm a 13 year old girl in seventh grade, who is afraid of heights at times, and doesnt "love" rollercoasters that much. heck i was even afraid on the wild mouse! i've never been on a ride with loops and stuff and the superman doesnt have that.. but i saw like on youtube how high you drop at first.. howly freaking crap. is there anyone like me who has gone on this ride at great adventure (or anywhere else if they are the same) and how does it feel? my cousin also said it was hella awesome.. but.. i mean i wanna go on it but can i get hurt on it? i dont have a bad heart or anything but on rollercoasters i feel like my stomach or heart will pop right outta my mouth! if i have no heart conditions and im like 5'5 so im above the height thingy.. will i be okay (though hella scared) on it? also where should i sit. front, middle or back? which is better?
lastly is it okay that i get a note from my mom to give the health people so that i get a wheelchair or whatever they give you so you can skip all the lines? me and my friends wanna do that.. or just butt through people talking on cellphones like we're really important haha. any rides to reccomend for me, too? i love water rides.. im not too afraid of the really high ones.. but for roller coasters.. eh.. idk give me ones you'd think i'd like! thanks a bunches! :] (link)
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yeah, i've been on it. honestly you will feel like you're gonna fall out of your seat the first time, but it's not dangerous at all. the second and third times it won't even feel like you're really falling at all, it's really fun
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I've had sex before, so don't lecture me. That's not what I'm here for.
The past 2 guys I've had sex with had large penises.
I really like someone & I think we are going to have sex soon, but his penis isn't as big as the guys I've usually had sex with.
What if I seem loose to him? Is there any way possible to get tight again, within like a day or two? Please help. (link)
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you can see if there is a vagina rejuvination center near where you live
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