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Hey,my name's Stephanie, 16 years old and i live in the UK. If you want my advice then i'll happily give it. If you don't agree with it then that's just tough, i say it how i see it.
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i like this girl. but she has a bf. i think she likes me. but im not sure., she told me im hot. i think she was kiding. so what sould i do.
thanks.... p.s. peace
you shouldn't do anything! This girl has a boyfriend and if you thought she was joking then she probably was.
How can I meet a guy just out of the blue? I do not want to make it look like it was planned or anything cause that doesn't really work...i've tried
But anyways all my friends are telling me "you can have any guy you want...your so pretty...da da da da da....
And it gets me annoyed cuz that is so not true. It feels like I never have an opportunity to go out with someone. So I am going to take a chance.
How do I just meet a guy?
Join a club or something, a hobbie that you're good at and enjoy. That way you can talk to guys there, especially if you work in teams and stuff.
OK i am in the 7th grade and i need some ideas for a cute room. Im really colorful,i particularly like pink, purple, and blue. I like all colors though and i just need some ideas. Any pictures would be AWSOME.
thanx a bunch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~i rate~
Well if you like all colours you could do a rainbow stripes thing all around your room. I've never seen it done before but you could try it!
well i met my bestfriend on newyears last year and we've been really close since..its just lately since the new school year has started we really havent been as close..this always ends up happening and i dont want to lose another bestfriend.we go to different schools and all..but it just seems we can never find time to chill with each other and when we do we never have anything to talk about or do because we dont really have anything in common because i guess our personalities have changed becuase now we hang out with different and i just dont know what to do..somneone please help
**desperate need**
You could make the effort to hang out at the weekend but it sounds like you guys are finished. If your personalities have changed then you're growing apart and there's not really anything you can do. It's probably best to let nature take it's course and make the effort to find some new friends and hang out with them.
if i hit a vien in my tongue wut can happen?
You could bleed to death, seriously. It happened to a guy in our town who got his tongue pierced.
Ok well, for Halloween I'm being Samara from The Ring. I have everything, i just need to find a white long, worn out, dress. Does anyone have any ideas where i could find one? thnx
xoxoxoxoxox
You could get your Mom to make you one or you could try a costume shop, one that sells victorian or spiritual types of stuff.
ok this might be long but plz help...ok well this guy asked if i wanted to go to the movies with him and i said yes, but i thought we were goin as friends..then the next day my friend sent me a message and said congrats u goin out with *** i said what! were just gonna go to the movies...so then i texted ***** and i said u know were not goiun out,,@@@ said that we were, what diod u tell her, and he replied well she thought right i like u and i was gonna tell u when we got to the movies no matter what u were gonn a say, and he asked if i wanted to go out, i told hgim i dont really want a bf right now, sry, and then he got mad now he wont return my calls are answer my messages what do i do
There's not much you can do. Just make sure he knows that it's got nothing to do with him or the way he looks. Give him time to cool off and try not to dent his ego anymore than you already have.
Wats some good websites that are free that have really good games that are really fun
why dont you type 'free games' into www.google.com
ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help
You don't know how to have sex? Ok visit this website http://www.scarleteen.com It'll tell you everything you need to know and answer all your little sex problems.
Hey everyone...my best friend always seems to not follow through with her plans. Most of the time it's the fault of her parents cuz they can be pretty strict. I know I can't be mad at her for that, but sometimes I feel very frustrated that she can never hang out cuz i wanna spend time with her n stuff. And the times wen she says the can hang out, the next day il ask her if she can still hang and she'll say "maybe" or "idk" and then by the time she figures out she can't hang out it's too late to do n e thing about it. It just annoys me that even when she says she can hang out something always happens, is there anyway I can change this?
Let her make the plans because there's nothing you can really do. If you confront her about it she'll just blame it all on her parents and like you said, you can't be mad at her for that. Let her know that you're willing to hang out but she has to make the first move. In the meantime hang out with some other friends.
whenever i am around my guy friends they laugh at me cuz im funny sometimes lol and ya but they cant see me as going out with them cuz all my other girl friends have bfs but the guys just see me as a funny friend. what should i do?
Don't do anything. Just appreciate the fact you have some cool guy friends who can give you info on what goes on in guys minds. Go flirt with some other guys and catch yourself a boyfriend.
Hello! I am a 14 year old young lady and I need help with this certain problem. Where I go to school, there are alot of people that dress "punk" or something like that. I love to dress that way and I wear punk clothes outside of school though. I don't want to wear my punky clothes in school because people see me as this smart and conservative girl. Yes, I do have good grades and I am conservative, but I love to dress "punk", but I am afraid that people will see me as this "wannabe" or "poser" and I don't want that to happen. What should I do? Do what I am doing now or should I finally stop hiding from the shadows? I know what people will say, they will say that I should not care what others think, but it's not that easy when you're a teen! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you again!
Just carry on the way you're now or else it'll look like you've suddenly changed yourself to fit in. Wear your punk clothes on non uniform days to show you're not hiding your true identity. I'm the same, everyone at school thinks i'm this clean cut little girl who listens to Britney Spears and stuff. God knows where they get this idea from, just because i've got good grades? At home i listen to rock music and i wear rock clothes. I think it's really funny and my friends are always taking the mick.
me and this boy have been going out for almost two months..i really like him but he has cheated on me..but he was honest and told me..i also like his brother which likes me too..i dont know if me and my boyfriend should breake up and i should go with his brother or stay with him..can you help me?
Two months and he cheated on you, this guy is such a loser. Drop him and go for the Brother.
Hi ! Well i was wondering what would be a good hair color for me to go with this fall/wonter i want to go darker but i don't want it to wash out my face ya know ?? So like my skin is like a creamy natural color not to light not to dark..and my eyes are greyish/hazel !! Yeah..right now my hair is Light Ash Blonde !! Thanks !!!!
I'd go for a reddish brown, it's Autumny and it looks great on some of the girls at my school.
I am going to a concert that falls on my birthday (Nov. 12th, I'll be 24). My boyfriend and I got tickets with his brother and his brother's g'friend who is also my best friend of 10 years. Now, I've written a little about this before, I may write about it again too, the whole relationship deal going on, some of you may recognize. My best friend and I have had an intimate past. I am still very attracted to her. We are both bi-sexual and if we were to choose a chic for each other we would be together. But we are not, we are with two boys that are brothers. So, yeah, we're going to this concert, we're supposed to go altogether. But seeing as how her b'friend is extremely jealous of us hanging out, which he tries not to show, but makes it obvious in my eyes, I was talking to him the other day and he's like, "So, where are you guys parking for the concert? We're meeting you there, right? We want to take our car." (He speaks for my friend a lot, I've noticed). And I said, "Well, we have to drop the baby off in your town anyways, then why don't me and (my b'friend) drive up with you?" He's like, "I don't care." He said it low tone, I could tell he DOES care. So I dropped the subject with him and decided to take it up with my friend. I haven't done that yet. I know she will agree with me, but I also know he is going to influence her to side with him on trying to get out of it (being with us). Now my side of this is that the concert falls on my birthday. I want to be with friends. Also, I'm going to be on a break from my child for the first time since he was born. I want to hang out with friends, not just split up and go home after the show with my boyfriend which is where we spend all of our time when we have the baby. I want to be able to hang with them and have a couple of drinks with them (especially my chic friend that he never lets me have enough time with. It's not like we're going to do anything, I just want to be able to hang out at least halfway like the way we used to without being monitored by the boys. Now, he's not really the type of person you can just talk to, he'll always stick to his thoughts. Any suggestions? Should I just try to force the night the way I know it should go even if it entails a bad mood on her b'friend?
This guy obviously has a major jealousy problem but it's his problem not yours. It's your birthday and you should spend it the way you want to. Enjoy yourself and ignore any evil eyes he gives you.
can you put water on your contact if you're in school and don't have your solution?
NO!
what songs can a group of girls ( lets say abt 4 or 5 pple ) sing for a school contest ?
( rv idol ) preferably a simple song with a good chorus and a easy solo ? ( or none at all )
Do Abba, mama mia or something. They're easy, fun and you could even dress up in the awful clothes they used to wear. If the judges are oldies they'll love it.
ok my bestest friend i new scence i was in dippers she took my boyfriend.one day i was walking to my boyfriends house,and i open the door and they were kissing i just broke down and started crying.i miss him really much .what should i do get a new boyfriend?im not my friend lisas anymore
I don't think it's a good idea to get back with this guy after he's betrayed you. However you should only find another guy if you feel as if you're ready for another relationship. If not then just have fun being single and remember, happiness is the best revenge. Try talking to your friend, ask her why she did it. She doesn't sound like a very nice person but if you've been friends for so long, maybe it's something worth saving.
what is a hayman or heyman or i dont know how to spell it but i hope u know wut im askin and can it be broken when gettin fingered?
I think i know what you mean and yeah it can. Depends on how you're fingered really, it can also be affected by sport and tampons ect. It doesn't mean you're not a virgin if you happen to 'break' it. The best place to go for advice on stuff like this is http://www.scarleteen.com
ok i broke up with my X boyfriend last year for the 2nd time. I don't kno y but everytime i read a story about a relationship tearing apart i think of him. I have a new boyfriend and hes the best and i love him but i realize i miss my X sooooo much. He was always there for me. He would make me feel better. I cry every time i think of him and all the things we talked about. What am i susposed 2 do. I kno i should 4 get about him cuz we go 2 dif. skools now and i never really see him n e more but i really miss him. help me!!!
sry this is so long
-confused
You have this great guy that you're with NOW so stop dwelling in the past and have fun. There's no point in constantly looking back because it doesn't change anything. Put some effort into having fun and do whatever you can to take your mind off him. You can move on if you just put a bit of effort into it. It'll take time but it's worth it.